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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 26
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Has kids
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Dutch (Okay), C++ (Okay)
My self-summary
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I worked in the music biz for a long time, as a result, I met all sorts of weird, wacky & wonderful characters whose company & oblique outlooks I still enjoy!

Scuba diving, skiing, snowboarding and throwing a motorcycle around a racetrack (preferably whilst still sat on it!) are all great fun! Living in Central London, I obviously don't get to do these things as much as I'd like to... Which is probably for the best!

If I sound like the Bodyform advert, don't let that put you off! I'm not Action Man! Chilled out days in the park or by the river are great too.

Most of all though, scintillating conversation is my big thing!

I'm looking for a lady who's warm, wise, wayward and witty! A wicked & whimsical way with words would also be winsome!

If you're similar, or even wildly different, let's chat! Could be interesting!-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
J'adore aussi les Escargots a la Bourguignonne et une bonne Coquille St Jacques!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Scintillating conversation is, unsurprisingly my big thing!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My big brown eyes!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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"Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance" by Robert Pirsig. "A History of Western Philosophy" by Bertrand Russell... Noam Chomsky. Bill Hicks. "The Big Lebowski" by the Cohen Brothers. Almost anything Almodovar.

"Histoire de Melody Nelson" - Serge Gainsbourg and Jane Birkin!
Miles Davis, Radiohead, Q.O.T.S.A., Roberta Flack, Tim AND Jeff Buckley, Portishead, Jack White, Photek, Vicki Anderson.... This could go on forever... Electric Wizzard & the Melvins are also rather good!

Ria Bartok, Adam Ant
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and friends are obviously a given, so:

Google Maps
Dave Brubeck
ReUsable supermarket bags
Strawberry Ribena
Lapsang Souchong
Tom Yum paste (turns any dish into a cheeky, zinging feast!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
... On the evolutionary trail, Oranges were SERIOUSLY left behind by Tangerines and Satsumas! Seems almost unfair.

...Innovative ways of recording live drums in my flat without waking the kids or upsetting my neighbours. I think I've cracked it!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'd like to think my Friday nights are never typical, Saturday nights even less so!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Quand j'avais 6 ans, Caroline m'a donné un coup de poing dans la gueule et je suis tombé dans les pommes pendant presque 10 minutes!

Ambulance, paramedicaux... ENORME drame!

On est devenu inséparables et super potes après ça, mais personne à l'école (surtout Caroline!) ne m'a jamais laissé oublier notre rencontre!
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