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58 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 45-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 8
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Here are the stats about me, not who I am but the things that are important only in creating part of the picture. I have 3 children, 2 have left the nest, 1 still at home.

More importantly, possibly because I have been on the planet this long, the bigger questions are becoming more and more important, such as how can I give back, what is my true nature, how to achieve inner peace and happiness. Material possessions are becoming less important, focusing more on my inner life. Quiet spirituality

I know, it sounds all very serious, I do pocess a sense of humor as well, love a good laugh. Being silly is one of my favorite pastimes.

I am open to learning, loving, and life
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, raising my teenager, learning to be single again...after being in relationship for at least 2 decades. Creating my own independent life, finding out what I want in this life, what creates joy in my life. Looking for the questions, being open to change and adventure. Always learning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting to the personal, really have no interest in a lot of talk about external circumstance. Psychology, human behavior, what drives us, why we do what we do fascinates me. I'm good at procrastinating and correcting other people's grammatical errors. Not so good at writing about myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have never asked.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything written by Ekhart Tolle, Marshall Rosenberg-non violent communication, anything about conflict resolution. Books about Buddhist Teachings, The Dalai Lama, Paul Eckman, Daniel Goleman, and many, many more.

Music - ambient, world music, such as Prem Joshua, Goton Project, Cafe Del Mar, Buddha Bar, St Germaine, Salif Kieta, Brazilian Girls, to name a few.

Food- most ethnic foods, love atmosphere of Greek, variety of Indian, taste of Mexican, generally if I go out to eat,it is the atmosphere and the company.

I can never remember the names of movies, there are many i have loved, mainly ones that make me think, or touch my heart.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My own private space, close connections with others and myself. Nature, movement - in many forms walks, dance, hikes, cycling, being near water or the ocean or a beach. Books, sense of humor,

Guess that was more than 6.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Thinking, ya thinking about thinking...not being wrapped up in whatever emotion, feeling or thought passing by. Being present, getting to know myself, how to enrich the lives of others. I also think a fair amount about intimate relationships, what might work, what doesn't, what I want.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to bed early, have to get up at 5am Saturday to get to work...argggh.
Working on a social life...any takers?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! person i am pretty open about my life, but on here, yikes, I feel strangely self conscious. There, that was kinda private. Okay, I sometimes miss having a lover, one day I would like to be in a closely connected, yet maintaining our own lives kind of relationship...working on my independence right now.

Sometimes like to rent romantic comedies and eat junk food.
You should message me if
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You are on this journey of self discovery of ourselves, each other and the planet. You also have a taste for adventure, possess an open mind, and are fairly well educated, not too much to ask for? And the ability to laugh at yourself, and possibly this profile.