Must be disease free and not a hard-drug abuser. No one with "Borderline Personality Disorder"; once was enough, thanks.
What would make a girl awesome? Clarity of mind... love for the cold and winter... desire to bear children, and to raise them to be strong, healthy and happy... appreciation for music and literature... interest in philosophy and spirituality. I would also like someone who appreciates fancy exotic cheeses and pâtés and beer.
I read over three thousand books as a teenager... I know because I kept count for a while. Some of my favorite authors include: Frank Herbert, Robert E. Howard, George Orwell, Greg Bear, Vernor Vinge, Lois McMaster Bujold. I really enjoy reading books to girls.
I love rock and metal. Favorite bands include Turisas, Mercyful Fate, King Diamond, Blood Red Eagle, Ozzy Osbourne, Bound For Glory, Burzum, Absurd, the Doors.
Not a sports fan. Please don't bore me with tales of Wayne Gretzky's batting average or who highstuck who in the fourth inning.
I've dated Christians and often gotten along with them fine, but the religion is so irrational and seems to block the minds of its practitioners from true spiritual growth. I'd like to find a woman of the Asatruar, as such is my own faith, or perhaps a Buddhist. I'm a bit iffy about Atheists, but I understand that even some of those are open to spirituality; so I won't rule them out altogether. I would like to meet someone with a keen interest in spiritual matters, perhaps an iconoclast who can examine several religions and draw learning from each.
As crazy as I am about green eyes and freckles, I have also seen beautiful women with blue or brown eyes; blondes, brunettes and redheads... I'm not so obsessed with green eyes and freckles that I'd rule out women who do not sport these particular features.
I keep coming up with new criteria I want to add... which is frustrating considering how hard it is to meet anyone to begin with. Here's the latest: I would really, really like a girl who appreciates metal. I've really started to notice it with my last four girlfriends, that they didn't like it at all. I want a girl who can enjoy the same music as me. The last two were making comments like "You're playing your angry music again!" and "Oh here's some nice music to slit our wrists to!" I don't find it angry or depressing at all - I find it energetic and beautiful.
These "% enemy" things on this site crack me up. "Hmmm.... here's someone good to date... and here's someone I can duel to the death."
I really like reading books to girls in bed. Science fiction, typically. My favorite, Frank Herbert's "God Emperor of Dune"; or Lois McMaster Bujold novels.
Is this site seriously so small that I have to constantly get matched with people from North Dakota?