I am finally taking a break from a very busy life to slow down and
enjoy the world around me. I started an alternative lifestyle club
that caters to poly groups, swingers, kinksters and people from the
GLBT communities and while the club was successful, I accomplished
what I set out to do - establish a safe space for alternative
lifestyles in Colorado Springs.
On January 1st, 2015 - I passed the torch to a very good friend who
will keep the place going.
About me personally:
I am married, polyamorous and lead a happy, fulfilling life that
allows for me to seek out and explore all sorts of various
experiences. My girlfriend and I are very adventurous and would be
interested in meeting singles or couples in our area.
I like to think of myself as intelligent, however I don't think
there are many people out there who would, or are self-aware
enough, to say that they are anything else. I guess I will let the
people who know me develop their own opinion as to whether or not I
am an intelligent man.
I enjoy many different things about my life-
I love those closest to me with a depth that I didn't realize was
humanly possible until several years ago. Being polyamorous, I've
learned that to love more than one person is not an act that leads
to dividing love, but rather an act of multiplying it.
I love my job as it allows me to solve complex issues that can
arise with little to no warning. I am analytical and a
problem-solver who enjoys the challenges I face both in my
professional and personal life.
I enjoy being active; working with my hands, hiking, playing
tennis, riding my motorcycle, shooting pool, throwing darts and
just enjoying the people I have been blessed to share my life with.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend a lot of my time working, traveling, spending time with
friends and my chosen family. I work in Denver, but live in the
Springs, so I spend a lot of time commuting. I opened Southern
Colorado's first, legal alternative lifestyle club and art studio
in April, 2013 and have spent a lot of my time keeping that
resource available to the community it serves. I also build
furniture... very naughty furniture.
I’m really good at
Being artistically creative and articulate. I've been drawing for
as long as I can remember, enjoy working with my hands and feel
that I am also good with them, albeit, I will admit to
over-engineering things from time to time. I love making people
laugh and I think it's something I do well and often. I am pretty
motivational and I have been able to get people organized to get
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Sci-Fi, apocalyptic scenes and the paranormal when it comes
to books and movies.
Favorite Books: "Brave New World" by Aldous Huxley, "The Once and
Future King" by T.H. Whilte, "Starship Troopers" by Robert
Favorite Movies: The Star Wars Saga, The Star Trek Saga, 300,
Gladiator, Kingdom of Heaven
As for music, I really listen to most everything. Looking through
my CDs or iTunes list, you'll find everything from Anthrax to
Zappa, Yo-Yo Ma to Kenny Wayne Shepard, Stevie Wonder to the Sex
Pistols or Front 242 to 50 Cent. Every genre has something to
Food - I'm a bit of a foodie and I will continue to be so until my
metabolism catches up with me. I LOVE sushi, good Szechuan,
authentic italian and rural German food.
The six things I could never do without
My chosen family, my man-cave, water, oxygen, food, and the Earth
continuing to rotate upon it's axis.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why people behave the way they do. There are equal parts of good
and evil in the world and it's interesting to discover why people
choose one or the other. Beyond that, I think about ways of
improving the world... or at least my little corner of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a date, puttering around the garage, attending a Community event
or enjoying a movie while pigging out on In & Out gyros and
then falling into a meat coma.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm... I think I've already been sharing some fairly private
things. But sure... I'm your huckleberry... I'm Leather, dominant
and engage in BDSM as a regular part of my life. I am an educator ,
community organizer and Mentor for those wanting to learn more
about the BDSM lifestyle. I'm also polyamorous if you hadn't
noticed by now. There ya go... that's pretty private. Want to know
more? Feel free to drop me an email.
You should message me if
You enjoy living life, are adventurous, considerate, thoughtful,
self-aware (or striving to be more self-aware) and believe in the
value of honest communication and consistent, trust-building