40 Carbondale, PA
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My self-summary
Hello ( : Well I would say I'm a fun out going woman that loves making new friends easy to talk to,im straight forward I tell it like it is / smartass woman .if I like u ill tell u no games.I hav a good sence of humor but hate to be teased. Very senitive /emotional/stuborn when I know I'm right an will be ur best friend if treated the same I believe in fairness .so don't be selfish or take advantage of my kindness ,I love spending time with my son an I help my mom out by driveing her around when needed to.I'm very independent but love a handyman for hard jobs an ocaisional yard work.looking for a guy to put me ahead of his friends but not his kid mine comes 1st in my life so I wouldn't exspect it from them .would like to be part of the family meaning id love the idea of family sitting down together for dinner. if u hav kids great let's all hangout get to know each other! I don't want to be the girl on the side !an Left out of your life, if u feel the same look me up( :
What I’m doing with my life
Well I'm trying to better myself .I have had a lot of negitive people in my life trying to bring me down lately . Sadly Being around negitive people is like a bad addiction, u want to quit an get away but they keep u sucked into there web of misery an its hard to get away, like a fly caught in a spider web u fight an if ur lucky u get out ! Just something I've realized lately ! Well I'm looking for a man to build a life with me so far ive been unsucessful ! Lots of guys just want to be free not attached to someones life as a whole what's wrong with u men today ? What's wrong with wanting to settle down live as a couple together in the same house , just because u live together doesn't mean u can't hav alone time for urself to or nights with the guys or the girls ! Why does commitment scare so many of u away ? I'm planing a future for me an my son I'm taking care of my mom a lot right now she's been sick! I'm curently still out of work like a lot of people so im helping my family atleast it takes up a lot of my time ,but would like to find something to do part time .I see myself as a creative free spirted person, that is really a positive optimistic person just beat up by life !I enjoy learning an seeing new places & things .Sometimes I take on to many projects an get over worked. Im in search of a good man to ground me an encourage my strong points not my weakness an support me both emotionaly an physicaly. An so far on this site all I've found are self involved insenitive jerks either looking to get laid or just want to text an never talk on the phone or meet for a date ,an the ones I do meet out are liers saying they want to go out again talk for like a day then disapear! I'm done with the BS games. So if u take the time to read this an are serious about meeting someone to build a life with , I'm strong willed an kind of independent like doing things myself .but not apposed to help from the right person .Update : my mom is doing better can finally drive herself on small trips, so i hav more time to myself now !( : an my job search continues hope to hav good news soon !well sadly my moms eye has become worse again so I'm back to shofer duty again when ever needed ! Pray for us she will have surgry on her eye for scare tissue jan 7 hope it works ( : well the surgry really didn't improve anything much still has problems ) : oh well !just keep hopeing things will improve now.
I’m really good at
Helping others with there problems( : while ignoring my own personal life's problems ! Lol But am not going to give up on me . I've learned something new lately that your never to old to reinvent your self ! An that I'm good at learning from my past experiences ( :
The first things people usually notice about me
How easy I am to talk to! An my eyes ,I guess some guys notice my long legs an my but. I've been told there nice ( :
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Well I'm not much into reading books but as a kid I did enjoy daniel steels book summers end! Movies: Love romantic comedies,ocaisional action flick Hate horror movies. Enjoy going to wine tasteings, Music: concerts, like journy,bon jovi,U2,fleetwood mac , most 80s music, like a lot of curent stuff to,some country music,some rap, Love to sing karaoke alone or duet with someone. Love going Danceing,an hanging out with my son on the weekends when he wants to teenagers if u have 1 u know what I mean . Food: well pasta olive garden is my fav place to go! Tgi fridays ! Ninas for bites , an who doesn't enjoy a good pizza favorite pizza places are gourmet slice ,an roma's . I love to bake! I can cook as well have a few faves I'm good at !! Love milk chocolate!! That's basically me you want to know something else just ask ( ;
The six things I could never do without
My son, my mom, my pets,friends , an a good man to love me for me !! Still working on the last one ☺
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything( : how to improve my life an those around me. An will I ever meet someone that can be both my best friend an my lover!( :
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm at my sons football game during the season ! Other wise either im home watching tv an relaxing, or out seeing a friends band play.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
No anwser , till I know people .well will admit 1 thing that I feel lost an frustrated in my search to find love .but I think most of us on here do ..
You should message me if
If u can anwser my ?s about why men behave the way I said .Your interested in building a friendship or to date either way is good with me, I would like to have more friends right now I'm tired of feeling alone! even when I'm with someone if u know what I mean!! Im looking for someone to talk to. the men in my life now are to complicated Time for a change. tired of the drama an excuses.. Message me if u like to talk to a woman instead of ur buddys about cars an politics.I would how ever be ok talking about motorcycles ! I'm So over jerks That care more about there friends then there girlfriend .If ur the non jealous type an secure with yourself I'm hear to talk or go out for a bite maybe see a movie an doesn't mind a girl having guy friends. Also very Important A Non Smoker Not interested in Dateing anyone that Smokes ! an please if ur the quiet type that only wants to text don't bother me I enjoy conversation either in person or on the phone !also I enjoy danceing if u don't then don't waste my time .I want someone to hav fun out with if ur just going to sit there an watch I'm better off without u! so if u fit my decription Message me (0: