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31 • F • Santa Monica, CA
I’m looking for
- All who like bi women
- Ages 23–42
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Jan 3
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and somewhat serious about it
- Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Banking / Finance
- Rather not say
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)
I'm also good at taking photos of myself as you can see from my photo albums. If you can't see it, you're probably using the app.
That's about it. As you can probably tell, I don't really have that many special talents to share with anyone. I guess this makes me a spectator and not a doer.
Height: I'm a pretty tall person. Almost 6 feet. Not exactly towering over everyone else, but out of all of my female friends I am usually the tallest even without heels (And I wear heels all the time so you can imagine how tall I'd be with them). I'm not one of those people who can only date people my height and taller, nor am I those people who just want a tall, dark and handsome person. I have no height requirement and will not care if you are shorter or taller than I am. Although, I will say that I do like em' tall so there goes my bias there.
Hair Length: I have very long hair. It was much longer in the past. My hair went as far down to my ankles, which was about 5' 10'' worth of hair. Now it's at waist length. I didn't have cancer or went through chemotherapy or anything. I just decided to cut it due to the amount of damage my hair took when I was constantly coloring it blonde/brown. It was a big change since I have had extremely longer hair all my life but I've decided that it was a change for the better.
Busty: Yes, I have really large breast. Another thing people notice from looking at my low-cut tops. It's not really a big deal for me, but due to my height and my small frame it make my breast look gigantic. The difference between my hair length and my breast is that if people like my hair, they will usually tell me. Also I can easily see if they are staring at it. With my breast, not so much. I've never really caught anyone staring at them. I do get lots of looks in public but I could never really tell if it was because of my breast or my hair. I do love my breast. I'm not bragging or anything. It's not like they're the biggest out there. I'm just not ashamed of them. It's just one thing people notice about me, but you can never really tell where their interests lie.
Movies: Slumdog Millionaire, Hugo, Batman Begins, The Dark Knight Rises, The Fighter, Chronicle, Inglorious Bastards, Million Dollar Baby, Inception, Precious, Sin City, Ben-Hur, Sound of Music, Gone With The Wind, Titanic, Closer, Meet the Fockers, Pain and Gain, Titanic, Closer.
I love movies. I can't get enough of them.
Shows: Dexter, Smallville, Desperate Houswise, True Blood, CNN, Full House, Charmed, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Growing Pains, Nip/Tuck, Beverly Hills 91210, 91210.
Foods: I'm not picky, but I love sweets. I also love all types of cuisines and dishes from all different cultures. So a good restaurant may be a great place to take me on a first date. At least, besides a movie.
I am definitely not a Club, Bar or Party type person. Besides, that era in my life is long gone. People look at me and think that I'm a loud, wild person but I'm not like that at all. I'm actually very introverted, very quiet and very shy. With this being said, I don't respond well to dating or meeting up with people I don't know so soon. I am more like to reject your proposal to meet if we have barely talked on this site. It's my way of being polite rather than to flat out ignore you.
Occasionally, I do like to party but I'm not the type who parties hard. I'm usually the type who is sitting down watching everyone else act foolish. I can dance. I can drink but I'm not the type who gets 'wasted.'
I have an obsession with always having my nails done, especially the feet. Because of my love of pedicures and nail art, I do have a bit of a foot fetish (with my feet, any maybe someone else's depending upon how nice they look). I enjoy having my toes sucked. I don't know why. I just do.
Movies, Music, Art, Science, Faith, Finance and Business, Humanitarian Things.
Girls: I notice you check out my profile but I never hear from any of you. I hope it isn't because I intimidate you. If anything, I'm more intimidated of you than you are of me so feel free to send me a message.
Admittedly, I will check out the profiles of my matches on occasion and I will neglect to send a message. I know, that is pretty hypocritical, but I'm not very good at openers. The only thing I can suggest is that we can take a chance and hopefully see if we build a connection.
Guys: If you enjoy a good conversation. If you like to joke around. I want to build real connections with people. Please don't leave a phone number (for a call or a text), address or a meeting spot in any of your messages. They will be ignored and I will pretend I never saw it. Simple as that. Also, I'm not up for dating people just on a whim. I'd much rather get to know a person I'm going to meet.
I have no patience for anyone who doesn't have patience for me. You can probably guess that I get a ton of messages. I will try my best to respond to each and every one of them and I always respond in the order I receive them. If you become intolerable with me, I will start to ignore you.
Bad message just discourages me from reading all the others. Similar to how one (or a few) bad relationships or dates can discourage me from ever wanting to date ever again. It's always a bad apple which spoils the whole bunch.
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