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25 Chico, CA Cis Woman

Cis Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21-30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:56am
Bisexual, Heteroflexible, Pansexual, Queer
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Other and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Feminist, polyamorous Pagan open to connection with folks of compatible political and theological identities for companionship and possibly consensual touch.

If you think feminism and rage towards the patriarchy is a personal attack on you because you are male, please educate yourself before messaging me. is a place to start.

I delete plain messages such as "hi" or "what's up." Please demonstrate that you have read this by refraining from such messages. Meaningful content or questions only.

I'm anarchistic and spent almost 9 years of my life practicing and sometimes teaching Nonviolent Comunication. I value emotional awareness, honesty, and transparency, acknowledging that this can be difficult!

I value autonomy in relationship. My body is my own, I'm not interested in possessiveness or forming a partnership with "veto power."

Date ideas: indigenous rights conference or dumpster diving.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
-advocating for action in my community to mitigate and adapt to climate disruption
-Going back to school for a Veterinary Assisting certificate, followed by RVT, looking for vet clinic jobs
~trying to meet other polyamorous people
~learning how to deconstruct oppression
~learning about intersectionality and applying it,
~involved with the local Quaker meeting and organize for Witchcamp
~doting on my cats
~living in an intentional community!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening empathically!
Writing--both grammar and content
Learning academic stuff
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
-An apparently default grumpy expression, according to some
--Authenticity and transparency about my emotional and mental processes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books and Authors:
bell hooks
Harry Potter (books NOT movies except 7th ones)
Inkheart series
Chronicles of Narnia
Ecopsychology books--especialy authors Bill Plotkin, Joanna Macy, Theodore Roszak

Switched at Birth
Sailor Moon
Fern Gully

Sinead O'Connor
Goddess Alchemy Project
dance music
glitch hop
early 2000's top 40 for nostalgia
The Hanging Tree by Jennifer Lawrence
Medicine for the People
Pagan and hippie chant music e.g. Tina Malia
Ma Muse

Chinese, Thai, seaweed salad
Healthy and organic and vegetarian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Snuggles (& long term, sexual expression)
Open-hearted Communication
my Cats

(assuming basics such as air and water are taken care of, which I am because otherwise this list isn't as fun)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to save the world
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with my community and/or participating in a community event and/or taking a bath
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I read erotic fanfiction. Also, non-erotic fanfiction. Of most of the fandoms listed above.
You should message me if
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Please fill out this questionnaire when messaging me: (I very well may not respond otherwise.)

1. What are your personal ethics and practices around consent?
2. Compose a brief essay (one paragraph) on the anatomy of pleasure.
3. One or more things you resonate with on my profile?
4. What are your activist pursuits or causes you care about?
5. Experience with magic/Paganism? Thoughts on it?
6. What does emotional intelligence and communication mean to you?
7. What kind of diet do you eat? Where do you get your food? How do you decide what food to buy and eat?