I've come to the conclusion that very few real men frequent this site. It's mostly overrun with a bunch of scammers from outside USA or local men just looking to score. There are the young guys looking to get lucky with "old, desperate women" and the older guys who can't get a woman so they will settle for anything they can get or the "chubby" or "bbw" type of woman since they think they are doing them a favour by showing them attention. Then there are the black men who think they are doing white women a favour by trying to bed down with the overweight ones. When will men grow up? If I were 21 again I think I'd join the nunnery. I miss the days before the internet when some men were still gentlemen and they didn't flirt with 100 women at the same time. Most internet men are addicted to serial dating ("let's meet for coffee" types who love meeting 200+ women per year). I am not cut out for this type of lifestyle.
Since I am "imperfect" (in the eyes of the "perfect man") I have just been seeking a friend but even that seems to be too much to ask for. Please guys, stop sending every woman on this website invites to become your "fwb". Real ladies don't want that. Good luck in your search.
PLEASE STOP WITH THE FWB INVITATIONS AND SCAMMER ATTEMPTS FROM FOREIGN MEN. EVERY WOMAN ON HERE IS NOT DESPERATE OR STUPID. BOY IS THIS SITE FULL OF FAKES.