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  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 1
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you want to be a Badger, then come along with me by the bright, shiny light, by the light of the moon. GO BADGERS!

So, yeah, lots of UW school spirit here.

When not excessively stoked about sporting event outcomes, I'm a scientist. I try to rationally think about the world at all times. It's difficult. I fail, because I am a human, and we are squishy bags of water and emotion. But the effort is worthwhile, I think.

Introspection like this is the kind of thing you can bury yourself with, so I copped out and asked a couple friends for a one sentence summary of me, and here are the results (so far):

"Well, I would say you're a kind, thoughtful, sometimes a little over-analytical scientist with a big brain and a big heart and a really awful sense of humor."

"I think you're very passionate and dedicated, and you want to strive for the best in everything."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Researching non-pharmaceutical pain relief, writing, and experimenting.

Relaxing and trying to be kind to myself and those around me.

Making sure those important to me know how much I care about them.

Playing games, board, tabletop, and video.

Thinking probably too much.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analyzing problems, puzzles, data
Remembering useless information
Being on time
Doing math in my head
Finding fantastic times to look at someone and say, "Is that a fat joke?"
Keeping an open mind
Breaking the ice (Wait, is that a fat joke?)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my eyes, or the way I talk, or that I just really said that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Foundation series, Jurassic Park, Thursday Next series
Movies: The Usual Suspects, Bull Durham, Apollo 13
Music: Beethoven, Miles Davis, The Beatles, Tom Lehrer, The Police, Train, Tonic
Food: Pretty much anything (Is that a fat joke?)
Games: Mass Effect, Dragon Age, The Witcher, FTL, Civilization, Pirates!, Path of Exile, League of Legends, D&D, Pathfinder, Shadowrun
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm changing this to, "Six things I wouldn't ever want to be without," cause I think that's more revealing of me as a person.

Unanswered questions
A car- I love driving.
Green Bay Packers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being a "grown up"
My Friends
Why people (including me) are the way they are
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either hanging out with co-workers (I have a very social workplace, which is awesome), chilling with friends, or catching up with friends online. Most of my friends from grad school are pretty busy, but lots of people have time to talk on Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Actual admission: If my falsetto is having a good day, I can sing a mean rendition of "I Will Survive."

Sarcastic admission: Here are all the things my warped sense of humor wanted to write in this space:

Every breath you take
Every move you make
Every bond you break
Every Step you take
I'll be watching you

When I was a little kid, my mother told me not to stare into the sun, so once when I was six, I did.

The greatest trick the devil ever pulled was convincing the world he didn't exist.

"We cannot be perfect, but if we chase perfection, we can achieve excellence." That quote is inspiring to me, and I wish I felt it more deeply than I do.
You should message me if
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Anything I've written intrigues you.

You equally appreciate the work of Haber, Euler, Bach, and Netter.

I've written you. I know, I know, women get too many messages to respond to all of them, but I really try to put thought into each message I send, try to say something reasonably intelligent and observant, and express genuine interest in someone as a person with each message. I don't want to sound like a prime example of male privilege and say I feel entitled to a response, but I'd like to say, I probably spent at least 5-10 minutes writing your message. Even if you aren't interested, I'd like to ask for a polite note. On the other hand, if you read my message and didn't feel like I actually expressed interest in getting to know you and just sent some sort of generic note, tell me, cause really, I didn't do that, and I'd hate if that's the impression I give off. And I'd like to do better next time.