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34 M New York, NY

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Last Online
Yesterday – 8:54am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly), Spanish (Okay), Portuguese (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
About me:
My passions keep me busy, and my background keeps me grounded, and open to new things.

I was born in small town of just 2,000 people. I've been to almost every state in the US and lived in San Francisco for 5 years. Now, I'm seriously considering learning Italian for my trip to Italy next year.

About you:
Open minded, emotionally intelligent, new to the city, or looking to expand a friend base of like-minded, smart friends who love excitement, adventure but avoid unnecessary drama.

You probably own one pair of leather or vinyl pants. Literally or metaphorically speaking. (a.k.a. you like to have fun)

You are interested in a meaningful, passionate, relationship and you think excess drama is best kept on the stage. You have self-confidence and passions in life. You are kind and defined your own sense of cool. Perhaps some of your confidence comes from knowing yourself, overcoming obstacles, or the humble experience of knowing what doesn't work. Perhaps you share my laid back yet active approach to life.

Interested? Send an email. Have nothing to say? Tell me what your most recent adventure was. Have no adventures you can share (without fear of repercussion)? Tell me if you like the taste of beer, so I'll know if you like to have sex on the first date. (that's what the statistics say... ha!)

Still nothing? Just tell me what is your favorite word is. (I collect them and will share with you. )
What I’m doing with my life
My day job: Put science into a computer.

My night job: Wouldn't you like to know...

My life: Make an impact. Reduce poverty. Improve lives with the arts, science, and good intent.

I'm starting a hummus business, so we can cook together
I’m really good at
Listening without judgement.

Pushing the limits when tested / encouraged.

Gym. Tan. Laundry. (? are you really reading this far?)
The first things people usually notice about me
My green eyes, how tall I am, or ...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
... Air conditioner juice.
... Waking up before my dream is over
... Daydreaming in the subway, realizing that I'm staring directly at someone
... Cherubs (see next section)
... I hate it when I'm taking a drink and all the ice attacks my face.
... Getting too many good ideas all at the same time and no way to write them all down.
... Barbie:

Activities and food that unleash serotonin and dopamine
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I don't get enough sleep because I stay up late for no good reason.

What is love like without any ego?

How can I take all my plans to the next level
On a typical Friday night I am
Forget Fridays. Mondays and Tuesdays are more fun.

Here is an example: a few weekends ago I scored 4 tickets to Book of Mormon for a show that started in an hour and a half. I called all my closest friends who were spontaneous enough to go on this Tuesday adventure with me. The first ones to reply got the tickets.

We had more fun than any "typical Friday".

(this wasn't an isolated incident, I did the same for the Lion King and other shows)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My biggest weakness is working too hard, and loving too deeply, and having strengths that are just too strong.

I am also deeply disturbed by statues of naked, winged babies (cherubs).

So, I looked up how to spell cherub correctly and learned that what really bugs me is actually called Putto. I then read that the female version is called a Puta which is Latin and short for "slut"

WHY would people WANT an imaginary naked winged baby with a connotation like that in their home or use as decoration!?!?! Ugh! Their creepy expressionless faces just reached a whole new level of disturbing in my book .
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...if you want me to be the reason you look down at your phone and smile. ...and then walk into a pole.