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24 Chico, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 9
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and very serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A Polyamorous Pagan trying my best to live reverently on my Precious Planet.

Emotional Ecotherapist trying to live an Egalitarian Anarchist lifestyle, drawing on Nonviolent Communication to Celebrate my Wild Self and Honor my Body, Heart, Soul, and Psyche.

Looking to Connect without being drawn off my Path, Building Radical Coexistence in the World, and if you are too maybe we will be in each others lives for longer.

I'd love to go on a date to an indigenous rights conference or dumpster diving.

I come to the Bay once a month for a leadership program with Miki Kashtan, so I'm interested in talking to people out of the area as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning lots on Coursera, trying to meet other polyamorous people, learning how to deconstruct oppression especially of indigenous people, but learning about intersectionality and applying it, getting more involved with my Quaker meeting.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening empathically!
Writing--both grammar and content
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've been told I often look like I have a "grumpy" expression on my face. What I perceive as neutral some others perceive as grumpy. Telling me to force a smile is a sure fire way to stimulate some grumpiness though.

Once you hang out with me you'll notice how authentic and transparent and unique I am :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Harry Potter (books NOT movies except 7th ones)
Inkheart series
Chronicles of Narnia
Ecopsychology books--especial authors Bill Plotkin, Joanna Macy, Theodore
Firefly (Serenity is not canon IMO)
Fern Gully
Ma Muse
Chinese, Thai, seaweed salad
Healthy and organic and vegetarian
Burritos and nachos
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Snuggles (& long term, sexual expression)
Open-hearted Communication
my Cats

(assuming basics such as air and water are taken care of, which I am because otherwise this list isn't as fun)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to save the world
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing empathy potluck night at my house, then maybe going dumpster diving.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I read erotic fanfiction. Also, non-erotic fanfiction.
You should message me if
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You value safety and respect in relationships especially sexually; you know about consent and can negotiate easily about sexuality without pressuring me in any way, welcoming both our desires, fears, and boundaries.
You are polyamorous or non-monogamous.
You are humble about learning to sexually please a partner, in other words , know that all bodies are different and don't get defensive about feedback, requests and suggestions for new or different ways of sharing sexuality.

Highly preferred:
You can start a conversation on here in a way that interests me, doesn't start with sex, says what you resonate with on my profile, and asks me an intriguing question or three.
You care about the planet and all it's beings.
You are magical.
You value participation in life, making life meaningful.
You like to snuggle.
You like to trade massages.
You know who Margot Anand is and possibly have read her books.
You are a radical pagan, especially a Reclaiming witch.
You value emotional and spiritual intelligence.
You are a vegetarian or eat only ethical meat.