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Lydenator

21 / M / Bisexual / Available

Perth, Australia

His Details

Last Online
May 31
Ethnicity
Asian, Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
Less than $20,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Chinese (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hi there! My name's Lyden Mikura. I have a Chinese ancestry, but consider myself more Australian if anything. I always think that this online stuff gives off the wrong impressions of people, people are biased, they try to ignore their flaws, and they can only say so much about themselves, or think so much about themselves at any given time, to the point that they paint a picture of something that they aren't completely, or something that they maybe want to be. As such, I'll try to keep things as realistic as possible.

I'm currently 21, in my second year of studying Psychology and French at UWA, and planning to do post-grad in secondary teaching.

I've spent a lot of time contemplating my identity, and consider myself an agendered, panromantic demisexual.

I spend a lot of my time either at uni, studying, gaming, or badly attempting to teach myself piano/keyboard.

My hobbies include dancing like a spazz, gaming, and dancing a little more coherently. I also like to run around a lot. And probably have undiagnosed ADHD or something.

I'm usually very shy when I first get to know people, or in crowds with people I don't know. I'm constantly socially awkward.

I love sappy romance. I love cuddles, kisses and slow dancing. I love puppies, kittens and ducks. I love water. I love most music, especially jazz, pop and alternative. I love people who love to break boundaries. I love my friends. I love being weird. I love weird people. I love losing myself in the music at a nightclub. I love rain, cold and winter. I love storms. I love manga and anime. I love my parents. I love identifying as queer and everything it involves. I love movies. I love languages. I love watching the interaction between people. I love PDAs (in moderation). I love dancing.

I hate people who chew with their mouth open. I hate narcissism. I hate people who abuse and/or flaunt their priveleges over others. I hate the gender binary. I hate heat and summer. I hate typing this, as I feel like even now, it's still biased and wrong.

I'm also incredibly shy around strangers. I rarely start conversations. I'm more of a listener than a speaker.

I'm a serious relationship kind of person. I'm not a big fan of short term relationships, flings or one night stands. I get emotionally attached to people fairly easily, and fall in love rarely, but quickly.
What I’m doing with my life
I used to think that everyone had to decide what they wanted to be when they grew up. I settled on a lot of things. Dancer, psychologist, singer, writer, heck, there was even a point where I decided that I would be content living my life out working at Hungry Jack's xD

Since then, I've decided to screw that, and instead of deciding on who I wanted to BE, I decided to just focus on the things I wanted to DO. Even if there's no reason, just do it, have fun, meet other people.

I'm currently studying my first year at UWA, with Psychology and French as my majors. Currently planning on secondary teaching as post-grad.

I spend most of my time at uni, at home pretending to study, gaming, at work, or with my choir buddies.

One day, I want to travel around world. Break free from this little box of a city. Meet new people, try new foods, explore new experiences. And most of all, just have fun and enjoy life.
I’m really good at
Smiling. Moving weirdly, and never falling over properly, turning every stack into some sort of elaborate dance (I earned that name "Spaghetti Man" at one point. Even have a postcard to prove it). I like to sing...god knows if I'm actually any good (people say I am, but that may just be pity praise xD) I want to learn music and continue learning dance in the future.

I'm also great at listening, and I tend to be very agreeable (slash apathetic and indecisive)
The first things people usually notice about me
My erratic movements and general bounciness, and the fact that I can't walk straight (in both senses of that, I fall over almost everything, and apparently move in a way that makes me absolutely not straight o.O). Or that I talk too fast and stumble over my words. Or that when I get excited about something I talk about, I unintentionally get louder and louder till I'm almost yelling. And my social awkwardness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- Harry Potter, No One Listened, Death Note, Air Gear, Naruto, Bleach, Ranger's Apprentice, The Darkness Within, One Piece, Rhubarb, Hunger Games Trilogy, The Perks Of Being A Wallflower.

- High School Musical (Yes, I'm one of THOSE guys), Underworld Series, Step Up Series (<-- OMG YES!!), Anything involving superpowers generally. RENT OMGOMGOMG.

- Heroes. Pokemon. X-Factor. Talent shows in general? Yeah, I haven't had a TV for a loong time. What the hell is even on these days?

- I like most music. Especially Sara Bareilles/Jason Mraz/Coldplay/Maroon 5/Owl City/Five For Fighting/fun./Snow Patrol

- I pretty much eat anything
The six things I could never do without
My computer.
Friends (EVERYONE SAYS THIS BUT IT'S TRUE D=)
My phone
My mind
Music
My body
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A bit of everything. Generally I'll daydream about having superpowers and saving people. Or else I'll have music running through my head. Or planning what to do in the next day/week/life in general. Or a combination of those.
On a typical Friday night I am
Uhh Friday night? Mostly working. Occasionally I'll go out afterwards, but it depends very heavily on my state of awareness/tiredness, and my mood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like anal sex. At least, I think I don't? Maybe I'm just scared...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–29
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You can make me smile. Or you want me to make you smile. Or you want to buy me food. Food is good. Om nom nom.

Really though, if we get along really well and you want to see how things work out in the long run :3

Also, I very, very rarely message people. You know, the shy awkwardness and all.

Doesn't mean I won't respond though :)