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Feminist, polyamorous Pagan open to connection with folks of
compatible political and theological identities for companionship
and possibly consensual touch.
If you think feminism and rage towards the patriarchy is a personal
attack on you because you are male, please educate yourself before
messaging me. Everydayfeminism.com is a place to start.
I delete plain messages such as "hi" or "what's up." Please
demonstrate that you have read this by refraining from such
messages. Meaningful content or questions only.
I'm anarchistic and spent almost 9 years of my life practicing and
sometimes teaching Nonviolent Comunication. I value emotional
awareness, honesty, and transparency, acknowledging that this can
I value autonomy in relationship. My body is my own, I'm not
interested in possessiveness or forming a partnership with "veto
Date ideas: indigenous rights conference or dumpster diving.
What I’m doing with my life
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-advocating for action in my community to mitigate and adapt to
-Going back to school for a Veterinary Assisting certificate,
followed by RVT, looking for vet clinic jobs
~trying to meet other polyamorous people
~learning how to deconstruct oppression
~learning about intersectionality and applying it,
~involved with the local Quaker meeting and organize for
~doting on my cats
~living in an intentional community!
I’m really good at
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Writing--both grammar and content
Learning academic stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
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-An apparently default grumpy expression, according to some
--Authenticity and transparency about my emotional and mental
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books and Authors:
Harry Potter (books NOT movies except 7th ones)
Chronicles of Narnia
Ecopsychology books--especialy authors Bill Plotkin, Joanna Macy,
Switched at Birth
Goddess Alchemy Project
early 2000's top 40 for nostalgia
The Hanging Tree by Jennifer Lawrence
Medicine for the People
Pagan and hippie chant music e.g. Tina Malia
Chinese, Thai, seaweed salad
Healthy and organic and vegetarian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Snuggles (& long term, sexual expression)
(assuming basics such as air and water are taken care of, which I
am because otherwise this list isn't as fun)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with my community and/or participating in a community
event and/or taking a bath
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I read erotic fanfiction. Also, non-erotic fanfiction. Of most of
the fandoms listed above.
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