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26 M Norwich, CT

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Last Online
Today – 4:42pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm hesitant to say I'm a full time sales rep for a cell phone company. One, because it implies I only work there because it's the #1 paying job for people who don't have a college degree, which implies I chose it for that reason when I took it because it's hella fun. Two, I don't like people who judge me from my job because I've done tins of different stuff.

My goal is to run my own cafe or bar. Or both. Day and night job haha. They're both involved in passions of mine so either works with me.

My dog is probably the only living thing outside my family that I truly couldn't be myself without. I'm just not me without a dog and after all she's been through, it makes me proud to see her so mobile and strong.

My family and I recently reconciled a lot of issues and hopefully I'll be on the airport packibg parachutes with my lil brother and sister and jumping out of planes with my dad if I can get my licensing on track.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm at this weird point where I'm not sure I'm too old for hook ups or too young for commitment. I've done both and I'll say this, I much preferred the commitment. Someone having your back in the trenches is comforting but hard to find when your trust has been burned a few times.

What I really want to do is someday open my own bar and run it the right way with proper pours, solid cocktail skills and proper casual comfortable atmosphere. I want it done right rather than watching so many bars lose sight of how it should be done.

A cafe mixes my other passions for tea and coffee prepared right. I hate seeing people make these sub par lattes and cappuccinos but asking for premium prices like they're worth it. Drives me nuts haha.
I’m really good at
Making tea


Entertaining people with stories or laughter


Bullshitting. Oh yes, its a skill.

I make a damn fine grilled cheese.
The first things people usually notice about me
Sometimes the cap. Probably the glasses. Might be the people laughing around me. Scratch the first two, it's the last one.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love Chinese food, sushi, barbeque and most pub food. Meat and potatoes guy, right here. If you can cook corned beef I can find some stones for your lonely left ring finger. Grew up on that and ramen noodles. Toss an egg in that ramen while they're cooking and you've got some good eats. Can you tell I've lived cheap before? Also, lamb. And cubed steaks. Such good memories haha.

I like just about all music. Seriously, just about everything. I play mostly blues and jazz on the bass guitar though. Not neccesarily well, but I do.

I love any book that engages me. The maximum ride series from back in the day, American sniper, celestine prophecy, way of the peaceful warrior, manga hither and thither, drink recipe books. Stuff.

I watch a few shows. Walking dead, deadman wonderland was pretty intriguing, being human even though the latest us version seems kinda meh, bar rescue because taffer is just awesome haha, world's worst tenant, top shot, Archer, Noir, Yukikaze, BECK: Mongolian Chop Squad was monumentally better than most shows though Cowboy Bebop a close second.

I loved the movies Always, pretty woman and RENT. In that order.
The six things I could never do without
Good tea
Good bread
Good meat
Good laughs
Good stories
Good times
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Anything and everything, often in a philosophical light.
On a typical Friday night I am
Lately, I've toned down on hitting the bars like I used to. Costs too high, amusement too low. The Moose Lodge in New London, Strange Brew, Brookside and my personal favorite of Fat Cats when I want awesome food and the best bartenders I've seen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Don't judge me for liking my satin pajamas.

I'm hoping to join CPI with my father and become a skydive instructor like him at some point.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
There is no if. Do or don't. That's up to you and I don't have a say or sway in the matter. That's how it should be. If I get a chance I'll probably respond as quick as I can, time permitting.

Also, sometimes when I visit profiles I won't send a message even though I'm interested simply because I don't have time or I'm not sure yet. Feel free to message me anyways. Worst case scenario, I don't respond.