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27 M Brighton, MA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and very serious about it
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
My name is Matt and I'm looking for somebody to share my life with. Life is incredible and, along with relishing my own beside someone, I want to support somebody in celebrating her own life. I'm looking for somebody who genuinely respects herself (or at least is committed to getting there), believes in equality in relationships, and wants to join me in becoming the best version of oneself.

I don't think you can force a genuine relationship but I do think you can commit yourself to maintaining the circumstances that make relationships possible: trust, humility, kindness, forgiveness, and honesty. In that spirit, I'm looking for somebody who notices beauty but remembers kindness. There's nothing more attractive to me than a person who is kind to others, wants to be kind herself, and knows she deserves every kindness. I don't want to convince her she is valuable, I want us to be busy making the most of that value and valuing one another. I want somebody I can be silly, sincere, playful, and passionate with.

Oh, um, INFP.
What I’m doing with my life
I just completed my masters degree and am applying to work as a high school teacher. I love working with kids, actually enjoy high schoolers because they force you to be authentic, and look forward to being just as snarky with them as they are with me.

In my free time I enjoy reading, going birdwatching, writing handwritten letters, following soccer, baking for fun, playing practical jokes, hoping for a pilot's license, and messing with my little sisters. I've been both skydiving and shark-diving (each time in New Zealand). I once organized a midnight game of capture the flag using different colored glow sticks. I have pet fish and frogs, along with some house mates I occasionally feed. If life ever finds a rhythm, I plan to return to the stand up comedy scene.
I’m really good at
Listening. I enjoy being creative and coming up with personal gestures for people... and practical jokes. I love to cook and bake, always looking for an excuse to throw out a nice meal.
The first things people usually notice about me
How young I look for my age. Usually right after they ask if I'm excited to be going to college or driving. Sigh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Little Prince, Ender's Game, anything by C.S.Lewis, Michael Crichton, etc. I'm an avid reader so there really is too much to list.

Food: Mexican food. I love to cook and bake in general though. I make a mean Cinnamon Chicken, Oreo Cheesecake, Buffalo Chicken Pizza, and a number of other things. I currently work at a pizza place that serves gourmet pizza too (think toppings like jalapeno ranch, 3 hour braised pork, balsamic vinaigrette, and potatoes with bacon). Weakness for pastries. Do not abuse this information.

Music: The Beatles, oldies in general, Jazz, classical, Sinatra. Currently learning the ukulele. Harmonica is next.

Movies/TV: Star Wars, Battlestar Galactica, The Big Bang Theory, Castle, BBC Sherlock, Now is Good, Modern Family.
The six things I could never do without
Sincere moments
Mexican food
Making people laugh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What it means to be human, my desire to share my life with somebody, relationships in general, Mexican food, ways to make people happy, and the US national soccer team.

And now the upcoming Star Wars movies being made by Disney. Will they be good? Will they be bad? [pulls hair]
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably selling pizza at work these days, but if it were up to me, I'd be spending one on one time with a friend. I enjoy small group settings more than party scenes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
... is most likely whatever you'd like to ask, as long as you're asking sincerely.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 19–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
... you're attracted to kindness, tenderness, and enjoy being young at heart. I'd rather be voluntarily cared for by the girl next door than be obligingly cared for by a supermodel. And on another note, I don't think a date that ends in friendship is a failure. If they aren't happy with you as a friend, they don't deserve you as a beloved. I'm pretty awesome and I want to be with somebody who knows she is awesome too -- not because she's my beloved but because she's herself. Finally, I find women attractive certainly but, if you have a picture that advertises your chest more than your face, we probably won't work. Nothing is more attractive than self-respect.