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58 M North Haven, CT

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Thank you for stopping by ladies. Now if you are thinking to yourself, why is this man still single, there are 2 main reasons that will answer that. 1)I lived with my late mother and father, all my life. Family is always the priority, especially parents. I did what I had to do with sacrifice. I never expected anything but love. 2) I put my effort into work. That's why I'm retired now. I may not be the healthiest son of a gun in the world, but I have a heart of gold. I bought the house I grew up in, because that was.the.thing to do, to define my legacy. There's no place like home. I have to say, there are many of you who fascinate me on here. It's not a MEAT shop, it's a MEET shop, with all good intentions. I may not be the nicest looking man in the world, or the smartest, but as I stated earlier, I have a heart of gold. My mom and dad taught me well. It's been a long time for me to teach, and to learn from my pot of gold(family). Come join me won't you? Game players need not apply, because you really should head to an arcade if you do that. Positive memories last a lifetime. Choosing the one to make them with, is the ultimate rush...........God bless all of you, and may you always smile when you think of your loved ones. WORD LIFE...........



Very few women, are interested in a handicapped man
As God is my witness, I'm doing the best that I can
I shed real tears, the lonely part of life
Searching for that friend, who might become a wife
My kidneys were failing, that part's so true
One never knows, it can happen to you
I still love to laugh, a comic with endless tales
Laughter is the best medicine, a cure that never fails
Many things make me tick, I'm enjoying my time
I love to cook, and been called a master of rhyme
I take one day at a time, that's everyone's rule
A loving and caring man, I'm nobody's fool
I say daily prayers, the mind is thinking each day
My book never closes, I still have a lot to say......

These other poems are me..................The cure for being alone, is a true and loving man, who you can confide in. That would be me. Who wants to be alone anyway? I'm an honest and caring man, who is looking for someone special Take my hand, and let's live the simple things in life. You won't be disappointed. If you are, money back guarantee. lol. On 5/1/12, I wrote this poem/song.
HAVE YOU SEEN MY GIRL?.......I look every day, high and low, looking for you with that special glow. I know you're here every day, can you please come out and head my way. Have you seen my girl? You know the one with that great big smile, the better half who makes it worthwhile. She always laughs at the corniest jokes, enjoys being around all kinds of folks. Have you seen my girl? She has a heart of gold, so pure and true. Always trying to accommodate you. A beautiful woman from the bottom to the top. When she walks by, people always stop. Have you seen my girl? One more time. Have you seen my girl?
What I’m doing with my life
Just like everyone else, I'm taking one day at a time, and learning each and every day. Come learn with me, and we will teach each other what we know, and have a great time doing so. I'm retired, so my schedule is very open. I could be doing yard work one day, and cooking for you the next, and the next day etc On 4/20/12, I wrote this poem---IT DOESN'T MATTER
It doesn't matter about the age, as long as we're on the same page. It doesn't matter if you're small, as long as we're having a ball. It doesn't matter when you're mad, I'll make you so glad. It doesn't matter if you're shy, I'm an understanding guy. It doesn't matter when you cry, I'll kiss you until you're dry. It doesn't matter about your heart, it's time for a new start. It doesn't matter about our past, as long as we make it last.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh for one. I've been told I have a sense of humor on the very positive side.As an example, once someone asked me where I was from. My response was, I'm originally from my mother, but I think my father had something to do with it too. I'm also good at listening. All of us have stories to tell, and when a woman talks, she always has my undivided attention, and that would be 24/7. I'm the man who lived next door to you when you were growing up, Didn't your mother warn you about people like me? It's all good.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I have a kind face. After being in the public eye for years, many people recognize me, and thank me for helping them over the years. I have a passion for caring for the elderly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read most anything, except for fiction. I love pop music, ever since I was kid. I do have an extensive record collection as well. As a joke, a friend of mine asked me what my favorite food was. I simply replied, "FREE, DUH!!!!". My favorite food would be Italian. I haven't gotten sick yet, from my own cooking. Of course there was the time I burned a pot, just boiling water. lol.
The six things I could never do without
My family. The internet. My friends. NORTH.HAVEN My house. Water.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My immediate future, hoping I'll find some loving and kind soul to share the rest of my life with. In my opinion, we are judged in life by what we do for others. The 4 L's in life. LIVING, LOVING, LAUGHING, and LEARNING. Does it get any better than that ladies? If you disagree with that, you're not from this planet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Just going with the flow............and I need that streak to end. I would prefer to be with you, so if you would be so kind and come out of hiding, I would appreciate it. lol....On a recent Friday night, seeing that I wasn't with any of you, I wrote this song/poem..........WHEN LOVE COMES CALLING.......See the trees out far in the back. Let's walk there and have a little snack. A bird flies above, with style and swiftly grace, keeping it's distance, with a tiny red face. The sun is shining, a huge ball of fire, two people together, with passionate desire......When love comes calling, when love comes calling, when love comes calling, evermore....I point to you, and you give me a grin, the game of life, is something we can win. It's up to you , to make yourself smile, we both know in our hearts, it's well worthwhile. No time to fear, our future is very bright, throughout the days and every night......When love comes calling, when love comes calling, when love comes calling....evermore. We hold each other, oh so very tight, the feelings inside are finally right. We kiss until there's no more air, it doesn't matter because we're finally here. We walk hand in hand, into our house, a man in love, with a beautiful spouse. When love comes calling, when love comes calling, when love comes calling...................evermore.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I write beautiful poetry. I've been told that by many, many people. Here are 3 more examples:


What is the ideal woman, she's someone filled with life, a best friend, a great listener, a precious gem you call your wife. She's inspiring, and honest, a little innocent and shy, a possessor of healing shoulders, when it's time for a good cry. She's someone to look up to, those beautiful eyes shine bright, there's nothing finer to end a day, than with a woman's kiss goodnight. The ideal woman is a beauty, a work of art you can't buy, she's an angel filled with love, sent by the Almighty one up high.

I'm staring at her picture, she's always on my mind, a dream come true for me, so loving and very kind. I think back to yesteryear, my family was all I had, I didn't have someone special, and I was very sad. I look back at her picture, she's a real work of art, sexy and vivacious, and really very smart. I'm thinking we are on a beach, the sun is burning bright, as long as we are together, we will stay here through the night. I look into those beautiful eyes, her smile makes me melt, my heart is beating very fast, for feelings I've never felt. Holding her is electric, with vibrations all around, I truly know in my heart, she's the best thing I've ever found. After all these years, she entered my life, our future will definitely grow, there's no one I'd rather be, as if she didn't know.........


As we sail down the river, we never look back, to those who tried to hurt us, and really deserved a smack. I reached for your hand, so soft and very warm, it reminded me of passion, in it's desiring form. You looked into my eyes, without saying a word, you sent me a silent message, one I've never heard. I reached for the other hand, we both could feel the heat, asking each other, why it took so long to meet. Our lips came together, with kisses very real, ones that you always remember, to show us how we feel. You snuggled up next to me, I was holding you very tight, as we looked up at the stars, on this very private night. You whispered in my ear, thanking me for being me, I returned this loving gesture, saying our love will always be. Tears came to our eyes, with us both being in love, thanking our late loved ones, who were watching from above. Your eyes grew very tired, you put your head down on my chest, I was just watching, as you took a little rest. Suddenly the moon was shining, with a high intensive beam, as we sailed down the river, in this gondola dream.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 39–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are serious about giving it your all. I'm not interested in serial dating. It takes time to get to know someone, and I have that time now. I most definitely will give that someone my attention. Time is very valuable, and love heals all wounds........No one said life was going to be easy. Moving on with a new friend, and forgetting about the past is important. If you put your mind to it, we can do anything.