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Maelui

29 F Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Aug 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Esperanto (Okay), German (Okay)

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My name is Stefanja. I was born, and raised in Oregon, and I haven't really travelled much. Other than Oregon, I've been to Washington, California, North Carolina, and Canada. I was laid over in Texas, and Ohio, but I didn't leave the airport. So, I don't think those count! I would love to travel around the US more, and even the world. Europe sounds like a great place to go, and I want to go to Indonesia someday. I have some Indonesian in my blood line, and I'd love to learn more about the culture, and the people.

First off before I say anything else, I want people to know that just because I'm a Christian it doesn't mean I'm a prude. A few guys have accused me of this, and it's not true. If only men knew how I really am.. I don't want to give away too much, because mystery is pretty sexy, so please don't think that if you dated me, and maybe (I am purely speaking of theory here..) got married, that all you'd ever get is missionary style, because that's boring, and I think I wouldn't be interested in YOU if all YOU wanted was missionary. I would blow my brains out of boredom before the first month of marriage was over.. That's all I'm saying.. lol.

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Saluton! Mia nomo estas Stefanja, kaj mi loĝas en Portlando, Oregono, Usono. Mi ŝategus babili, do bonvolu mesaĝo al mi!

Mi havas multajn hobioj, kaj nur por citi kelkajn, Mi ŝatas kuiri, baku, kroĉetado, kudri, spekti filmojn & televido, spekti japana kuraĝigo, legi japana maniko, legi librojn, aŭskulti muzikon, iri piedvagado, biciklo rajdado, kolektanta herboj, kaj sovaĝaj manĝeblaj en la arbaro, kaj herbokuracado. Mi havas multe pli hobioj, sed vi devos ekkoni min lerni pli pri mi! :)

Ankaŭ, mi lernas herbokuracado, kaj mi volas fariĝi herbokuristo iu tago. Mi havis nenian intereson en herbokuracado ĝis antaŭ tri jarojn. Mi ankoraŭ devas multe lerni, kaj ĝi povis esti longa tempo antaŭ mi povos fariĝi majstro herbokuristo. Por plej multaj homoj prenas 30 jarojn mastri herbokuracado, do mi havas tre longan vojon por iri. Mi ne scias multe pri herbokuracado, plejparte ĉar estas nenia oficiala instruado en herbokuracado, kaj preskaŭ ĉiuj, kiu persekutas herbokuracado devas ĉu instrui sin mem, aŭ fariĝi metilernanto sub alia herbokuristo. Plej herbokuristoj ne volas permesi al iu metilernanto sub ili senpage, kaj ili kutime deziras multe da mono, kiel $2,000 ĉiu semajno. Mi ne pensas ke estas bela, kaj mi opinias, se iu estas metilernanto, oni devus povi fari laboron, kiel purigado flakonoj, kaj aliaj teamoj, aŭ helpi la herbokuristo la vojo flegistino estus kiam la herbokuristo ekzameni homojn en kontraŭ la instruado. Do, ĉar mi ne povas pagi $8,000 monate kiel metilernanto, mi devas instrui min mem herbokuracado, kaj tio estos sufiĉe malfacila. Mi estas plejparte lerni pri plantoj, kaj identigante plantoj en la sovaĝa, antaŭ mi povos lerni kiel trakti malsanoj. Vivante en Oregono estas agrabla, ĉar ni havas tiel vasta foliaro, kaj vi povas trovi tiom da legomoj, kaj manĝeblaj plantoj en iu proksima arbaro. Oregono havas tian vastan landon de arbaro, ke en iu ajn urbo vi povas trovi arbaron ene 8-48 kilometrojn, aŭ malpli en ajna urbo vi estas en. Portlando estas la plej granda urbo en Oregono, kaj tie estas arbaro lando ĉie, kaj ene de 30 kilometrojn de la urbo vi povas atingi la arbaron lando. Mi loĝas 32 kilometrojn for de Portlando, do ĝi nur prenas min 30 minutoj maksimuman enir urbocentro Portlando, sed kie mi loĝas, estas arbara lando ene 4 kilometrojn for de mia domo. Portlando estas la sola tre granda urbo en Oregon. Alie vi venos sur ĉu la malgrandaj urbetoj kiel la mi loĝas en, aŭ eble metropola areo kiu ne estas tiel granda kiel la urbo, sed ne estas malgranda urbo ankaŭ ne. Ekstere de Portlando kvankam, vi trovos arbaro, kaj arbaran landon ene de 8 kilometroj de ia vilaĝon. Tio estas kiel vasta nia arbaro lando estas. Estas kiel ĉiu urbo estas ĉirkaŭita de arbaroj, kaj de alte supren en la aeron, vi vidos arbojn ĉie, kaj tranĉo el kie la urboj kaj vilaĝoj estas. La Pacifika Nordokcidento estas herbokuristoj revo, pro de ĉiuj arbaraj landoj ni havas ĉi tie.
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I'm a bit of a nerd.. you can learn more down in my radtastic nerdy section, also known as 'Favourite books, movies, shows, music, and food'.

I tend to be shy upon first meeting, but don't let that fool you! Under my layers I have a fun, silly, and sarcastic girl under there! I love to goof around, and I want someone that has a sense of humour. I want someone that I can be silly with, and have a good time. 90% of the time I'm not being serious, but I do know how to be serious if need be. ;)

I would like to date someone with the possibility that it could turn into a serious relationship. I would like to start out as friends, and if it grows into more, I would embrace it. I would prefer a relationship to organically happen on it's own, so it's not forced. I would prefer to meet someone who is ready for a serious relationship if it were to turn in that direction. I don't want to meet someone who doesn't know what they want.

If you go out with me and kiss me, and you go out the next night with another girl and kiss her, keep moving. If you're lining up dates with several women a week, keep moving. If you want get to know me, and you're interested in me, please be willing to give it a real chance without mind games. I don't want to meet someone who says they're into me, but then changes their mind every few days. When I meet someone, and I like them a lot, I will make the decision to stop talking to other people if we begin seeing each other, so I can have a deeper connection with the person I want to get to know. I would appreciate it if we begin seeing each other, that you would stop seeing other women while we are getting to know one another. Players need not apply!

I want to learn archery, and more about foraging for wild edibles, and herbs.. also known as wildcrafting. I'm trying to learn more about herbalism, because I want to be a natural healer. Being an herbalist has been something I have wanted for a long time, but it's not an everyday job, so I don't know where to start with it. I don't know if I need to be an autodidact, or get an official education in it.

I would like to meet someone that knows how to hunt, fish, and survive off the land. I want to learn survival skills, and meeting someone that knows those things, and can teach me, I think is pretty hot. ;)

I love to ride my bike, and I live near a bike trail that is paved, but in the middle of a forest-y area.. I haven't been on the trail yet, because I'd like to go with someone else. I don't like being in secluded areas like that alone. So, if anyone is out there that would like to ride on the 20+ mile trail with me near my house, feel free to message me!

I genuinely view myself as a caring, loving, compassionate person with a lot of love to give to the right person.

I forgot to mention that I'm Scandinavian, Indonesian, and Italian.. I love cooking Vietnamese food, and Indian food, along with many other ethnic foods. Mmmm a Vietnamese banh mi sandwich sounds pretty good to me right now.. lol.
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m really good at
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I'm quite good at cooking.. I enjoy cooking for my friends, and family.. I typically cook from the non American variety. I do sometimes make comfort food like pot roast, chicken noodle soup, or meatloaf, but I tend to enjoy foods from other cultures especially Vietnamese, Thai, and Indian. :)

I also have a knack for learning languages. I pick up on them very quickly.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The first thing people notice about me is my face.. I've been told by so many people that I have very expressive eyes, and an expressive face in general. People usually always mention my lips, and how they like my milky porcelain skin. I have very good skin, and it rarely breaks out with acne, and I don't have to use much moisturizer, as my skin is naturally quite soft. I recently cut my hair short, so now people notice, and compliment my hair a lot.. haha. People also notice that I tend to be a bit introverted upon first meeting. I can be very shy at first, and I can like someone a lot, but sometimes it can come off as though I'm not that interested in them, when I really am..

I am an INFJ.. I guess this particular personality trait is the rarest of them all, and only 1% of the population are INFJ. I don't know if I necessarily buy that.. INFJs have been called chameleon's in the past, and who's to say that there aren't a bunch of us mirroring other people to fit in? Perhaps there are more INFJs than I thought. Who knows, maybe that is one of the great mysteries of life.. haha.

I'm not shy, I'm just holding back my awesomeness so I don't intimidate you.. lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to cook/bake, watch anime, read manga, corset training, crochet, knit, sew, biking, go hiking, walking, go on picnics, watch movies, listen to music, read books, playing video games, learning, and playing magic the gathering, making new friends. I want to learn table top dungeons and dragons. I would like to find someone who likes call of duty, resident evil, assassin creed, god of war, and fantasy rpgs. I love everything fantasy related. Especially final fantasy! lol

MUSIC:

* Cults - 'Were Before', 'Always Forever', & 'You Know What I Mean' - Top 3 fav songs, but I love them all, as cults is one of my favourite bands.
* Camera Obscura
* The Lone Bellow
* Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros
* The Naked and Famous
* White Denim
* Zooey Deschanel
* Eddie Veddar
* The Lumineers
* Lorde
* Icona Pop
* Jenny Lewis
* The Hives
* The Strokes
* Khoma
* Stone Roses
* Nine inch Nails - Hurt FTW
* Depeche Mode
* Ramones
* Misfits
* Jack Off Jill
* Led Zeppelin
* Holly Golightly
* Arcade Fire
* Belle & Sebastien
* The Gentle Waves
* Guster
* Radiohead
* Air
* The Yard Birds
* The White Stripes
* Death Cab for Cutie
* Fleet Foxes
* Emiliana Torrini
* Interpol
* Muse
* Mazzy Star
* My Morning Jacket
* Neil Young
* Peter Bjorn and John
* Stereophonic
* Lana Del Rey
* Pink Floyd
* Wilco
* Creedence Clearwater Revival
* Indochine
* She Wants Revenge
* Broken Bells
* IAMX
* Benny Benassi
* Tool
* Jimi Hendrix
* A Perfect Circle
* The Killers
* Thom Yorke

I definitely like more music than this, but I don't want to list everything.
The six things I could never do without
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1. Robot, zombies, and time travel
2. My family
3. My dog
4. Books
5. My iPad mini
6. Ethnic cuisine

I couldn't live without sleep either. i. love. sleeping. a. lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Science, love, life, world of warcraft, trying to save money for a macbook as I don't have a computer right now, and have to use an iPad mini for everything I need to do on the web.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually at home, watching tele & films, playing video games, surfing the web, reading, crocheting, DIYing different projects, surfing Pinterest for my next project, creating awesomeness, drawing, learning languages (especially Esperanto, then maybe Italian, or perhaps German), chatting online with people I know I'll never meet in real life.

Once in a while I will go out with a friend, or group of friends, and have a couple drinks..

I want to learn how to paint, and create art. I'm very creative, and artistic, so I think I have a knack for picking up on art very well. I'm a self taught graphic designer, and I've been creating art through the computer for almost 15 years, but digital art, and physical art are two very different things. I just don't really know how to paint very well. Perhaps I will find resources online, and become a self taught painter. Decisions, decisions.. ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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The most private thing that I'm willing to admit is that sometimes I talk in my sleep, and I've even been known to sleep walk on very very rare occasions. Most of the time I will just sit up in bed, and talk. I'm an intelligent sleep talker as well. I'm not like a zombie sputtering out nonsense. I can actually have full conversations with people. An ex boyfriend used to like to talk to me in my sleep to ask me weird questions.. I guess I provided amusing entertainment for him.. haha. My parents used to use me when my sister, and I were children to get information about the bad things my sister did. I can't lie when I'm sleep talking, because it's like I took a truth serum, and I speak as though I'm fully aware, and awake most of the time when I am talking in my sleep. It's kind of weird.. lol
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 21–37
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You should message me if you want to meet someone who will love you for who you are, and be thankful, and blessed to have you in my life. I love everyone, but for me to have a romantic connection with someone, there has to be a mutual attraction. It doesn't mean I'm looking a body builder man.. just someone whom I find attractive not only on the outside, but the inside as well. I want to be able to share a connection with someone on a deeper level, and I want to explore another person, and love them for who they are. I would also like someone to love me for who I am. I want someone who ignites a spark inside of me, and someone I can't stop thinking about, and someone who brings the best out of me to be the best version of myself.