Moved from San Francisco to the area to help look after my grandparents. I don't have children but i am here to help them so they will and do come first. Not sure what else to add. I am quite by nature, very observant and live in my head a little. Looks really do not turn me on to a person, while intelligence, shared interest and humor do.

**Please do not message me if you are in a poly relationship (aka- dating established couples) I am not interested in becoming a secondary partner. Thank you**

Trying to figure how what the hell i really want to do. I am very pulled between practicality and personal fulfillment.

I don't really want much out of life, mostly to just be able to support myself, be able to pursue my interests and do some traveling.

I have 3 jobs! YES I AM BUSY! (Up at 5am- day ending around 9:30pm, around 6 days a week) but if i see something worth pursuing i will put in the time and energy if you are willing to do the same.

The season is now to start gardening and i am getting ready. Goal is to be able to grow 30% this season to support my family and I.

Being a really good friend, i am fiercely loyal and expect the same which is probably a fault.

Really enjoy not just baking but decorating desserts. Cakes, cupcakes and the like. I'v also gotten into baking my own bread once or twice a week (hard rolls, soft loafs and authenic San Francisco sourdough: its all in the yeast) and making my own pasta (still working on it)

My weight perhaps? I think they exspect me to look thinner than my full body picture posted.

I like to read, i used to do so more in the past than at the moment. I am open to anything, though all admit not a huge fan of reading poetry for the sake of reading poetry.

I don't like watching movies by myself, even at home. I am kind of behind on most that have come out in the past five to six years.

T.V. on the other hand, i watch on my computer. I really like Sci Fi shows, doctor who, The Dresden Files (*sad*), firefly (*more sad*) brimstone, the collector, Jekyll, being human, red dwarf, so on so on.
And Yes, i like Glee.
On my current must watch: Boardwalk Empire, Big Bang Theory, Sons of Anarchy and Dexter. I really unlike waiting a week to see a new episode.

Really open with music, have over 30GB of all sorts of stuff. Lean towards Metal but really, i love lots of diff stuff. Not too found of current country music, polka or really really ghetto, unless it makes me laugh. Anything else i pretty much enjoy or just don't care.

Food, one rule: No sea food. Ever.

I hate this question, iv had a lot ups and downs in my life and have learned not to become too attached to anything.

Why i can't be as clever and witty with my profile as everyone else seems to be.

Oh and gardening out here in this sand box. Was doing REALLY well until i went on a trip for a week and asked someone to look after my plants. Came home and more than half had died. Too late in the season to start over so in the compost they went and try again come the new year.

I seem to be doing a lot of crafting, more so than usual, making 8 bit character blankets for my friends and sewing up a new wardrobe.

Also contemplating if i want to go out swing dancing. Iv been learning for the past few months but don't feel like its enough for social events yet.

*edit* working, and if not working, wishing i knew some people to hang out with.

I like to read peoples answers to the questions on the site. I do put weight in them.

I have Lupus (both discoid and systemic) , rheumatoid arthritis and possibly fibromyalgia (lost insurance before complition of my diagnosis)

If you want to say hi or meet up. I swear i am a really nice person- as long as you are not a ass. I would really love to just make friends too.

Ladies and guys a like, if you like to sew, craft, garden, cook or just looking for a pal with similar interests- lets give it a shot! We might learn something from each other. I got this great chacolate bacon cupcake recipe.

I wont write back if you have half naked photos up, filled out non of the match questions or looking for casual encounters.- i mean really. Might as well be on CL then.