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32 F Belmont, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:30am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay), Italian (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
[4.14.14: on a bit of a hiatus from okc, so don't get bummed if I don't write you back for 6 months....]

What is a Self? Ha ha, just kidding! Not a robot!

My Self is...rough around the edges, laughter-oriented, project-driven. Right now my projects are sewing myself a meditation cushion (more complicated than it sounds), a couple short stories, and some kind of wooden thing will make my desk have more space (message for drawings).

My Self likes to be challenged and also breakfast 24 hours a day and has never been stung by an insect! My Self has a semi-serious plan to befriend Louis CK through an NSFW letter writing campaign, and can do up to ten cartwheels in a row.

I care about social justice, a lot. Besides writing, it might be the only thing. Not really, but kinda.

Caveats: I have little tolerance for dishonesty, bullshit or pretense; I'm not skinny; I'm a Yankees fan; I'm an editor and will notice every single mistake in your grammar (but I won't tell you unless you ask). I think monogamy is kind of silly, and I'm only about 75% straight.
What I’m doing with my life
I recently got a job at an Ed(ucation) startup, so now I'm working my ass off for those guys. It's fun and I'm good at it but it's way too complicated for this lil box.
I’m really good at
eye contact
topspin forehand
The first things people usually notice about me
I do get a lot of feedback about my laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Three Rounds:
Nietzsche (except every single word he wrote about ladies), The English Patient, Venture Bros., Ben Folds Five, sautéed mushrooms.

JL Borges, Pootie Tang, Upright Citizens Brigade, The Chieftains, salade niçoise.

Hemingway, Apocalypse Now, Slings and Arrows, Dead Prez, grits & eggs & toast.

Guilty Pleasure Favorites:
Dave Barry, Reign of Fire, HIMYM, Postal Service, oreos.

True Detective was good. Game of Thrones is good.
The six things I could never do without
Alternate Question, Dealbreakers

1. rudeness, especially toward people who are just trying to do their jobs
2. saying you "Love to have fun," are "just loving life," any use of the phrase "play hard"
3. white guys with long hair (I know, I'm shallow. Sue me.)
4. profound ignorance and/or socially conservative values
5. being younger than 25 or older than 39. I have good reasons for this that are based on shit you don't know about. So, like, hear that please.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How (like, by what social mechanisms) and why life is so unfair to so many people. Also tennis, fiction, mortality, relationships and capitalism/the income gap.
On a typical Friday night I am
I think this means "what do you do for fun?" And the answer is red wine, gin, almost never going to Da Club, although I can and do break it down on the dance floor when appropriate, documentaries, getting in the car and Going, campfires, and following Snoop Dogg's dicta. I'm refusing to look up if that's the plural of dictum. Let's say yes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I really, really hate being shushed.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're not misogynist AND You thought this thing I wrote was kinda clever, you don't use letters as words ("a" and "I" notwithstanding), you tennis, or you are curious. I mean, shit, it's a free country. Ha, I guess that depends on what you mean by 'free.'