31 East Orange, NJ
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My self-summary
I am a lover of all organic human connections. Whether it is a throw your head back gut busting laugh or sweet giggles that come to life after a few drinks.
I genuinely care about the connections I make with ppl regardless of whether they last or not.
What I’m doing with my life
Graduate Student, currently completing a MFA in Creative Writing Poetry at FDU. I am educated and the educated appeal to me. I'm back in the NY/NJ area after being away for 10 years. In that time I've lived in Philadelphia and Chicago.
I’m really good at
Being random and insanely open. I'm skilled in interior design and decorating. Very crafty, artsy, creative. Love to cook. Great listener, I tell fascinating stories (or so I've been told) making people laugh. Writing, being very detailed and descriptive about the smallest thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
My skin, people are always so taken back by how clear my skin is. I have one dimple.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Trumpet, Zami, A New Spelling of My Name, Kindred...Movies: Ammie and Jaguar, Closer, Love Jones, I Can't Think Straight, Tipping The Velvet, When Night Is Falling, Good Will Hunting, Notting Hill, Kiss Me...Music: Lianne La Havas, Adele, Ledisi, Feist, Esthero, Jill Scott, Little Dragon, Alice Smith, Amy Winehouse, ColdPlay, Floetry, Frank Ocean, Maxwell... Shows: Scandal, Revenge, Grey's Anatomy, Once Upon a Time, The L Word, Xena, The X Files, La Femme Nikita ( not the new show) Orange is the New Black, The Fall, House of Cards Food: kind of picky... :) however, I have a new found love for cooking so my taste buds have expanded.
The six things I could never do without
I could never be without Love, or the ability to share love.
Music has freed my soul.
Art/Writing, without drops of creativity we'd all be the same.
Intimacy, too go without "her" touch is the true definition of life/love and loneliness...
Conversation, I talk a lot, but I promise you'll remain interested.
Friends, how many of us truly have them? I have a few and hope to always keep them close even through distance.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My future...the person I am destined to fall sanely in love with. What she will look like, smell like, how her skin will feel against mine. The love we will create, the family we will bare. I spend a lot of time thinking about "her"

I think a lot about the ratio of genuine ppl to bullshitters. I honestly believe there are more frogs being kissed than princesses!

But I'm confident that she is out there and merely learning what to contrast me against.
On a typical Friday night I am
So far all my Friday nights are typical, trying to change that, could use some assistance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a playlist titled Callie and Arizona. Don't judge me!
You should message me if
You are interested in a new friend
Honestly interested in getting to know me
A writer, loves poetry.
In the arts of some kind.
Loves music, live shows.
Educated, well spoken.

PS if you know who Sara Ramirez is that's a plus!!!!

*Not going to waste my time. ( this includes friendships) I can usually smell shit before I see it! I am in no way interested in meaningless connections with irrelevant people!