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47 F Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–47
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:27pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
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I am a pragmatic, non-materialistic optimist who is open, honest and adventurous (read: talks a lot, says what I *really* think, and will try anything at least once, but usually twice to make sure). I am tenacious and driven, but balance it with a wicked sense of humor and love of learning. I have a low tolerance for rigid thinking and/or willful ignorance.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an educator turned freelance writer who relocated to Chicago in April 2013, and is trying to figure out what adventurous path to take next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the big picture and motivating people to let go of fear and follow their dreams!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love reading and usually have at least three books going at a time:

September 2014:
The Widow's House by Daniel Abraham
The Street Sweeper by Elliott Pearlman
The Mistress Manual by Lorelei Powers

My favorite movies are Heat, The Big Lebowski, The Departed, and The Lord of the Rings trilogy.

I listen to all kinds of music, but my all-time favorite group is Dream Theater. Currently, I'm listening to a mix of Bastille, Claire McGuire, Jessie Ware, Nell Bryden, Enigma and One Republic.

I don't own a television, but I like Suits, The West Wing, Black is the New Orange, and I am obsessed with House of Cards.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, books, my iPhone, the Duolingo app, lingerie, and Haribo gummy bears (the ones made in Germany, not Jersey).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to get disparate groups of people to sit down, listen to one another, and start to create solutions for real problems.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Get to know me and find out!
You should message me if
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If you are single (or in an open poly relationship in which you would have no problem introducing me to your significant other).

If you can make me laugh.

If you get why the gun battle outside of the bank in Heat is the best 30-minutes in film history.

If you can quote lines from The Big Lebowski.

If you're comfortable with dating a woman who can appreciate the finer things, but is far more impressed by lively conversation and intellectual engagement.

If you believe that "You must be the change you want to see in the world."

And especially if you have the unusual gift of knowing how to patiently, persistently, and calmly charm very strong, smart, stubborn, independent women (references may be requested).