Somewhere here I I think I also identified myself as bisexual and I believe this to be true. However, it has been quite awhile now since I partnered with a bio guy. I'm likely more open to something serious with either women or FTMs. That said, if I met the right guy, it's not impossible. And I'm currently interested in dating :whoever: seems interesting and taking it from there. In fact, dating itself fascinates me right now since I have done so little of it for so long.
On the ordinary side (and I do appear quite normal on the outside), I LOVE coffee shops. And I'm active. I'm new to triathlons, but love them already. I am learning to love cycling and have a brand new road bike I need to break in. I've now done three sprint distance triathlons and would like a training partner there. I run and I'm decent at it. I started as a kid. I've done three marathons, but my knees won't take the long distance running any more. I'm not a good swimmer in the least, however. I aspire to the crawl, but sadly settle for breast stroke.
Other pretty normal things... I'm considering adopting some rescue greyhounds. I'm a dedicated Mom with an amazingly wonderful three year old. And I LOVE a good massage.
If I can meet someone that shares my love for fitness and health and even more, that'd be great. I'm ok with dating someone who is not Leather/etc., but supportive and accepting of all I am is key. I'm finding being single pretty lonely. I can keep busy, but I miss the abiding companionship... Yet, I'm unlikley to jump into something serious. A coffee or cycling date is a good start.
What OKC doesn't ask is this: What am I looking for?
1. 6 houseboys or housegirls--people who identify in Leather and would like to provide useful service within a Ds context. I have so very much that needs to get done and often this is a great place for folks to get better acquainted with Leather and the community.
2. Maybe a "boy/boi" or "girl" if the fit were right and that dynamic worked.
3. Maybe another slave with the same reservations.
4. Something partner-ish, but this is HUGE. I don't have great partner skills. I do still want to be the head of the household. Still, I do often feel very alone on this huge adventure that is life. I'd like to have someone to come home to, who will tell me that it's all going to work out (even when neither of us can be sure it is). My list of requirements for such a spot in my life is pretty long. And I'm still in a healing phase over my last relationship loss. Yet, this is something my heart keeps coming back to...
I am Spiritual, Leather, and poly