Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am my own on going project of sorts. I don't really see an end to
this aspect of myself.
It's been a while since I have been on here and I have changed
considerably. First, I am still in an open relationship. Second I
have come to identify as something of an asexual/demisexual meaning
I have little to no drive for sex and generally am not interested
at all until I form a deep meaningful connection with someone. I
don't hate sex I just find it for the most part uninteresting. I am
currently looking to build deep relationships with people of a
non-sexual nature. I'm open to the possibility of having a
dating/romantic relationship with others as well but with an
understanding that I don't have much of a sex drive (I'm in an open
relationship that for the most part has a doom date due to our
differences in life aspirations. I care for him deeply but in the
long run its likely not going to last). That being said I'm
completely ok with my partners getting their "jollys" elsewhere as
I understand and respect their need for sex. Ultimately and ideally
I would find another asexual (or someone with a low sex drive) and
have a monogamous long-term relationship with them but until that
magical day arrives I'm happy with this.
I'm just your typical artistic stranger with an aptitude for video
games, photography and psychology (sort that out).
I am really into learning...about well... anything.
I love astronomy, cultures, religions, psychology, philosophy and
any adventure where I get to explore things (ie; abandoned
buildings, hiking, camping, travel)
I highly value the qualities of Compassion, Wisdom and Humor.
I'm quirky and off beat at times. Painfully awkward in large groups
(unless its among nerds then I'm the life of the party). I really
enjoy having a few really close friends to spend time with. I would
rather work on building a deep relationship with just a few people
then have a billion acquaintances.
That probably sums me up pretty well at least for now let's save
some for actual conversation shall we?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm running full speed towards my BA in psychology which I will
graduate with Dec 2015. I work at a portrait studio making a fool
out of myself for little kids amusement so I can give the family
something to hang on their wall.
I'm also pursuing some hobbies in art photography, yoga, belly
dancing, and body painting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading body language
Playing around on Photoshop
Being awkward but pulling it off as quirky.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes are multi-colored but appear gray.
I'm pretty short and I laugh a lot, about everything.
Oh and EVERYONE tends to think I look like I'm 19, maybe 21 at best
but I can assure you I was born in 1987. Apparently later in life I
will be thankful for always looking younger then I am but right now
its really obnoxious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh dear. These are going to be very very incomplete lists.
I read a ton of contemplative psychology and positive psychology
books and enjoy them. I also really like anything on taoism. As far
as actual novels are concerned I really enjoyed;
The Mistborn series
The Neverending Story
The Torn Skirt
Go Ask Alice
Let the Right One In (also a movie)
Lord of the Rings trilogy
Star Wars books (and movies)
Music: (prepare for a random assortment from my top 25 most played
list in itunes)
Belle and Sabastian
Be Good Tanyas
The Birthday Massacre
Iron and Wine
Maxwell Hughs (local favorite amazing guitarist)
Noah and the Whale
and finally Smashing Pumpkins has and probably always will be my
favorite band (old stuff mostly) The Album Adore is just
Movies: I am a bit of a film junkie. I love horror movies!
especially foreign ones. Here is yet another random incomplete
Tale of Two Sisters
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Igby Goes Down
The Brothers Bloom
Let the Right One In
Food: I love spicy food and sweet food and well...spicy sweet food.
Indian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican are all some of my favorites weirdly
enough I'm not big on American food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Computer (has all my school work and everything I need on
My Dad (he is pretty cool and has helped me out a lot)
A notebook to sketch/write in
Ridiculously colorful socks (probably best not to ask)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, people, psychology, the stars.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually working but on the nights I don't have to work I like
to play video games, watch netflix, do photoshoots and just hang
out with people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I likes puns they make me happy.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to be friends =)
You're asexual and either interested in a relationship or just
interested in being friends. It would be great to talk to like
You want to do art together.
Who are you looking for?
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