I'm looking for ONE person, one partner. No couples, no people already in relationships, and no casual sex (FWB or hookups).
I'm ready to find the one.
After months of soul searching (and nearly 4 years of being single) I've determined I am, in fact, looking for something long-term. I'm not saying it should start from the moment we meet, or that it's going to happen with the first person I meet, because let's be realistic here, it won't. And I'm absolutely fine with making friends. But I know what I want. Ideally, I would want the house, the marriage, the idyllic suburban life. I'd want to be a SaHM/W again. Because I genuinely enjoy taking care of those who are important to me, such as a partner or my children.
Speaking of, I'm totally cool with you having kids, too. Or not. As long as you're not childfree, as kids are part of the deal here, and neither your lifestyle nor mine should be compromised. I'm not having any more children though, and if you're looking for that, don't look for it here. I loved being pregnant and I love my daughters, and I feel that 3 is my lifetime limit.
I recently (September) quit smoking, so smokers are an absolute dealbreaker, even just the "I smoke when I drink" kind. I cannot be around it. The smell makes me sick, and so does the taste. And trust me, my sense of smell is ridiculously sensitive, I'll know if you do. Go be with someone who doesn't mind, doesn't care or smokes too. You'll be much happier.