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  • Ages 26-35
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My details

Last online
Nov 29
Asexual, Demisexual, Questioning
Open relationship
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am my own on going project of sorts. I don't really see an end to this aspect of myself.

It's been a while since I have been on here and I have changed considerably. First, I am still in an open relationship. Second I have come to identify as something of an asexual/demisexual meaning I have little to no drive for sex and generally am not interested at all until I form a deep meaningful connection with someone. I don't hate sex I just find it for the most part uninteresting. I am currently looking to build deep relationships with people of a non-sexual nature. I'm open to the possibility of having a dating/romantic relationship with others as well but with an understanding that I don't have much of a sex drive (I'm in an open relationship that for the most part has a doom date due to our differences in life aspirations. I care for him deeply but in the long run its likely not going to last). That being said I'm completely ok with my partners getting their "jollys" elsewhere as I understand and respect their need for sex. Ultimately and ideally I would find another asexual (or someone with a low sex drive) and have a monogamous long-term relationship with them but until that magical day arrives I'm happy with this.

I'm just your typical artistic stranger with an aptitude for video games, photography and psychology (sort that out).

I am really into learning...about well... anything.
I love astronomy, cultures, religions, psychology, philosophy and any adventure where I get to explore things (ie; abandoned buildings, hiking, camping, travel)

I highly value the qualities of Compassion, Wisdom and Humor.

I'm quirky and off beat at times. Painfully awkward in large groups (unless its among nerds then I'm the life of the party). I really enjoy having a few really close friends to spend time with. I would rather work on building a deep relationship with just a few people then have a billion acquaintances.

That probably sums me up pretty well at least for now let's save some for actual conversation shall we?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm running full speed towards my BA in psychology which I will graduate with Dec 2015. I work at a small print shop in Lakewood off of Colfax. Me and my boss play "Is she a working girl?" with the ladies that walk by. It's a fun job and feeds my photography habit. I am working on getting my art up in galleries and in magazines at the moment so cheap prints is a huge perk.
I'm also pursuing some hobbies in art photography, yoga, belly dancing, and body painting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading body language
Playing around on Photoshop
Being awkward but pulling it off as quirky.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes are multi-colored but appear gray.
I'm pretty short and I laugh a lot, about everything.
Oh and EVERYONE tends to think I look like I'm 19, maybe 21 at best but I can assure you I was born in 1987. Apparently later in life I will be thankful for always looking younger then I am but right now its really obnoxious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh dear. These are going to be very very incomplete lists.

I read a ton of contemplative psychology and positive psychology books and enjoy them. I also really like anything on taoism. As far as actual novels are concerned I really enjoyed;
The Mistborn series
The Neverending Story
The Torn Skirt
Go Ask Alice
Let the Right One In (also a movie)
Lord of the Rings trilogy
The Hobbit
Star Wars books (and movies)

Music: (prepare for a random assortment from my top 25 most played list in itunes)
Anya Marina
Lindsey Stirling
Arcade Fire
Belle and Sabastian
The Beatles
Be Good Tanyas
The Birthday Massacre
Blonde Redhead
The Cure
The Decemberists
Ed Sheeran
Emilie Autumn
Iron and Wine
Maxwell Hughs (local favorite amazing guitarist)
Noah and the Whale
The Kooks
Modest Mouse
and finally Smashing Pumpkins has and probably always will be my favorite band (old stuff mostly) The Album Adore is just AMAZING.

Movies: I am a bit of a film junkie. I love horror movies! especially foreign ones. Here is yet another random incomplete list.
Tale of Two Sisters
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Donnie Darko
American Beauty
Igby Goes Down
The Brothers Bloom
Let the Right One In
Star Wars

Food: I love spicy food and sweet food and well...spicy sweet food. Indian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican are all some of my favorites weirdly enough I'm not big on American food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Computer (has all my school work and everything I need on it)
Coffee/ Tea
My Dad (he is pretty cool and has helped me out a lot)
A notebook to sketch/write in
Ridiculously colorful socks (probably best not to ask)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, people, psychology, the stars.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually working but on the nights I don't have to work I like to play video games, watch netflix, do photoshoots and just hang out with people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I likes puns they make me happy.
You should message me if
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You want to be friends =)

You're asexual and either interested in a relationship or just interested in being friends. It would be great to talk to like minded people.
You want to do art together.