I am n evolvi-g, ryder, and polyamorous.
My Self-Summary
Honest, caring, wise male / female who seek partners for a triad or
quad.
If you are:
BI FEMALE
BISEXUAL
FEMALE
QUEER
FEMALE
LESBIAN
FEMALE
MALE-FEMALE COUPLE
& willing to meet to discuss building a triad or quad team
MFF OR
MFMF and family,
&
greater than a 60% match, and less than a 20% enemy,
then ask to meet me / us in person.
I / we can fill the page with descriptors, but you cannot summarize
a person's
CHARACTER online. Also, because some
people may be jealous or hateful, of the abundance that we seek to
create, for reasons of safety, please respect our need for
confidentiality at this early
stage of our meeting. We will also respect your need for
confidentiality, should you choose to meet. While it may seem
difficult, because we all want the benefits of life partners right
now, please be patient, and understand that if we move more slowly
and carefully than most "couples" at the beginning, we will have
even better results in the end.
What I’m doing with my life
I / we are taking steps with our professional careers, and our
savings, so that we can share a house together either in the San
Francisco Bay Area, or in Hawaii. We want the house to be spacious
enough for each of us to have our own rooms, and moments of privacy
and isolation, and the ability to open and share our rooms and our
selves with our housemates when we so desire.
We have the legal expertise available to ensure that each of us has
equal rights in what we decide is to be group property and
income.
It is important that we each are willing to not only play hard, but
also work hard, to ensure a comfortable life together. Also, we
want to create a cooperative environment in which to co-parent and
raise children. If necessary, we will buy 2 or more houses in very
close proximity to each other.
What we're doing is not easy, but once the details of the
arrangements are in place, we believe the benefits will be well
worth it, for us personally, and for any potential children.
Obviously, you must be open-minded and dedicated to working with
people if you are to enjoy the benefits that sharing can
provide.
If we can share some hobbies that would be nice, but that is not
required. For example, one of us enjoys financial management. While
an interest, or professional experience in equities, real estate,
or law is helpful, it is not required to join our
partnership.
We do require, however, that in addition to having people skills,
each partner has an area of professional expertise that may provide
them with a stable source of income from the "real world". We
cannot hide or escape from the "real world," so we must embrace
it.
The idea is that each partner generates sufficient capital to be
financially independent, PLUS some income will go towards the
ongoing "real world" expenses of maintaining the benefits of the
partnership (such as a beautiful home, home insurance, car,
vacations, etc). While these expenses will be at "group rates" and
thus likely be less than they would be if you were to have to bear
them individually, or as a couple, they are real and need to be
paid, because failing to do so would jeopardize the security of the
whole group.
I’m really good at
Communicating? Let me/us know... Cuddling, hugging, spooning,
sharing, working hard for the people I love, and who are willing to
constantly reassure me/us that they love me/us too.
The first things people usually notice about me
long eyelashes
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
ETHICAL SLUT!
Note, however, for safety purposes, once we have the set number of
partners (3 or possibly 4), for safety reasons, we will probably
not add additional partners. Although we would have to decide about
this as a group; especially newcomers, if allowed, would have to
pass STD tests and vow to continue regularly doing so for the
ongoing safety of the group.
Under the principle of diminishing returns, especially if we
already have more than one beautiful sexual partner, we would
question the benefits, if any, of searching for, or engaging with
more people for sex.
Instead we would want to fill our time together by making home
improvements, hiking, making food, art and fun things like
that.
As for food, we will try to limit the amount of sugar and and
processed food in the house. We will also buy food that everyone
enjoys eating. However, if it so happens that only one person is a
vegetarian, then they will have to tolerate the occasional smell of
meat in the house. Or, if it so happens that only one person eats
meat, they may have to cook their own hamburger. But maybe if
they're nice, one of their partners will cook it for them! That is,
aside from assuring an emphasis on fresh whole foods, and some peer
pressure to exercise and keep in shape, no strict diets will be
imposed on others.
The six things I could never do without
MOMENTS OF FREEDOM FROM MY...UR...R...EGOS.
A DATE TO MEET U - THIS IS LITERALLY ONLY A SCREEN.
BREAST2BREAST HUGS.
UR LOVE.
U.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
U.
On a typical Friday night I am
WORKING LATE...SAVING MONEY...KNOWING 1DAY, EVERY SATURDAY, THE 3
OR 4 OF US WILL SPOON, CUDDLE, & CARESS TILL MORNING.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
HUGS R ALWAYS FUN, THE REST DEPENDS ON GOOD VIBES....
Aside from what a doctor prescribes, I/we are drug and disease
free; you must be too (although 420 / light drug use may be
tolerated).
Smoking, uncleanliness, alcoholism / obesity, racism, and
excessively negative thinking turns us off: please be sexy.
Note: because we all sometimes suffer from events and/or depression
and exhibit symptoms as described above, I/we may be willing to
work with someone who demonstrates a strong commitment to reversing
their issue(s). As we get to know eachother better, we will have to
share our issues (and we all have some!). Obviously, though, the
better we are able to function despite our issues, the better we
will do as a team. The main benefit of the team / partnership, is
that you will have people who are willing to help you through your
issues AND to remind you to enjoy sharing the finer things in life
- including your sexuality, personality, and companionship.
You should message me if
WHY LIE? EVERYONE LOVES THE FINER THINGS IN LIFE, BUT NO ONE'S
CHARACTER Z VZBL
ONLINE!
If you believe that it is possible that if join our team, you will
have a higher likelihood of having a more fulfilling life than if
you lived as a single, or mainstream couple. For example, instead
of shopping for groceries every week, you might be able to split
that duty and time among your partners. Nothing is perfect, but if
you've ever had two friends or lovers spoil you at once, without
being jealous of each other, then you know that exploring or
creating a loving triad or quad is a worthwhile venture.
However, like any relationship, it requires a commitment to build a
level of trust.
TRUST REQUIRES TIME - NEVER F/AD ONLINE.
Intelligent people do not trust each other based only on what they
read online. Instead they better invest their time by sending an
email to a potential partner or partners with a request to meet,
talk, think for themselves, and continue that process until they
understand how the situation would benefit them (and perhaps their
current partners or family too). Any meetings will be in safe
public cafes.
So, I/we invite you to solve this Mr_Eee, in the hope that your
search within may also solve you.
-MEANWHILE, INCREASE WORLD PEACE: HUG SOMEONE TODAY!