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Maid_enMercia

30 F Nottingham, UK

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 21–36
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
❖ This is my alternative account - the 'other me' can be found at http://www.okcupid.com/profile/ElenaHB - created purely so I could alter my username (basically I'm too tight to stump up for the profile upgrade which would enable me switch my username whenever I get the urge). Now, prepare yourself, this may take a while...

❖ Conversation with my former flatmate:

Jonathan: I've been here three years and not had a single date..
Me: Yeah, so?
Jonathan: Well you've been here a month and you're dating JESUS!

❖ I am a 30 year old Spanish graduate who is somewhat shy but saucy...

❖ Although I have a degree in Spanish, I should tell you that 'fluent' is not an accurate description of my linguistic capabilities...sure, I completed a degree in the subject but my university was shoddy and most of what I taught myself pre-enrolment I managed to forget throughout my final year...reassuring, no? And upon receiving my preliminary certificate it told me I would graduate with a French degree. Mind you, I did once manage a whole conversation in French about English breakfasting habits and potatoes with the man sat next to me at a Fête du Jambon braisé in Brittany. I should apply to the UN.

I'm a bit of a flirt yet (perhaps due to my penchant for staying in on Friday/Saturday nights) I’ve been single since 2007...frustrating in a whole variety of ways!

❖ I love dancing but my passion by no means indicates an aptitude for said activity & "clubbing" (i.e. exchanging sweat with 500 strangers in some cavernous venue bathed in alcohol and their various bodily fluids, to the tinnitus-inducing beat of trance/house/dub "music" and epileptic lighting effects) isn’t really my thing...not that I'm a hermit...I do occasionally venture outside and fraternise with the populace.

❖ I briefly took fencing lessons as a child (the type with swords, not dead trees) and have dreamed of buckling my swash so-to-speak ever since, though it's rather unlikely that any arguments will be settled with a thrust and parry combination. En guarde...
Bloody hell, that was a bit of a saga wasn't it? I'll shut up now...

❖ I am listless, restless, and jobless (lo and behold, I have been employed!)

❖ "When I was a child I caught a fleeting glimpse,
Out of the corner of my eye.
I turned to look but it was gone.
I cannot put my finger on it now.
The child is grown, the dream is gone.
I have become comfortably numb."

also...

❖ I am a, secondary, and account
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
❖ To oversimplify; inhaling oxygen, exhaling carbon dioxide...

❖ After finishing my university degree I decided to take a brief hiatus (which quickly turned into a three year journey through the circles of hell...I'm just about done with number seven and will shortly be commencing my descent into number eight) before finding a job. At some point I would like to move back to Spain to live...or anywhere that will have me at this point really.
August 2013: By some miracle I have been gainfully employed by a classy international company, what folly!


❖ I am in the process of laboriously inching my way through the Spanish edition of The Pillars of the Earth, which has taught me that my Spanish degree has left me ill-equipped to decipher ecclesiastical terminology.

❖ Somewhat surprisingly for an atheist, I spend a considerable amount of time in religious buildings, quite often flat on my back and gathering a bemused crowd...I think they are hoping that I have experienced some kind of epiphany, which has in its magnificence rendered me horizontal. However, the truth is I'm purely fascinated by the architecture and quite likely to be seeking the best angle for a crafty photograph, so if you see me spread-eagled on the floor of your local church, kindly step aside, you're ruining my shot...

❖ Other than the aforementioned, I am currently occupying my spare time with abject indolence (and the internet)...though a life of leisure is beginning to wear very thin...I'm severely frustrated (in oh-so-many ways) and require a good - but would consider a bad - man to entertain me.

❖ I am also losing sensation in my right index finger as a result of julienning copious quantities of courgette on a regular basis. That is not a euphemism.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
❖ Procrastinating, self-deprecation, cracking my knuckles, spelling...boy, what more could you ask for?! I would also consider myself fairly adept at innuendo: Benny Hill-style.

❖ My Spanish conversation teacher used to refer to me as "The Dictionary", so I guess I could hire myself out as a human lexicon.

❖ Imbibing copious amounts of alcohol whilst maintaining an impressive level of sobriety - 30 years of living and never been drunk yet as I seem to have inherited an unnaturally high tolerance for alcohol. Thanks, Grandma!

❖ It has been mentioned on several occasions that I give rather fabulous massages.

❖ I do a pretty mean impression of Chewbacca, which is perhaps unsurprising seeing as my mother's maiden name is Wookey. Seriously. I also do a none-too-shabby version of the clicking sound the Predator makes.

❖ My greatest triumph came as an eight year old when I won a Crunchie bar in a school wordsearch competition. Yes, I know...inspirational. With these skills I shall one day rule the world. Ahem.

❖ I seem to be working up a talent for staying up late, wasting my time on t'internet...when I should be in bed? Hang on, I am in bed; I'm just not making proper use of it. Infer from that what you will.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
❖ 'your lips deff =]' according to hottiejordie

❖ My eyebrows...or so I've been told.

❖ I'm English (no I don't drink tea and I have never met a member of the royal family).

❖ My oft-commented upon, non-native Somerset accent, acquired through intermittent exposure to the southern factions of my family. Is a Somerset accent better or worse than a Nottingham one? You decide & provide feedback!

❖ Well most people seem to think I look younger than I am (no I don't want any of your blasted Tesco school vouchers!)...which is flattering but when you're 30 and get mistaken for a teenager (I got carded buying a lotto ticket...seriously, do I look under 16?) it somewhat limits certain lascivious endeavours :P

Honestly though, I don't have a clue...that's for the rest of you to decide.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Trainspotting, Diarios de Motocicleta, The Things They Carried, American Psycho, The Graduate, One Hundred Strokes of the Brush Before Bed, Give Me Songs For Lovers, Prozac Nation, Immortality, anything penned by Bruce Chatwin...The poetry of Charles Baudelaire, Dylan Thomas, Seamus Heaney, Byron, Sylvia Plath, Federico Garcia Lorca, Pablo Neruda, Alexander Pushkin...however, I detest Charles Dickens, Thomas Hardy & I think that Shakespeare is highly overrated - yes I know, literary sacrilege. I'm one of those people who reads reference books (Dictionary, Thesaurus, Encylopedia)...for fun!

Movies: Amores Perros, Animal House, Cesky Sen, Dogma, Buffalo Soldiers, Cool Hand Luke, Das Experiment, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Full Metal Jacket, Goodbye Lenin, High Fidelity, Hot Shots, Ice Age, Mallrats, Notes on a Scandal, Papillon, Platoon, Apocalypse Now, Quills, A Streetcar Named Desire, Fight Club, Vanishing Point, Elsker dig for evigt, Requiem For A Dream, A Ma Soeur, Reykjavik 101...any of the Danish Dogme films...and basically anything in a language other than English...though in truth I'm not a cinema snob...I'll watch any old trash (I just might not buy it off of Amazon).

Music: Guns 'n' Roses, Chambao, Free, Decoder Ring, Depeche Mode, The Doors, Heather Nova, Dvorak, Jeff Buckley, The Kinks, Lila Downs, Luca Dirisio, Luar Na Lubre, Nek, Mazzy Star, Amaral, Nick Cave, Pachelbel, Poliça, Portishead, Porcupine Tree, Rachel Yamagata, Roberta Flack, Rodrigo, Rosie Thomas, Saint-Saens, Santana, The Smashing Pumpkins, Fleet Foxes, Ryuichi Sakamoto, Jean-Michel Jarre, Metallica, Alice in Chains, Tangerine Dream, Cocteau Twins, Sneaker Pimps...

TV: The Big Bang Theory, The Wire, University Challenge (though I loathe the pompous fool that is Jeremy Paxman), Have I Got News For You, Carnivale, QI, Family Guy, Open All Hours, The Fast Show, TRAPDOOR (Willie Rushton = Genius! Does anyone else remember this?).

Food: Ensaimadas, Chocolate, Paella, Pa amb oli, Peaches...I can't abide raw tomatoes (cooked is fine, as is any tomato-based food)...weird. I drink like a 19th Century Englishman - my favourite tipples being port and gin and the occasional drop of absinthe. I love the smell of beer...well at least the fermenting yeast, but hate the taste of beer/lager...and as for champagne, you can keep your Moet and your Perignon...I'd rather drink vinegar.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well, aside from the obvious (I shan't elucidate):

❖ The sun; I am English after all and therefore possessing a severe vitamin D deficiency which can only be abated by the wearing of a swimsuit and bronzing myself on a beach in balmier climes. Remember to wear SPF kids.

❖ Wispas and Fry's Peppermint Creams; *drool*.

❖ The Internet; a tool of the devil which has in recent months consumed a good deal of my social life...and they say religion is the opiate of the masses.

❖ Books; I have thing for stationery too...you're likely to find me in Paperchase fondling the pages of notebooks to see if the paper "feels right"...kinky huh?

❖ Other humans; well, it's not good to drink alone is it?

❖ Intimacy; I can live without this (as evidenced by my long-term singledom), but after such abstention I'm harbouring a certain hankering. Conversely I couldn't live without solitude...people are great, however sometimes the only company I need is my own.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
❖ The bizarre shape of Steven Seagal's head; seriously that thing is freaky.

❖ Sex; probably because I'm not getting any.

❖ Emigrating; Spain or Russia and South America are top of the list. Otherwise, anywhere else that'll have me.

❖ Finding a job. Any offers?

❖ Why (despite being left-handed ) can't I use left-handed scissors?

❖ Why I am only able to whistle by sucking air inwards as opposed to blowing it out.

❖ When I say that I am a Spanish graduate people think that I am Spanish, if I were to say that I was an IT graduate would they assume that I was a computer?

❖ Why men offer me the use of their shoes in nightclubs...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
❖ My social life is an absolute whirl...it just forgot to invite me along. Therefore I can usually be found on the sofa...though on occasion I might be found in a bar/club being offered men's shoes. Seriously. This has actually occurred on several occasions in the past fortnight, I'm not quite sure what to make of it.

❖ Alternatively I can be found ranting on about my current bête noir to long-suffering friends and relatives.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In lieu of revealing anything well, revealing I will offer the following:

❖ I've never been in love.

❖ Also, I'm a bit of a pedant, and no that does not allude to an unhealthy interest in small children, just a slight preoccupation with all things grammatical. And though happening upon grammatical errors irks me I will not send belittling messages to the offender, I am English after all and incapable of confrontation, I simply resign myself to a spot of cathartic grumbling.

❖ The tip of my nose is exceptionally bendy...though as yet I have found no practical use for this.

❖ There is very little in this life which aggrieves me as much as losing at Yahtzee does; it fills me with a rage that I cannot put into words.

❖ Okay, okay I confess; I actually enjoy the films of Jean-Claude Van Damme...with the sole exception being Streetfighter; what a total piece of shite that was.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
❖ Why do so many women insist on describing themselves as "bubbly"? Bubbly? I'm not a bloody bottle of Babycham. So, if you are looking to spend your time with an amiable pessimist or merely subject yourself to my misanthropic mithering then be my guest and compose me a line or two.

❖ You will take pity on a terminally single 30 year old and are willing to suffer my sarcastic and often lewd sense of humour.

❖ You have all your own teeth (though hair is not a necessity).

❖ If you can explain what the fuck Valhalla Rising was about.

❖ You have nothing better to do...which you obviously don't if you have managed to make it this far!