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50 M Oakland, CA

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
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Graduated from masters program
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Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Intelligent and intuitive character with an open mind and heart. I lived and studied in South America (80's-90's) and Europe (90's). I enjoy conversation that opens possibility and I tend to be curious and inquisitive. I've worked successfully in non-profits and for-profits. I prefer meaningful work that contributes to humanity. Currently in the healthcare field. I enjoy learning about human beings and the paths that have brought them to the present moment.

With an explorer spirit and open heart there is so much possibility...I'm looking forward to co-creating the storyline and living the remainder of the journey of discovery with a fun, smart, compassionate and passionate loving partner and companion.

I just turned the page on June 2nd to the big 5-0. That page turn made me very grateful and conscious of my youthful spirit and positive outlook and attitude. I'm happy to know that my energy and vitality are still youngsters.

If it's helpful to you I'm:
- an INFJ (low I, hi NF, low J and I can E very well)
- a 28/10 (creative energy and intuitive gifts in service of others)
- a wood dragon
- and either a 2 or 4 (can't decide) on the enneagram
What I’m doing with my life
Practicing the art of staying attentive and open. It's harder than you may think.' harder than I thought, at least. I don't know what you think, yet.
I’m really good at
- being wholeheartedly present and loyal
- listening, entering into the deeper flow of conversation and finding the path to share what matters most
- figuring out how things work, fixing broken things and wielding hand/power tools to get the job done from bathroom drain to that bracelet latch that just doesn't work right
The first things people usually notice about me
grounded, open, trustworthy, genuine, integral and earthy, Kapha energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
food - i've been lucky to taste much of south america and a bit of spain, portugal and france - delicious. i like exploring and encountering new foods

books - mostly work related lately (executive coaching and leadership development) although some fun reads include: The Art of Racing in the Rain, Loving What Is (K. Byron), The Geography of Bliss and River and I'm a big David Whtye fan so River Flow, Pilgrim and finally Rumi and Hafiz

movies - As It Is In Heaven (K. Pollack) Departures (Y. Takita), Babette's Feast (G. Axel), Like Water for Chocolate (A. Arau), Chocolat (L. Hallstrom), Life Is Beautiful (R. Benigni), Cinema Paradiso, Shawshank Redemption, Magnolia, Inception, Juno, As Good As It Gets

shows - pretty much all performing arts , live music, etc... i podcast Wait Wait Don't Tell Me and if we're talkin' tv then i have a range: from KVIE type programs to Orange is the New Black, So You Think You Can Dance, Treehouse Master (Pete, very creative guy) and Shark Tank.

music - very eclectic (listening to Krishna Das at the moment but it could easily be blues, jazz, older rock, modern pop, latin or brazilian samba
The six things I could never do without
the ascetic in me says, "I can do without"
but I do recognize some essentials...air, feeling loved, sense of purpose and connectivity with other (maybe a really good red wine and a few close friends to share it with)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
our planet and its inhabitants: how we share, how might we grow as human beings to share and care for the planet and each other better. how is all that related to the growth, expansion, capacity and complexity of human consciousness, self awareness, spirit. you know the basics
On a typical Friday night I am
probably at Home Depot with my 13.5 year old Labrador getting supplies for the next remodel project or perhaps considering a weekend excursion or simply unwinding from a full work week, enjoying some music, conversing with my neighbors and building a bit of community
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
won't be found in this box but will naturally emerge as we foster a meaningful, in-person friendship/relationship.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 43–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are open to exploring the possibility of finding that elusive and sought after chemistry