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50 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 43–53
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:53am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A fun summary:

If you don't have time to listen to the link. Here's the written abbreviated version:

I'm okay alone but you’ve got something I need…

I think that we should get together and...try to see...

Some people say I’ve done okay for a boy...
Don't go too fast, but I go pretty far...

...sometimes, I think the world maybe hiding you from me.

...let’s get together and see

might you be the key?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making the most out of each and everyday.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- helping others and building community
- remodeling old houses
- listening, conversation, using my intuition, appreciating the simple gifts
- taking care of my family and friends
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a happy, friendly, authentic character.
I'm guessing I must look approachable or something because every country or place I visit people tend to approach me to ask for directions, etc.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
food - i'm very food friendly, i.e. i've not met a food i haven't liked

movies - As It Is In Heaven (K. Pollack) Departures (Y. Takita), Babette's Feast (G. Axel), Like Water for Chocolate (A. Arau), Chocolat (L. Hallstrom), Life Is Beautiful (R. Benigni), Cinema Paradiso, Shawshank Redemption, Magnolia, Inception, Juno, As Good As It Gets, Matrix, Blade Runner.

shows - i enjoy pretty much all performing arts , live music, etc...

music - very eclectic (listening to Krishna Das at the moment but it could easily be blues, jazz, older rock, modern pop, latin or brazilian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the ascetic in me says, "I can do without"

essentials besides air and water might be:
feeling loved, sense of purpose and connectivity (a nice bold red Cab. Sau. and a few close friends to share it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how might we grow as human beings to share and care for the planet and each other in a more loving way
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably at Home Depot with my 13.5 year old Labrador getting supplies for the next remodel project or perhaps considering a weekend excursion or simply unwinding from a full work week, enjoying some music, conversing with my neighbors and building a bit of community
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
won't be found in this box but will naturally emerge as we foster a meaningful, in-person friendship/relationship.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you think the key fits

- you are open to exploring the possibility of finding that elusive and sought after chemistry

- you prefer to spend less time in front of the computer and are open to meeting in person sooner rather than later