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Makethe1stMove

42 / F / Straight / Single

Charlotte, North Carolina

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:20pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am seeking someone who will be my best friend and more.One who wants to do dinner or whatever several days a week and eventually more. I want a partner in life! Someone who is honest and able to handle me at my best and at my worst. I am seeking someone who is willing to work when it becomes hard and boring. Someone who can be honest and communicate thier feelings and fears. Someone who is not afraid to be man. Lead and I will follow but understand there will be times when I push back.. Being open minded is a plus. I am far from boring. I live in the Highland Creek/Concord Mills area and have NO DESIRE for a long distance relationship Please do not contact me if you are further then 30 minutes away.

Some things about me in no particular order: I am a nature lover, any day outside is a good day, on the lake, a river or any ocean, outside on a trail, In a tent or just doing yard work. I prefer the radio to TV, Or you can find me at local festivals and concerts. I can not imagine life without music.
Put me in a LBD at a black tie event and I am just as at home. Let's go see a play or the sypmphony and once we get home we can take a ride on the Harley. Let there be no doubt I am very much a lady. Even in this day and age. I have expectations of you as the gentleman in my life and I would hope you have some of me. Little things like opening a door for me and me surprising you with tickets to a game or ? These are lessons I have come to learn, some the hard way, relationships take work and communication.
I am a people person and an old hippie at heart, I am as open minded as they come and enjoy making a difference in the world. I often find myself thinking of others who are less fortunate then myself and prefer to think it keeps me humble and blessed.
I like spending time outdoors instead of inside as long as it’s not raining But, dancing in the rain is perfectly acceptable! Take me camping or on a trail hike to see the waterfalls, Lets soak our toes in the water, maybe even go skinny dipping! I enjoy reading a book more than going to the movies. I do enjoy reading but find it hard to sit inside on a beautiful day. I enjoy spending time with friends more than the bar scene, unless it involves dancing ( add that to my bucket list) Put on some music, fire up the grill, and make some drinks. A man that cooks is sexy as hell! I love the Whitewater center and espeically mud runes and ropes courses, kyaking, stand up paddle board and on my bucket list.. learning to windsurf! trail riding, hiking or just visiting a park and if we get bored we can go to the beach and do alittle fishing while sticking our toes in the sand!
I own my home and enjoy working in the yard, the projects are endless but have debated moving and living a simple life in a tiki hut, ( oh one can dream). There is nothing better then cool fall nights after dinner around the fire pit with friends and lovers!
I’m not really looking to date around, I’m looking for someone that makes me laugh, that I can talk to for hours, that’s willing to challenge me. I want someone that wants to see the world but that’s happy spending time at home too. walking along the beach, hiking in the mountains. I want to travel Europe and Irland but I am really am a simple girl, I can pack for a weekend with one bag and get ready in 10 min but I also enjoy LBD dates on the town. I enjoy getting to see the real areas I visit by getting off the beaten path
I am an adventure girl.. I will try anything once and maybe twice if I did not like it the first time.I am firecly independant and far from being a diva but I do like being treated like a lady. Everyday I learn something new.
So, if you've made it this far, you like what you've read, take a chance and wink or shoot me an email. And who knows where it will go, until we both take the leap.
What I’m doing with my life
For the first time in my life I can concentrate on just me.. I am trying to find new, fun healthy hobbies and am considering going back to school... Completing and adding to my bucket list!
I’m really good at
Cleaning and organizing.
Being a mom
Having compassion and giving back to others.
Putting others at ease in my pressence.
Being goofy and fun!
The first things people usually notice about me
I am short.
Most of my friends tell me I can make friends with anyone and can fit into any situation.
I am also not usually very subtle and tend to get straight to the point.
The six things I could never do without
Music
Nature/Trees/outside/water
my sight
Books
I would be sad without a pet
A blanket
hugs and kisses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
New adventures, my kids and the next goal in my life
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually at a wine tasting or out to dinner with friends..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am human and it is ok for me to ask for help.. A hard lesson to learn...I am scared of heights but by the end of the summer 2013 I WILL have completed that ropes course at the White wWater Center
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 42–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You have read my entire profile.
Have already had your mid life crisis and are looking for a honest and genuine relationship