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48 • Chicago, IL • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 38–58
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Online now!
- Straight, Sapiosexual
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English, Spanish
Martini Shots by George Pelecanos
Gold Coast Madam by Rose Laws
The Street Sweeper by Eliot Perlman
Sex in Crisis: The New Sexual Revolution and the Future of American Politics by Dagmar Herzog
Portraits of Homeopathic Medicines by Catherine Coulter
What Happy People Know by Dan Baker
The Fall by Albert Camus
The Ultimate Guide to Kink edited by Tristan Taormino
The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night by Mark Haddon
The Assassination of Margaret Thatcher by Hilary Mantel
When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times by Pema Chodron
Herculine Barbin by Michel Foucault
The Marketplace by Laura Antoniou
My favorite movies are Heat, The Big Lebowski, The Departed, Sucker Punch, and The Lord of the Rings trilogy.
I listen to all kinds of music, but my all-time favorite group is Dream Theater. Currently, I'm listening to Roberto Cacciapaglia's album "Alphabet" and a mix of Bruno Mars, Bastille, Claire McGuire, Jessie Ware, Nell Bryden, Enigma, One Republic, Ed Sheeran, Jesse Ware, Clean Bandit, Lowen & Navarro, and HAIM.
I don't own a television, but I like Luther, The Wire, Scandal, The Daily Show, Suits, The West Wing, Orange is the New Black, House of Cards, Black Mirror and Arrow.
You understand what it means to actually be polyamorous.
You laugh easily and can make me laugh.
You sport scruff and/or have a British, Irish or Scottish accent (but if you have both...holy moly...)
You get why the gun battle outside of the bank in Heat is the best 30-minutes in film history.
You can quote lines from The Big Lebowski.
You believe that "You must be the change you want to see in the world."
You have a view of the world that is off-beat or unconventional and you're looking for someone who can go to the outer limits of the imagination with you.
You can begin a conversation with something other than, "So, what kind of sex do you like?" Seriously, gentlemen. Seriously.
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