In terms of values, I'm a very weird mix. I'm traditional in some ways and highly progressive in others. Punk without the exterior appearance. Conservative without the societal ignorance or apathy. I'm a social introvert. I am a giant contradiction.
I suspect this gives a clue to who I really am or who I'm looking for...sometimes I read profiles and get real interested in a girl, only to find that she's listing "god" as one of her 6 things she couldn't do without (oh yes, some of us actually do read profiles). I would really like to meet a nice Christian girl who's an atheist (or agnostic, I'm not picky). On the flip side, I never thought it would be necessary to explain that I'm not at all interested in polyamory or the queer lifestyle. I have nothing against those lifestyles, but it's either San Francisco or Okcupid that has my questioning my own normality at this point.