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33 F Renton, WA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 24
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am not very good at summarizing who I am. I am a mother to 3 beautiful children (who do not currently live with me), I am an avid reader, a casual gamer (RPG, board and video), a music fanatic, an artist, and a very shy singer. I consider myself intelligent and well spoken. I'm an introvert, so I'm not much of a party person. I prefer intimate social gatherings to big ones. I'm still not entirely sure what I'm looking for on this website, friends, more than friends, something more perhaps.
I'm looking for ONE person, one partner. No couples, no people already in relationships, and no casual sex (FWB or hookups).
I'm ready to find the one.

After months of soul searching (and nearly 4 years of being single) I've determined I am, in fact, looking for something long-term. I'm not saying it should start from the moment we meet, or that it's going to happen with the first person I meet, because let's be realistic here, it won't. And I'm absolutely fine with making friends. But I know what I want. Ideally, I would want the house, the marriage, the idyllic suburban life. I'd want to be a SaHM/W again. Because I genuinely enjoy taking care of those who are important to me, such as a partner or my children.

Speaking of, I'm totally cool with you having kids, too. Or not. As long as you're not childfree, as kids are part of the deal here, and neither your lifestyle nor mine should be compromised. I'm not having any more children though, and if you're looking for that, don't look for it here. I loved being pregnant and I love my daughters, and I feel that 3 is my lifetime limit.

I recently (September) quit smoking, so smokers are an absolute dealbreaker, even just the "I smoke when I drink" kind. I cannot be around it. The smell makes me sick, and so does the taste. And trust me, my sense of smell is ridiculously sensitive, I'll know if you do. Go be with someone who doesn't mind, doesn't care or smokes too. You'll be much happier.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
4.19.14 - I've become a kind of gym rat. I've lost enough inches that my pajama pants keep falling off (no matter how much I adjust the drawstring!). I'm loving my cardio and my weight machines. I love LA Fitness (my gym of choice).

2.25.14 - Fallen back into the gym habit. Going every day and enjoying every second of it. I want to lose some weight and get into better shape. I'm also watching my diet and I've cut out almost all the soda.
I want to be bikini ready by June.

Art. Starting my life over again on a good foot. Things went sour a few years back, and I'm only just now starting to really get a foothold again.

I was working at City Target in Seattle, but that was just seasonal work, and I'm out there looking again. Hoping to find something more long-term.

Waiting patiently for baseball season to start. Go Giants!
(And Go Niners during football season! Yes, I live near Seattle, but I'm not a fan of the teams here. I bleed red, gold, black and orange baby!)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading, cooking, sleeping. Sarcasm. Singing, though I am incredibly hesitant to sing in front of strangers. Word search puzzles.
I'm an amazingly bad dancer. I'm really good at dancing badly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes.

The other thing people tend to notice is my big tattoo, since it's on my chest (along the collarbone), and usually quite visible. Also it's very brightly colored. Kinda hard to miss.

EDIT: Also my wrist tattoo tends to get a lot of comments (almost all positive).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books:
Autobiographies, biographies, scifi, fantasy, YA fiction, I love both novels and educational books.
Currently reading: "A Song of Ice & Fire" series. For the first time.

Favorite movies:
Too long to list. Look at my shows, same genres. I love comedy and animation the most.
Last movie watched: Pitch Perfect.

Favorite shows:
Comedy, space, science, animation, scifi, fantasy.
Current favorites:
My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, Suburgatory, Ink Master, Parks & Recreation, Archer, Game of Thrones, True Blood, Veronica Mars, Gilmore Girls, Shark Tank, Scrubs, That 70s Show, Raising Hope, Kitchen Nightmares, Orange is the New Black, Sleepy Hollow, Once Upon a Time, Orphan Black.

Favorite music:
Hard rock, classic rock, classical, alternative, post-grunge, folk, soft rock, I listen to pretty much anything. Yes, including country and rap, just more selectively.

Most recent Pandora stations:
90s Pop
Idina Menzel
Soft Rock

Favorite foods:
I love a lot of foods. I don't eat pork, avocados or eggs, and I don't drink coffee or beer, But that's pretty much my limit.

I love to eat good food. Not over indulge, but I love to experience taste as often as possible, and I genuinely love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A bottle of Aleve
My Phone
A good book (Kindle app or an actual book)
# 6 was my laptop, but the POS is dead now. :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Random, weird shit, like who decided that the rectal thermometer was a good idea.

I can frequently be caught staring out into the vastness of the night sky, watching the stars, planets and satellites, thinking about how endless it all is, and how small we really are.

I'm also always contemplating my next tattoo. I only have 4 right now, but I have plans for many, many more. Including a half-to-full sleeve at some point.

How to better myself, and how to best help others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home, alas. Preferably at a concert, but more often than not, at home with a book.
Playing Rock Band if I can, or karaoke if the opportunity arises.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not a violent person, but I totally broke a guy's nose in high school. He hit me on the head with a tootsie pop, and I swung around and decked him. I feel awful about that now, but those fucking things are hard! It hurt!

I'm on medication for Bipolar II. That doesn't mean I'm crazy or unstable. It means I am stable and functioning, and I am happy on my medication. It's not evil, and no, I won't quit taking it for anyone. I'm not broken, I'm just different.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
All I ask is that you send me coherent messages. Well written. Not just "hi" or "Hey how's it going". If you want a response from me, make an effort. I am worth the effort. If you don't want to engage me, just pass me by.

No couples, please.

You shouldn't message me if you're gonna get all weird because my best friend is not only a guy, but my ex-husband. He is, that's reality, and that isn't going to change.

You should also avoid messaging me if you want to have kids of your own. I've had 3, I can't and won't have more.