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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27-39
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 19
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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North Carolina transplant. Originally from Memphis by way of lifes grand twists. I'm intrigued by life in North Carolina, easy access to the mountains and the ocean have been high on my list of must haves for a while so landing here felt a bit serendipitous. I've lived in large cities to small towns. I've ridden my bike through most every state and a few points in Canada. All that to say I have worked to develop a broad view of the world and a really fun collection of pictures I've snapped along the way. Bike rides, well prepared meals, giving and helping others are among my passions in life. The appeal of Left brain Right brain variance keeps me motivated and engaged in my pursuits, and I'm really excited to embark on a new journey into Social work as a new challenge professionally. Other bits of note: I have a thing for bad puns; am always tempted by the allure of travel(international especially); have a deep passion for nature; love taking in the arts and will travel to a cool concert with little to no warning.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Day to day I meditate, study up for the GRE (ugh stadardized tests), look to catch a bike ride, and seeking ways to make someone's day better. Equally enjoyable is chilling behind a camera trying to document how the world looks through these eyes, singing/ rapping along as I ride, hitting up the gym, and seeking out a disc golf course to play.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I have a really strong empathetic nature and enjoy helping others in various phases of life. I'm quick to introduce laughter and easy to smile because those two things can brighten most any day.

I'm equally comfortable attending an art gallery opening or a basketball game. Its all about adaptability and diversity for me.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My at ease nature. Being tall also helps.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love cuisines of the far east. Thai, Vietnamese, Korean, Japanese, Indian. I also LOVE Mediterranean fare. I have a thing with finding the worlds best Reuben. If you are a breakfast aficionado, we will probably be friends. And it doesn't have to be in the morning.

Reading is FUNdamental. Some favorites: Tom Robbins, Terry Pratchet, Margaret Atwood, Neal Stephenson, Steve Martin, PD James, George Carlin, David Sedaris, etc.

I enjoy some podcasts and have a weakness for watching basketball. Otherwise standup comedy and a Netflix suggestion are usually met with enthusiasm and jotting so's I dont forget.

I grew up with music weaved into the fabric of my culture, so this list is diverse to say the least. I always up for learning a new artist. Suggestions are forever appreciated. Small sample: Civil Wars, Angelique Kidjo, Tv on the Radio, Talking Heads, The Roots, Cinematic Orchestra. Little secret is I love some Rogers & Hammerstien. Theatre kid what can I say.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music(someone elses or something I get to play with).
Color. My career has been based on playing in color and a life with out it is unfathomable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Counseling as a career, 'Who framed Roger Rabbit'; Great movie or Greatest movie? I also enjoy mapping out bike rides and figuring out when I can slip in a round of disc golf.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to take over the world! Right, Brain what we gone do after that? Often my Fridays are filled with work and my schedule requires a bit of time management, which I happen to have in spades.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have 2 nieces back in Memphis who are a big part of my world.
And the Rogers and Hammerstien bit. The rest is way more fun to learn about over a chat!
You should message me if
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You think we could make each other laugh, think, or feel something kind of cool. I'm also quite open to building new friendships and learning about all the great people that make this area so special.