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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
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6′ 7″ (2.01m)
Body Type
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Open relationship
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs
My self-summary
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I am a tall, tall guy. Somehow, this seemingly arbitrary feature of myself has defined some aspect of my entire existence. So, your platforms, heels, stilts, and piggyback riding pastimes are welcome here. With few exceptions, if you hug me, you're likely making friends with my nipples.

I have always found myself preoccupied with the joy of laughter, the ecstasy of music, and the adventure of exploration. I tell stories, real and imagined, to celebrate the idiosyncrasies of life. I am interested first and foremost with truth, compassion, and making connections that stretch unnoticed into the middle of the night.

I am an artist, musician, and a sometimes actor. I am a gentle giant, loud and passionate with a penchant for making people laugh. I fight for the equality of all people. I am a confident man on a journey never finished, blessed with amazing people in my life who continue to show me new paradigms. I love language and communication and I am not afraid to use it.

Light and sound continue to inspire me. I find the smell of forests at night to be intoxicating. I believe that the best way to light today’s room is with last year’s Christmas lights. I am always down for long drives to nowhere with the intent of getting lost. I love progressive rock songs that go on for way too long, listening to them way too loudly. And bourbon. How did I get along without you.

I love singing harmony with friends and finding harmony in those moments.
What I’m doing with my life
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Expanding my knowledge of the world. Exploring love and relationships. Enhancing my communication skills. Finding new ways of escaping the rat race. Singing and playing the six string with my band on stages throughout the land, until my calloused fingertips become hard and glossy. Finding calm and seeking peace. Rocking out in strange environments. Trespassing.

I am also a sometimes citizen of Slab City, working on a board of directors with the post modern assemblage art encampment It is a habitable, extensible art environment founded by the late Charles S. Russell. The place is just pure magic.

I work as a catalog and fashion photographer for a vintage clothing line.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. Comedy is my way of dealing with the world.
Singing. I find more satisfaction in that than almost anything.
Music. Though I’m still working on it.
Loyalty. I’m a damn good friend.
Late night adventures. I’m spontaneous and dangerously inquisitive.
Theatre, though I’ve been away from it for a rather long time now. Sad face.
Knowing a little about a lot of things.
Pop culture references
Cooking, as of late.
Overcoming obstacles.
Throwing a damn good party.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My monumental stature. 6’7”.
My mustache, which I try to keep styled in a wry curl.
People say that I have an all enveloping warmth, backed up by my eyes.
A fine collection of hats.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Whew. Ok, here we go...

Hemingway, Steinbeck, Kerouac, Salinger, Hunter S. Thompson, John Irving, Stephen King, Toni Morrison, Maya Angelou, David Sedaris, Bukowski, William S. Burroughs, etc.

Shakespeare, Eric Bogosian, David Rabe, Charles Busch, Neil Simon, Arthur Miller, James Goldman, Ntozake Shange, Yazmina Reza, Zora Neal Hurston, Tony Kushner, Neil LaBute, Alfred Uhry, Moliere, Anton Chekov, etc.

Wes Anderson, PT Anderson, Simon Pegg, Guy Ritchie, Spielberg, Coppola, Aranovsky, Gondry, Ivan Reitman, Mel Brooks, Ed Wood, Roger Corman, Terry Gilliam, David Fincher, Probably more I’m not thinking about right now…

I don’t watch television. But, I do catch some stuff online when I have the time. These would include Arrested Development, Six Feet Under, Queer as Folk, Sex and the City, Dexter, Battlestar Galactica, Portlandia, Lost, etc…

Music. Um. I’ll try to make this short.
I just discovered Fitz and the Tantrums, and I am going INSANE for them right now. Anyway....
Pink Floyd, Elton John, Old 97s, Tom Waits, John Legend, Air, Alice in Chains, Billy Joel, Stew/The Negro Problem, Murder by Death, Badly Drawn Boy, Beck, Belle and Sebastian, Bjork, Caravan Palace, Curtis Mayfield, David Bowie, David Byrne, David Gray, Depeche Mode, Dr. Dog, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeroes, Fleet Foxes, Mumford and sons, Coldplay, Elliott Smith, Jon Brion, Jason Falkner, Rhett Miller, Grant Lee Phillips (and Buffalo), Mr Bungle and Faith No More, Jellyfish, Gordon Lightfoot, Stan Rogers, Kylie Minogue, Jason Webley, Amanda Palmer, Jethro Tull, Leon Russell, Supertramp, Joe Cocker, Joni Mitchell, Fiona Apple, Massive Attack, Metallica, Michael Jackson, Oingo Boingo, Pop Will Eat Itself, Queen, Radiohead, Simon and Garfunkel, The Smashing Pumpkins, Steely Dan, Talking Heads, Sublime, Bob Marley, Easy Star All Stars, The Traveling Wilburys, The Band, CSNY, Carol King, VAST, NIN, VHS or BETA, I’m just gonna stop here for now…

As for food, I’m trying for being mostly vegetarian. But I still love meat and no one will take it away from me. I never met a genre of food I did not like. Except maybe Scandinavian... Too much pickled fish.

I listen to Dan Savage every week.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Adventures to my desert playgrounds, north and south.
My friends and family.
The stage.
Animal friends.
My Lady love.
Fuck your rules.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Chord progressions. Coffee and Cigarettes (i've quit). Long drives through the desert at night. The Universe, and my very, very, small place in it. Harbin Hot Springs. Burning Man. The atmosphere of East Jesus: Music drifting out of the piano room, the open fire, the desert wind, scuptures looming in the dark, the distant fire of .50 caliber test rounds. How people live in Slab City year round. The downfall of patriarchal society. Gay rights. Women's rights. Going to India, living in an ashram. String Lights. Amazing food. the perfect guitar solo. Accordions. Urban exploration. Urbane exploration. Writing. Writers. My Friends. My love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Yelling at the moon, leaving no Buffalo Trace, singing and speeding. But not at the same time. That's reckless.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This isn't private, but i'm in an open, primary relationship with my lady love GlitterDoom. She is a beautiful, witchy woman.

I have a deep love and fondness for Disneyland. Not necessarily Disney. I also love Secular Christmas. A lot.

I'm also a pirate or something.
You should message me if
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You're into the absurd, the strange, the unexpected. You love freely with passion. You love being spontaneous without expectation. You love to share music (or love to play it). You like extraordinarily tall, slender men. You are looking for new exciting connections and have a willingness to explore them. Or, you like to drink and laugh your ass off.