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42 • M • Oakland, CA
- Last Online
- Apr 5
- Hispanic / Latin
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Other, and laughing about it
- Leo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Has kids
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly), Catalan (Poorly)
I am in an open, solid, committed relationship with SpringGemini. And each of us enjoys exploring excitement, deep connection & thrills with others as well. Can be short & sweet...can be long-term & intense. Simply as long as it isn't shallow...
Poets: • Mary Oliver • Gioconda Belli • Hafiz • June Jordan • Mario Benedetti • Pablo Neruda • Rainer Maria Rilke
Music on my current heavy rotation list: • Zoé • Jorge Drexler • Thievery Corporation • Ella Fitzgerald & Louis Armstrong • The Cure (my personal 'Best of' mix is pretty hot...) • Gustavo Cerati • Bebe • Stacey Kent • Juan Luis Guerra • Supervielle • Willie Colón
Movies / TV: • Nueve Reinas • Usual Suspects • Y Tu Mamá También • Children of Men • El Hijo de la Novia • Game of Thrones • The Wire • Breaking Bad • Pan's Labyrinth • Run Lola Run
Food I'd bring on a hike with you:
Olives (anchovy flavored)
A splash of olive oil
Almonds covered in Dark Chocolate
• people to make music with...
• building community, connection & relationships thru food, cooking, eating...
• inspiring comrades - folks building beautiful alternatives to this crazy conflictual societal construct called capitalism...
• the two divine & deliciously delightful little human beings who chose to be my kids...
• the knowledge that we can always be better than the worse thing we do...
• making out
• making vegetable gardens / orchards thrive
• making others laugh
• making a world that transcends hierarchy, patriarchy, white supremacy, heterosexism & our fossil fool economy
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 30–48
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
(...and don't mind discussing the interesting navigational nuances of non-monogamous relationships...)
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