Honest, caring, wise male / female who seek partners for a triad or quad.

If you are:

BI FEMALE
BISEXUAL FEMALE
QUEER FEMALE
LESBIAN FEMALE
MALE-FEMALE COUPLE

& willing to meet to discuss building a triad or quad team MFF OR MFMF and family,
&
greater than a 60% match, and less than a 20% enemy,

then ask to meet me / us in person.

I / we can fill the page with descriptors, but you cannot summarize a person's CHARACTER online. Also, because some people may be jealous or hateful, of the abundance that we seek to create, for reasons of safety, please respect our need for confidentiality at this early stage of our meeting. We will also respect your need for confidentiality, should you choose to meet. While it may seem difficult, because we all want the benefits of life partners right now, please be patient, and understand that if we move more slowly and carefully than most "couples" at the beginning, we will have even better results in the end.

I / we are taking steps with our professional careers, and our savings, so that we can share a house together either in the San Francisco Bay Area, or in Hawaii. We want the house to be spacious enough for each of us to have our own rooms, and moments of privacy and isolation, and the ability to open and share our rooms and our selves with our housemates when we so desire.

We have the legal expertise available to ensure that each of us has equal rights in what we decide is to be group property and income.

It is important that we each are willing to not only play hard, but also work hard, to ensure a comfortable life together. Also, we want to create a cooperative environment in which to co-parent and raise children. If necessary, we will buy 2 or more houses in very close proximity to each other.

What we're doing is not easy, but once the details of the arrangements are in place, we believe the benefits will be well worth it, for us personally, and for any potential children.

Obviously, you must be open-minded and dedicated to working with people if you are to enjoy the benefits that sharing can provide.

If we can share some hobbies that would be nice, but that is not required. For example, one of us enjoys financial management. While an interest, or professional experience in equities, real estate, or law is helpful, it is not required to join our partnership.

We do require, however, that in addition to having people skills, each partner has an area of professional expertise that may provide them with a stable source of income from the "real world". We cannot hide or escape from the "real world," so we must embrace it.

The idea is that each partner generates sufficient capital to be financially independent, PLUS some income will go towards the ongoing "real world" expenses of maintaining the benefits of the partnership (such as a beautiful home, home insurance, car, vacations, etc). While these expenses will be at "group rates" and thus likely be less than they would be if you were to have to bear them individually, or as a couple, they are real and need to be paid, because failing to do so would jeopardize the security of the whole group.

Communicating? Let me/us know... Cuddling, hugging, spooning, sharing, working hard for the people I love, and who are willing to constantly reassure me/us that they love me/us too.

long eyelashes

ETHICAL SLUT!

Note, however, for safety purposes, once we have the set number of partners (3 or possibly 4), for safety reasons, we will probably not add additional partners. Although we would have to decide about this as a group; especially newcomers, if allowed, would have to pass STD tests and vow to continue regularly doing so for the ongoing safety of the group.

Under the principle of diminishing returns, especially if we already have more than one beautiful sexual partner, we would question the benefits, if any, of searching for, or engaging with more people for sex.

Instead we would want to fill our time together by making home improvements, hiking, making food, art and fun things like that.

As for food, we will try to limit the amount of sugar and and processed food in the house. We will also buy food that everyone enjoys eating. However, if it so happens that only one person is a vegetarian, then they will have to tolerate the occasional smell of meat in the house. Or, if it so happens that only one person eats meat, they may have to cook their own hamburger. But maybe if they're nice, one of their partners will cook it for them! That is, aside from assuring an emphasis on fresh whole foods, and some peer pressure to exercise and keep in shape, no strict diets will be imposed on others.

MOMENTS OF FREEDOM FROM MY...UR...R...EGOS.
A DATE TO MEET U - THIS IS LITERALLY ONLY A SCREEN.
BREAST2BREAST HUGS.
UR LOVE.
U.

U.

WORKING LATE...SAVING MONEY...KNOWING 1DAY, EVERY SATURDAY, THE 3 OR 4 OF US WILL SPOON, CUDDLE, & CARESS TILL MORNING.

HUGS R ALWAYS FUN, THE REST DEPENDS ON GOOD VIBES....

Aside from what a doctor prescribes, I/we are drug and disease free; you must be too (although 420 / light drug use may be tolerated).

Smoking, uncleanliness, alcoholism / obesity, racism, and excessively negative thinking turns us off: please be sexy.

Note: because we all sometimes suffer from events and/or depression and exhibit symptoms as described above, I/we may be willing to work with someone who demonstrates a strong commitment to reversing their issue(s). As we get to know eachother better, we will have to share our issues (and we all have some!). Obviously, though, the better we are able to function despite our issues, the better we will do as a team. The main benefit of the team / partnership, is that you will have people who are willing to help you through your issues AND to remind you to enjoy sharing the finer things in life - including your sexuality, personality, and companionship.

WHY LIE? EVERYONE LOVES THE FINER THINGS IN LIFE, BUT NO ONE'S CHARACTER Z VZBL ONLINE!

If you believe that it is possible that if join our team, you will have a higher likelihood of having a more fulfilling life than if you lived as a single, or mainstream couple. For example, instead of shopping for groceries every week, you might be able to split that duty and time among your partners. Nothing is perfect, but if you've ever had two friends or lovers spoil you at once, without being jealous of each other, then you know that exploring or creating a loving triad or quad is a worthwhile venture.

However, like any relationship, it requires a commitment to build a level of trust.

TRUST REQUIRES TIME - NEVER F/AD ONLINE.

Intelligent people do not trust each other based only on what they read online. Instead they better invest their time by sending an email to a potential partner or partners with a request to meet, talk, think for themselves, and continue that process until they understand how the situation would benefit them (and perhaps their current partners or family too). Any meetings will be in safe public cafes.

So, I/we invite you to solve this Mr_Eee, in the hope that your search within may also solve you.

-MEANWHILE, INCREASE WORLD PEACE: HUG SOMEONE TODAY!