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MalachitetheCat

25 Chico, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Pansexual, Queer, Heteroflexible, Demisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on med school
Job
Education
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Feminist, polyamorous Pagan going to school for veterinary assisting. I love reading and listening to (on youtube) bell hooks lately! If you think feminism and being rageful towards the patriarchy is a personal attack on you because you are male, don't bother messaging me. I do NOT accept patriarchy, exploitation, and ecocide!

Important: I delete plain messages such as "hi" or "what's up." See bottom of profile for messaging guidelines.

Tags: Egalitarian Anarchist Nonviolent Communication

Celebrating my Wild Self and Honoring my Body, Heart, Soul, and Psyche.

Looking to Connect without being drawn off my Path, Building Radical Coexistence in the World, and if you are too maybe we will be in each others lives for longer.

I'd love to go on a date to an indigenous rights conference or dumpster diving.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going back to school for a Veterinary Assisting certificate, followed by RVT, looking for vet clinic jobs
~trying to meet other polyamorous people
~learning how to deconstruct oppression
~learning about intersectionality and applying it,
~involved with the local Quaker meeting and organize for Witchcamp
~volunteer at the humane society
~doting on my cats
~living in an intentional community!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening empathically!
Writing--both grammar and content
Learning academic stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-An apparently default grumpy expression, according to some
--Authenticity and transparency about my emotional and mental processes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books and Authors:
bell hooks
Harry Potter (books NOT movies except 7th ones)
Otherland
Inkheart series
Chronicles of Narnia
Ecopsychology books--especialy authors Bill Plotkin, Joanna Macy, Theodore Roszak

Shows:
Switched at Birth
Sailor Moon
Firefly
Buffy
Dollhouse
Charmed
Fern Gully
Avatar
Xena

Music:
Sinead O'Connor
Goddess Alchemy Project
dance music
glitch hop
early 2000's top 40 for nostalgia
The Hanging Tree by Jennifer Lawrence
Medicine for the People
Pagan and hippie chant music e.g. Tina Malia
Ma Muse
Rebelution

Food:
Chinese, Thai, seaweed salad
Healthy and organic and vegetarian
Burritos
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Nature
Snuggles (& long term, sexual expression)
Open-hearted Communication
Empathy
my Cats
Books

(assuming basics such as air and water are taken care of, which I am because otherwise this list isn't as fun)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to save the world
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with my community and/or participating in a community event and/or taking a bath
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I read erotic fanfiction. Also, non-erotic fanfiction. Of most of the fandoms listed above.
You should message me if
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Please fill out this questionnaire when messaging me: (I very well may not respond otherwise.)

1. What are your personal ethics and practices around consent?
2. Compose a brief essay (one paragraph) on the anatomy of pleasure.
3. One or more things you resonate with on my profile?
4. What are your activist pursuits or causes you care about?
5. Experience with magic/Paganism? Thoughts on it?
6. What does emotional intelligence and communication mean to you?
7. What kind of diet do you eat? Where do you get your food? How do you decide what food to buy and eat?