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52 Dearborn Heights, MI Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 5
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Special Diet
Not at all
Christianity and it’s important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am celibate and a Christian (though not a fanatical one) and have found almost all the men on here are fakes from Nigeria or local guys trying to score. I AM NOT HERE FOR SMUT. I AM CELIBATE!! Jesus has not blessed me with a family. I am NOT desperate in the least but it still would be wonderful to find a GENTLEMAN to share a life with. I would be interested in finding other "orphans" out there. I've had the worst luck on this website. It's mostly been 90-95% scammers and perverts looking for fun. If you are not an intelligent, polite GENTLEMAN I am not at all interested. There are loads of bad girls out there so best of luck with them. I, however, am not and never have been a bad girl nor have I ever shown any interest in bad boys. I've called myself a nerdette for decades as I do not partake in any form of partying, smoking, etc. Old age and stress will be the only thing to age my mind but drugs will never touch me. I am into animal rights, a semi vegetarian diet, baseball, classical music, a Christian lifestyle, etc. I am not interested in a boy looking for an older woman, an A.A. man looking for a Caucasian fling, or a bad boy who wants a mommy to reform him. I've had HUNDREDS of such offers and find it VERY annoying to be bothered with such nonsense. Years ago men were very polite and would date and court a lady. It's a shame that the internet has changed those good ideals of the past. I am always very busy and may not have time to chat with people and I do not do the endless emails thing due to pain associated with typing. Good luck in your search. If you don't put "I get it and understand why you are celibate" in your message I will presume you're another scammer and will NOT reply. I'm not seeking my forever soul mate on here since I know he does not exist on OKC. I was in a car accident 2 years ago and suffer from migraines from a wrecked TMJ, severe disc damage, etc. so I am "out of commission" now.

09/14 ***** It's official. I've now surpassed the 500 mark for perverted/fake messages on here. I guess there are NO normal GENTLEMEN on this site and most live in Nigeria. Simply DISGUSTING! *****

*****UPDATE***** I am NOT looking for anyone to date. I had wished God would have sent me a husband to love and have as a companion, but it's not in His plans. I was in a car accident and now my body is completely broken (the photo is from the same year but prior to the accident). I have never ever found a compassionate man here in MI (All I see are men who want "runaround Sue's" for fun). I have too many negative things going on and thus am not seeking anyone. Good luck in your search.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I USED to be really good at being creative be it an artistic form or via writing short jokes, skits, stories, and such.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm intelligent and that people never give me a chance and go beyond the cover to learn what's inside the book.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Classic movies, action/adventure, science fiction, etc.

SUPERNATURAL, DOC MARTIN, Brit coms (PBS shows), animal planet, the history channel, educational shows.

Alternative/classical music. Skinny Puppy~Romantics~Oomph~Project Pitchfork~Down Below~Vivaldi~Die Arzte~Santa Hates You~Wolfsheim~Imatem~Absurd Minds~Diary of Dreams~Images In Vogue~VNV Nation~

Flexitarian diet, German, Italian, Chinese.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I am wasting my time looking for a gentleman on line. Nearly everyone on this site has been a "foreigner" (aka scam artist from Africa) so sad.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never ever found at a bar!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I feel I could write a book about the oddities of on line "dating" just from my messages alone from men. If it were not so sad it would make quite a good comedy!

You should message me if
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You do NOT hunt!
You are single and are seriously searching for love & are emotionally available.
You like women who are not skinny and are "nice" ladies.
You are a sweet gentleman and are NOT just here for sex/hookup.
You have good grammatical and writing skills and like intelligent ladies.
You are clean-cut and Caucasian.
You are not allergic to hypoallergenic cats.
You do not use drugs, smoke, or drink lots of alcohol.
You are Christian or spiritual.
*****Please have a (real) photo posted--thanks*****