If you've continued to read, thank you for having an open mind. This type of relationship is not easy for most people. It takes effort and a high degree of self-awareness and emotional function. If you're not scared away, read on for more about me...
What I'm looking for is very flexible. I'm open to everything from friendship, casual, long term and everything in between. I really want to connect with a person in whatever relationship model that might transpire. I don't have any expectations other than this: no drama. My marriage is solid and is not going anywhere. I will encourage you to talk with my wife so that you know I am not misrepresenting myself. If you are fine with a relationship that might be some daily contact via electronic means, coupled with one or two in-person dates or visits a week, let's chat.
I value intelligence above just about anything else, with a sense of humor as a VERY close second. I love to laugh and make jokes. I can take a joke at my expense and can dish it out as well. I think one of the highest forms of intelligence is to be able to laugh, poke fun, be sometimes sarcastic, and know that we all love each other despite the ribbing.
I love music. I listen to nearly every style of music there is and am a bit geeky about my knowledge of music history, musicians, producers and such.
I read a great deal, including novels, graphic novels, short stories, non-fiction, etc. I love science / speculative fiction in all of it's variants, but read a wide variety. I am chronically, intellectually curious. I want to know everything about everything, which is nearly impossible and really a detriment to my sleep.
Lastly, I have a somewhat public profession, so I must be discreet in my local habitat about the non-monogamous lifestyle I've chosen. This doesn't mean I need to sneak around or obfuscate, but I won't be able to post full-on pictures or my real name on this site. If we get to know each other, I'll share both.