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30 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:49pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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In my 20s, I still felt very much like a kid at times. At 30, I still feel like a kid most of the time--playful, adventurous, and in search of fun. Responsibilities are blessings that keep me grounded. I don't have all the answers, but I'm sure good at fielding the questions!

Who am I...? Oh, right! I've got that part figured out!
I'm a classically-trained professional cook, who left the Philadelphia food scene in 2010 and eventually became a member/owner of a local hippie-type co-op in the Cascades. In addition to cooking, I assist with kitchen and general business administration; in April, I was elected to serve on the co-op's Board of Directors.

I've got a mind for numbers and my work, and a big heart for loving others. The latter sometimes belies my sharp wit and aptitude for comic mischief. I value sharing one-on-one time, where I seem to forge deeper connections. When hanging-out with groups of people, I'm actually quite shy.

A country-boy, originally from Maryland's Appalachia, the Pacific Northwest has come to redefine my concept of "home".
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live and work in a tight-knit intentional community. We live sustainably by focusing on green practices and infrastructure. I'm surrounded by beauty every day!
I also love to travel, and always have a list of destinations I'm en-route to. After checking a few more locations off here in the United States, I will have to start looking at more international locales!

I'm looking for a solid partner: a quirky, genuine, do-gooder, out there pulling her own, looking for life's simple pleasures in unconventional places.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Expressing myself.
Navigating without a map.
Seeing the details.
Telling time with no watch.
Keeping plants alive.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmm...someone recently said I had "beautiful eyelashes".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Reads:
Jon Krakauer, Bill Bryson, Edith Wharton, Frank Norris, Ovid, C.S. Lewis, Kurt Vonnegut, Tolkien, Jack Kerouac, Hermann Hesse, Pushkin, Milton, Thomas Moore, Dante, George Orwell, Aldous Huxley.

Food: most anything, but I especially love Indian, Greek, and Japanese.

Music: Arcade Fire, Bloc Party, the Bravey, Bright Eyes, Cake, Coldplay, Deadmau5, Florence & the Machine, Foster the People, Franz Ferdinand, Guster, the Killers, Ladytron, LCD Soundsystem, Margot and the Nuclear So & Sos, Metric, MGMT, Moby, the Naked & Famous, the National, Oasis, Of Montreal, Passion Pit, Sam Isaac, Santigold, Silversun Pickups, Snow Patrol, the Temper Trap, Third Eye Blind, Tom Petty, Xx, Yeah Yeah Yeahs. I also <3 electro.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food. Water. Air. My bike.
How are the rest of you-people going to survive a post-nuclear world?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I guess I wonder if there's someone out there for me. I wouldn't change much about my life; but I wouldn't mind adding to it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hosting a fire at my A-frame.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I shower outdoors and love it!
You should message me if
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You want to live a sustainable existence.
You live in your heart.
You are a night owl.
You think the chat feature is under-utilized.
You think material is overrated.
You love the outdoors, and adventure.
You genuinely want to proliferate happiness, at home and throughout the world!