Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, I'm 31, have now had a few adventures with this online dating
stuff, and here I am, still.
My initial dream in life was to be a chef. So I did that, found out
it wasn't for me, and moved on to my second dream, which was to
build a life size dinosaur out of tin cans. Wait, that was the
dream I had last night, different kind of dream.
Anyway, I'm a waitress and a bartender at a wine bar. I love my
jobs, because I'm passionate about food, service, and especially
wine! Right now I'm studying to get my first level sommelier
I'm sarcastic, medium to low maintenance (except on special
occasions). I like yoga. And shoes. And most other things everyone
likes, like puppies or pizza or whatever.
I'm smart and a little ridiculous. I'm hoping to meet someone I can
laugh with. I like being spontaneous and I love adventure, even in
its smallest forms.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying, drinking, reading about, and learning about all things
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, mixing drinks, talking to just about anyone, sleeping on
the beach, and people watching. Ooh, and mixtapes. Well, not so
much anymore, but in middle school i was a master.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, and my warm and open nature. In my work, I often end up
in very intimate conversations with strangers. I've been told that
I'm easy to talk to because I don't come off as judgemental.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: anything non technical by Richard Feynman. David Sedaris.
Any well written short stories, essays, etc. 100 years of
TV: Game of Thrones, Shameless, most of the series on HBO or
showtime. And yes, I watched True Blood. I know it's silly vampire
porn, but I'm a girl and I'm allowed to enjoy that stuff.
Music: Miles Davis, Willie Nelson, old 97s, rancid, zeppelin,
grateful dead, Jon Spencer blues explosion, just about anything but
not a big metal fan (I don't like being yelled at unless it
involves punk rock). I don't listen to the radio usually, mostly
Pandora, and I'm not a music snob. I love music, but I'm fresh out
of fucks to give about who is in what band and who really wrote
that song and basically any goings on in the music industry.
I have a bass. I do not play it well, but I'm trying. Kind of...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Something good to read
A really killer steak
My stupid smartphone
My fat cat Harry
Did I mention wine?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A whole lot of ridiculous things. I did that exercise where you
just open your mind and jot down the things that pass through it,
and I think I have ADD. Example: cloud shaped like a gorilla. I had
pages of this stuff. I highly recommend trying it. Can be quite
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, at home watching a movie... Wait, I'm a
bartender. So I'm working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love shopping at Target. For clothes, shoes, household stuff,
whatever. Don't judge me, their stuff is cute!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not a serial killer, and you're not asking me to send you
pictures of my feet to masturbate to. Seriously, that was the first
OKC message I ever received. And you're not married or trying to
cheat on your significant other.
I'm not terribly picky, but don't be a weirdo please. Unless it's
the good kind.
P.S.- Please have something to say other than, "hi, how are you".
Ask a question, start a conversation! It's way more fun that way,
don't you think?
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