Besides being "Dexter" in my own mind (the Cartoon Network Dexter, not the Showtime one; if you aren't sure who either of those are check you should check them both out), I have a wide variety of interests (see my "What I'm doing with my life" entry). I enjoy most types of music, movies and food. If I had to classify my views about romance and relationships, I would say that I am hopeless optimistic romantic realist. I am poly-friendly and very open minded. That having been said, I have always believed, when in a relationship, you should govern your behavior by what the other person finds acceptable. In fact, I have known I was poly since I was about 16 but was in a very succesful long term monogomous relationship. I haven't had all that many intimate or romantic relationships, but I have tried to make the ones I have had count. I really, really, really like to read (in fact, I get a little bit crabby if I don't for to long). My preferred reading material is science fiction or fantasy, though I enjoy an occasional bit of erotica, mystery or non-fiction from the philosophy, psychology, and spirituality areas. As far as movies go, I like pretty much everything except horror (but that is mostly because: a. the stories can be truly crappy and b. I have seen enough horrible things in life).
At this point I am looking for someone who is interested in getting to know me without worrying about where things are going to go long term. I don't really want a drinking buddy, though going out for drinks and hanging out at a couple of parties could certainly be fun. Ideally, I want someone to hang out and makeout with. If that leads to something more (sexually or emotionally) that would be awesome. I plan to keep my options open (and that includes the option of settling down; nothing is off the table), until it feels right to limit them.
I am Intense, Devoted, and Curious