Patiently looking to through the madness and hopefully in the process my one true soul mate. It's been like finding a needle in a haystack. But I know he is out there. I love music, dance, and well everything in the arts like most gay men. I've been told that I am very entertaining . Always trying to have fun, no matter the situation. Very open hearted and willing to let someone in that deserves the chance. I believe communicaton is key in a relationship and want to find that person that you never get tired of and will surprise you at anytime. When you think you have the figured out as you age together.
I am Generous , Faithful, and humorous guy. I've learned not to be desperate for love but to instead be patient because love is. Otherwise you end up with the wrong person.
Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.
What I’m doing with my life
I am trying to strive to make myself a better person. Not to sound
corny but I'm trying to restructure myself to be more positive.
Also building from the past experiences and trying to learn from
the good and the bad. Surround myself with more positive energy and
personalities. I guess its part of growing up. Just like a quote
from the etiquette coach in Point of no Return " I never did mind
the little things". Moral of the story dust your shoulders and move
Currently contemplating going back to school to further my career
in medicine. Not quite off the fence yet. Need a spark or to be
prodded in that direction. Also would love to take on learning
another language. Embrace learning and being evolved in other
cultures. I think it shapes you.
I’m really good at
Very good at making people feel comfortable. For some reason I
never meet a stranger. I am good at seeing the good in everyone
until they burn that gift. Which could also seen as a downfall.
The first things people usually notice about me
Most people notice first are my eyes and smile. Which I'll take all
as a welcolmed compliment. Another funny thing that most people
notice and fixate on is my hair. I don't spend that much time with
it contrary to believe. But all compliments are enduring regardless
of how small
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite movies and food likes are just like my musical taste.
All of the place depending on my mood at the time. I am well
diversified in my taste.
I will say on TV- my choices are Heroes, Damages, Saving Grace,
& Ugly Betty
movies that I catch myself repeatedly watching:
Man in the Moon, Joy Luck Club, Underworld, Interview with a
Vampire, My Best Friends Wedding, Clueless, Bring it on, Stigmata,
Point of no return,Lord of the Rings, Underworld, Practical Magic,
Hope Floats- well pretty much all of Sandra Bullock's films.
As far as reads, I've fallen off the track with reading unless its
self improvement books or work related stuff. Also always looking
at home improvement stuff. Unfortunately it just fills my head with
idea but never progress. I'm not handy with maintenance or
improvement projects. I think I would cause more of a fix than I
had to start with. Not that I'm afraid to get dirty.
The six things I could never do without
My sweet doggies, a shower, hair products, moisturizer, the
presence of love whether it be from good friends, family, or
partner, and music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make more money. Lol! And always thinking on my next step to
a better improved self and life. One that I can look back on and be
happy and say I made a difference
On a typical Friday night I am
Whatever turns my head. I have the nickname sparkle, So meaning if
something sparkles I forget what I was doing and go that direction.
So its a toss up. But usually relaxing after a long week. Or could
be off with friends for dinner or a night out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That is revealed with time and trust. ;)
You should message me if
You are looking for a quality relationship with depth to it. And
not in a relationship or still still some how still wrapped up in
the past. Want to invite positive and not negativity into my life.