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45 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 17
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm big on adventure - on any scale - and believe that the times that you remember are the times where you did something different. So, I say "Yes" a lot just to see where it takes me....

I'm very happy to have a few different circles of friends, and love the fact that both they and my coworkers are artists of some kind - actors, illustrators, animators, singers, sculptors, painters.

I attend Comic Con for business and pleasure. I love to travel, don't get to do it often - though I hit NYC, Colorado, and Europe last year (okay, so that's an atypical year) - and always love returning to San Francisco. I'm a geek, though not in the Simpsons' Comic Book Guy mold. I'm a handy conversationalist in general, and if you like to talk film, music, comics, or the creative, I can go for hours.

Don't smoke, not married (never been), no kids.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a writer and teach at an art university here in San Francisco. Screenplays and comics.

Rather than ask you what you do for a living, I prefer to ask what you do in your spare time. Me? Aside from writing - if it wasn't fun, I wouldn't do it - I do some improv, decimate friends in boardgames, jog atop Nob Hill, worship the great god Coffee, share drinks with friends/co-workers, sing me some karaoke, read me some comics and watch me some Netflix.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

Making people laugh without really trying.

Telling you what time it is. Seriously. I can usually tell you the time within about ten minutes of the actual time.

I'm also generally pretty good about telling you which way is North without a compass.

Communicating - aka, talking AND listening.

Appreciating your quirkiness.

Traveling. I tend to hit the ground running - whether it's 36 hours in Manhattan, or three weeks in Europe.

Getting the same sensation out of wandering around San Francisco as I do wandering through the woods.

Oh, and people say I'm a pretty good kisser, too. References available upon request.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Okay, I have no idea what the first thing is that people notice about me, but there seems to be a strange consensus amongst folks who have known me even for a little while. The frequent adjective that I've heard used to describe me is "awesome". I'm a bit self-conscious about including that here, but... well... I've heard it a few times from different people, so there must be some merit to it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Authors: Vonnegut. Grant Morrison. Alan Moore. Lovecraft. 99 Ways to Tell a Story. Tolkien. World War Z. Joseph Campbell. Warren Ellis. The Writer's Journey. Impro. Condensed Chaos. The Unbearable Lightness of Being - really, any Kundera.

Movies/Directors/TV: LOST, Razor's Edge, Game of Thrones, Louie, Lost in Translation, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Fight Club, Bande à Part, The Graduate, Blade Runner, Notorious, Raiders of the Lost Ark, Bull Durham, Harold and Maude, Twin Peaks, Big Lebowski, No Country for Old Men, Miller's Crossing, Casablanca, The Avengers, Out of Sight, The Dark Knight, Wings of Desire, The Hidden Fortress, Pulse (Japanese original), The Royal Tenenbaums, The Hangover, Coen Brothers, Hitchcock, David Lynch, Woody Allen, Wes Anderson, Kurosawa - Kiyoshi and Akira, Battlestar Galactica, Millennium, Star Trek, The Wire, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Californication, Family Guy, Deadwood

Music: Arcade Fire, LCD Soundsystem, Mumford and Sons, the Bird and the Bee, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, the Black Keys, Beck, Midge Ure, REM, David Bowie, Interpol, Rolling Stones, Beatles, Bob Dylan, Foo Fighters, NIN, Rick Springfield, U2, the Who, the Cure, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Peter Gabriel, Kate Bush, Neil Young, Marvin Gaye, Pearl Jam, Nirvana, The Police, Elvis - Costello and Presley, Coldplay, Tom Waits, Simon & Garfunkel, Keane, Steely Dan, Joe Jackson, the Kinks, Journey, Eagles of Death Metal, Leonard Cohen, Wilco

Food: I'll eat almost anything. That's a real turnaround for a kid who thought pizza was too exotic and weird. Some highlights off the top of my head: Thai, Korean, Roast Beef on a Dutch Crunch roll, Hawaiian Pizza, Dark Chocolate, Sushi, Organic Apples with Cheddar Cheese, good quality Scotch, Zapopan, the Paris buffet in Vegas
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends/Loved ones
My glasses
and... well... the internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Nouns, verbs, sometimes adjectives.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Like everyone else here on OKC, I have no "typical" Friday night. Friend's party. Watching a movie. Out on the town with friend(s) for dinner/drinks/movie/show/etc. Writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll give you a couple....
I can't stand to arrive late for a movie. I need the whole experience, trailers and all. I guess I could say the same thing about life.
I stole bottled water for Woody Harrelson.
My first two concerts were Depeche Mode... and Chicago. (I should probably add that I was a teenager at the time.)
For different Halloweens, I have been Georgie (A Clockwork Orange), Bob (Twin Peaks), an angel (Wings of Desire), and Bob Harris (Lost in Translation).
You should message me if
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You're looking for someone who'll make you laugh.
You're looking for someone who'll treat you right.
You enjoy a mix of hanging out and going out.
Bonus points for any type of artistic bent or geekdom.