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24 F Chico, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–27
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and very serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A polyamorous witch living life in harmony and reverence for Earth as best I can, using Ecotherapy and nonviolent communication. I'm an egalitarian anarchist (meaning no rulers, not no leaders or rules). I celebrate all wild things as sacred including my body and emotions.

I'm looking for connections as I go along my path, without bein drawn off my path. If our paths coincide for a time that's wonderful and when they part it is te to part. Maybe they only cross and we can make love at the crossroads. I'm on a quest to build radical coexistence in the world and if you are too maybe we will be in each others lives for longer.

I come to the Bay once a month so if you live down there we could get together. Whether you're in Chico or anywhere else I'd love to go on a date somewhere meaningful like an indigenous rights conference or an interfaith council. Or a documentary showing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Practicing living outside the right/wrong paradigm, maintaining an Activist Support Group, getting a Degree in Ecotherapy and Integral Human Development, trying to meet other polyamorous people, trying to retrain my mind to be indigenous.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening empathically!
Writing--both grammar and content
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told I often look like I have a "grumpy" expression on my face. What I perceive as neutral some others perceive as grumpy. Telling me to force a smile is a sure fire way to stimulate some grumpiness though.

Once you hang out with me you'll notice how authentic and transparent and unique I am :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Harry Potter (books NOT movies except 7th ones)
Inkheart series
Chronicles of Narnia
Ecopsychology books--especial authors Bill Plotkin, Joanna Macy, Theodore
Firefly (Serenity is not canon IMO)
Fern Gully
Ma Muse
Chinese, Thai, seaweed salad
Healthy and organic and vegetarian
Burritos and nachos
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Snuggles (& long term, sexual expression)
Open-hearted Communication
my Cats

(assuming basics such as air and water are taken care of, which I am because otherwise this list isn't as fun)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to save the world
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately, Watching Angel or Buffy on Netflix. If you're a Whedon fan we could snuggle and watch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I read erotic fanfiction. Also, non-erotic fanfiction.
You should message me if
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You want to compare our astrology charts according to shamanic astrology.
You care about the planet and all it's beings.
You believe in magic.
You know your purpose, and are doin it at least some of the time--no adolescents please.
You like to snuggle.
You like to communicate a lot, and have studied or want to study Nonviolent Communication to know how to listen empathically without forcing advice or fueling the fire.
You are interested in open relationships with a LOT of TLC.
You like to trade massages.
You are interested in playing with sexual energy intentionally (such as the neoTantra tradition of Margo Anand).
You know what deities all the days of the week are named after or would be excited to learn.
You want to live a life with emotional as well as mental intelligence.
You are a vegetarian or eat only ethical meat.
You could ace a test on female (and male!) anatomy.