I'm on this site because I'm looking for a partner, for a long term committed relationship. It's also nice to meet new friends along the way (particularly if you like to dance).
The most important quality in a partner, for me, is an active interest in deepening and growing. Dancing is optional.
Though I enjoy people and gatherings, I'm a bit of an introvert by nature.
I feel complete. I hope you do too. From that space, it feels exciting and challenging to relinquish singleton autonomy for intimate partnership.
In addition to the shared joy and fun and affection and play and work, we're going to disagree sometimes. And, we're both going to make mistakes. I see those pieces, and how we respond to them as help for us to blossom and deepen our roots. Yes, I'm saying that the manure is fertilizer, if we choose to use it that way.