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30 M New York, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 3:25pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Hold on, hold on -- don't judge the faceless torso pic. At least, not yet. Deal? Deal.

So I'm a kinky guy with a successful career and an active personal life. I have a decent deal of experience with BDSM -- particularly in a dominant role, which I enjoy immensely. However, at this point I'm looking to explore a switch-up in power dynamics -- that is, to explore sexual submission.

I should point out that I'm not looking for anything too extreme. If you want me to put on a gimp mask and live in a cage in your basement, then this won't work. But I am looking to explore.

I know that a male bottoming in bed isn't for everyone; or they think that a guy intrigued by it will be meek outside the bedroom. Not in my case -- I'm very "Alpha" in the rest of my life, and in fact, even in the bedroom, I have traditionally been very dominant. But, like I said, expanding my horizons.
What I’m doing with my life
Working a lot, but I'm OK with that. I also love to work out, I enjoy art and bad comedies, and I am wild about eating.
I’m really good at
Oh, lots of things. Really. A lot of which have nothing to do with kinky fetish sex, in fact! (I mean, some do, of course - but not all). Sex-saturated profile notwithstanding, I'm actually pretty good at talking to and motivating people. I used to sing, but don't really anymore. People say I'm witty, and I would never disagree with people, since people seem to know things sometimes. So, there's that.
The first things people usually notice about me
On this site? My lack of a head and lower body, I'd reckon.

In reality, I've been told I have very expressive eyes - which sometimes gets me in trouble...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
You name it, I eat it. And probably enjoy it.

I'm an indie rock nerd when it comes to music, though I do my best to remain a humble denizen of Earth and not a snooty connaisseur-type music dork, despite my tastes. Think National, Arcade Fire, Broken Social Scene, and you're on the right track.

Books = non-fiction, mostly.
The six things I could never do without
Never really liked this question, so I'll pass. Pass.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics, innovation, inappropriate jokes, all the BDSM mumbo jumbo that I've mentioned already.
On a typical Friday night I am
Bar, restaurant, friend's place, or my place.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Probably all the submission stuff in this profile, to be honest. Don't you feel special?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are an intelligent, sophisticated, sane, kinky woman who is interested in exploring what I've discussed so far -- or is already a seasoned pro at the aforementioned sexual power dynamics (but, uh, not like a doing-it-for-pay pro).

It would be nice if you were an interesting person besides the whole BDSM thing too. In fact, it's more than a nice to have -- I can't really get into it if I don't have respect for the other party.