M20_Nebula
28 Denver, CO
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My self-summary
I am my own on going project of sorts. I don't really see an end to this aspect of myself.

It's been a while since I have been on here and I have changed considerably. First, I am still in an open relationship. Second I have come to identify as something of an asexual/demisexual meaning I have little to no drive for sex and generally am not interested at all until I form a deep meaningful connection with someone. I don't hate sex I just find it for the most part uninteresting. I am currently looking to build deep relationships with people of a non-sexual nature. I'm open to the possibility of having a dating/romantic relationship with others as well but with an understanding that I don't have much of a sex drive (I'm in an open relationship that for the most part has a doom date due to our differences in life aspirations. I care for him deeply but in the long run its likely not going to last). That being said I'm completely ok with my partners getting their "jollys" elsewhere as I understand and respect their need for sex. Ultimately and ideally I would find another asexual (or someone with a low sex drive) and have a monogamous long-term relationship with them but until that magical day arrives I'm happy with this.

I'm just your typical artistic stranger with an aptitude for video games, photography and psychology (sort that out).

I am really into learning...about well... anything.
I love astronomy, cultures, religions, psychology, philosophy and any adventure where I get to explore things (ie; abandoned buildings, hiking, camping, travel)

I highly value the qualities of Compassion, Wisdom and Humor.

I'm quirky and off beat at times. Painfully awkward in large groups (unless its among nerds then I'm the life of the party). I really enjoy having a few really close friends to spend time with. I would rather work on building a deep relationship with just a few people then have a billion acquaintances.

That probably sums me up pretty well at least for now let's save some for actual conversation shall we?
What I’m doing with my life
I graduated with a B.A. in Psychology and am currently working part time at a print shop until I can find a job that makes use of that degree. I am also weighing options on graduate school so I can be a licensed counselor.
I'm also pursuing some hobbies in art photography, yoga, belly dancing, and body painting.
I’m really good at
Reading body language
Playing around on Photoshop
Being awkward but pulling it off as quirky.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes are multi-colored but appear gray.
I'm pretty short and I laugh a lot, about everything, especially my own failings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh dear. These are going to be very very incomplete lists.

Books:
I read a ton of contemplative psychology and positive psychology books and enjoy them. I also really like anything on taoism. As far as actual novels are concerned I really enjoyed;
The Mistborn series
The Neverending Story
The Torn Skirt
Go Ask Alice
Let the Right One In (also a movie)
Lord of the Rings trilogy
The Hobbit
Star Wars books (and movies)

Music: (prepare for a random assortment from my top 25 most played list in itunes)
Anya Marina
Lindsey Stirling
Arcade Fire
Belle and Sabastian
The Beatles
Beulah
Be Good Tanyas
The Birthday Massacre
Bjork
Blonde Redhead
The Cure
The Decemberists
Ed Sheeran
Emilie Autumn
Iron and Wine
Mew
Maxwell Hughs (local favorite amazing guitarist)
APC
Tool
Noah and the Whale
The Kooks
Muse
Modest Mouse
and finally Smashing Pumpkins has and probably always will be my favorite band (old stuff mostly) The Album Adore is just AMAZING.

Movies: I am a bit of a film junkie. I love horror movies! especially foreign ones. Here is yet another random incomplete list.
Tale of Two Sisters
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Donnie Darko
American Beauty
Igby Goes Down
The Brothers Bloom
Insidious
Let the Right One In
Star Wars

Food: I love spicy food and sweet food and well...spicy sweet food. Indian, Chinese, Thai, Mexican are all some of my favorites weirdly enough I'm not big on American food.
The six things I could never do without
My Computer/ Camera
Coffee/ Tea
My Dad (he is pretty cool and has helped me out a lot)
A notebook to sketch/write in
Books
Ridiculously colorful socks (probably best not to ask)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Life, people, psychology, the stars. What video game to waste my time on.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually working but on the nights I don't have to work I like to play video games, watch netflix, do photoshoots and just hang out with people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I likes puns they make me happy.
You should message me if
You want to be friends =)

You're asexual and either interested in a relationship or just interested in being friends. It would be great to talk to like minded people.
You want to do art together.
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