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48 • Chicago, IL • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 28-45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 4:00pm
- Straight, Sapiosexual
- Relationship Type
- Mostly non-monogamous
- 5' 7" (1.70m)
- Body Type
- Full figured
- Post grad
- Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
- English, Spanish
We are All Completely Beside Ourselves by Karen Joy Fowler
Lit by Mary Karr
Slave to Sensation by Nalini Singh
The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay by Michael Chabon
The Velvet Rage by Alan Downes
On Writing by Stephen King
Hearts in Atlantis by Stephen King
Let the Great World Spin by Colum McCallum
Trains and Lovers by Alexander McCall Smith
My favorite movies are Heat, The Big Lebowski, The Departed, Sucker Punch, and The Lord of the Rings trilogy.
I listen to all kinds of music, but my all-time favorite group is Dream Theater. Currently, I'm listening to Gareth Laffely's album "Sky Before the Storm" and a mix of Niia, Toril and Moi, Naxxos, The Smiths, The Rippingtons, Bruno Mars, Bastille, Claire McGuire, Jessie Ware, Nell Bryden, Enigma, One Republic, Ed Sheeran, Jesse Ware, Clean Bandit, Lowen & Navarro, and HAIM.
I don't own a television, but I like Luther, The Wire, Fringe, Scandal, The Mind of a Chef, The Daily Show, Suits, The West Wing, Orange is the New Black, House of Cards, Black Mirror and Arrow.
You understand what it means to actually be polyamorous.
You laugh easily and can make me laugh.
You've ever dated (or have read about dating) an Aquarius woman and you understand what you're in for.
You sport scruff and/or have a British, Irish or Scottish accent (but if you have both...holy moly!)
You get why the gun battle outside of the bank in Heat is the best 30-minutes in film history.
You can quote lines from The Big Lebowski.
You believe that "You must be the change you want to see in the world."
You don't assume that meeting up with someone is an invitation to have sex and, as a result, can begin a conversation with something other than, "So, what kind of sex do you like?" Seriously, gentlemen. Seriously.
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