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23 North Hollywood, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jan 30
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am legitimately on here searching for friends only. Baring that in mind, continue if you will.

Make no mistake; I’m humble as can be. My challenges, my accusations and my disbelief are simply tests. This world is so strange, so different even from other members within it that I like to test its balance. Take a challenge here; make a challenge there, gaining information from everywhere. The cause and the reaction are my true teachers, each argument another lesson. Each boundary pushed is another skill gained, another secret whispered through my mind. Take nothing personal, my words, although my own, are tainted by the mischief caused by a knowledge thirsty heart. I’m an actress, a wishful poet, an angst ridden artist and a philosopher, struggling for new information, new worlds and boundaries. My words are my symbolic blood, metaphorically bleeding over the unfinished tapestry of life. My joy is taken in the unspoken praise, that simple tear glistening in the corner of my reader’s eye as the emotions I bled into my masterpiece finally take impact. The one they try to hide under a critical word. After all, so many choose not to show that tear, that soft glisten. For isn’t the social life simply a stage? This girl’s strong, defiant. This boy’s shy and quiet. Each group playing another role, each individual acting out their part, a play without rehearsals. A movie without a script. The roles we play, and the ones we choose aren’t always the same, I realize this. Each person has a deeper side, one that many try to suppress. Test me, the plot twist is welcome.

....not going to lie... I have that here because I can't remember my MySpace password and wanted it posted somewhere.

On a more relationship based note, despite my stance that anyone I meet here will be assumed to be in pursuit of friendship first, I have recently learned that I'm not so sure I can ever date someone who isn't kinky again. I lean on the side of Polyamorous, although I believe that to be because I am a whistling gypsey rover (Kudos to you who get that.) My Fetlife is MalkavianChildre as well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I figured it was time to update this section as it is cause for much confusion. I moved in December for my brother's cancer treatments...which were successful! Now that those are over, I have gone back to school.

Before I moved, I listened to everyone around me and went into business. I dropped out of the program when my brother was given a death sentence in order to take care of him. Now that I am going back to school, I may pick up business again eventually, but I decided to follow my dreams instead. I'm going to school to become an FX makeup artist, which was why I had chosen HR in the first place... To have a job to fund my FX makeup. UPDATE: Graduated and now a full fledged makeup artist with my imdb page up and running!

In my own time I am attempting to learn Mandarin Chinese so that when I go back to Beijing I can talk to my friends without my host sister translating everything. I'm slow at languages, but I love them dearly.

Also in my own time I have been learning soldering, welding, electronics and other such things so that when my little sister comes to visit me I can help her enter battle bot competitions. I'm so proud of her, being in Jr. high but heading the highschool robotics team.

I enjoy learning, exploring, martial arts and more. I try to keep what I'm doing open to suggestions. My friends and I do everything from graveyard movie screenings to pewter casting on our weekends. Please, suggest more! (This said boyfriend initially, but seeing as we broke up... Well, it only changes who I drag along, not what I do.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Public relations, diplomacy and good, hard, manual labor. The main reason for listing the above? I have a fine tuned talent in balancing listening skills with following instructions. Not to be mistaken for being a good listener in personal conversations. I try, but when I get excited the force is not strong in this one.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...are my atypical behaviors, my energy level, my eyes and my voice; not necessarily in that order.

Edit: My handshake. Since moving out here, my handshake has become legendary. Is it so strange for a girl to be firm?!

Depending on circumstances, people either comment on how oddly friendly/energetic I am, how meek and timid I can be, or how blunt and business oriented I can get. All are very common to me, but seem to stick out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My absolute favorite food is tripe! I'll try about anything, but its really hard to go wrong with most Asian and Indian dishes for me.

When it comes to movies, my all time favorites are Horror/Romances, which are oddly hard to come across. Sure, you have Legosi's Dracula, but he doesn't quite fit the bill I'm referring to. My favorites thus far have been Bram Stoker's Dracula, Interview with a Vampire, and the recent Dorian Grey starring Ben Barnes.

"Listen to them: the children of the night. What sweet music they make." - Dracula, Bram Stoker's

You cannot go wrong with Horror. Be it for laughs, or for a legitimately good movie.

As for the rest of the movies I enjoy, I love psychological horrors and thrillers. Mysteries are decent, if executed properly. I mostly enjoy, for sheer entertainment purposes, the movies which are incredibly pretty even if the story is lacking. I enjoyed Sucker Punch, Avatar, and many, many others.

"I was busy pushing bodies around as you well know and what would a note say, Dan? "Cat dead, details later"?" - Herbert West, Reanimator

The best movies for a group of friends, or for lounging at home to though? My guilty pleasures are the Independent Korean films. "I'm a Cyborg, but its ok," "Coochie coochie," and many others make this list. I'll even let the British ones slip in on occasion.

I admit here and now that Television and I have no formal relationship. What I do go out of my way to find online, however, is Sherlock. Sherlock is the cleanest smut out today, in my opinion, and I'm more than happy to admit it. When I was younger, however, I enjoyed Star Trek immensely (and still go back to watch it periodically), Babylon 5, Stargate SG-1, Sliders, and a plethora of other such science fictions.

“Oh! You meant “Spectacularly ignorant” in a nice way.”-Sherlock, Sherlock

A side note, however, is I am beginning to become enamored with Anime. Kara no Kyoukai, Seikon No Qeaser, UraBoku, Rin: Daughters of Mnemnosyne and Queen's Blade being among my favorites.

When it comes to music, its hard to go wrong. My absolute favorite genre is Orchestral rock including such bands as Within Temptation, Kamelot, the old Nightwish and various others. Next would come varying forms of techno including Daft Punk, DJ S3rl, Basshunter, Basshead and more. Korean Pop cannot be gone wrong with, be it the stellar BoA, the silly Psy or the so-serious-its-comical 2NE1, they are all amazing.

"Ich halte die Welt an
Die Zeit steht still
Du bist das einzige was ich will
Ich fьhl dein Haar, deine Hand, dein Gesicht
Es ist eine Seele die zu mir spricht." - Du Hast Den Schönsten Arsch Der Welt, Alex C.

Books? Now here's a topic I'm going to only touch lightly because there isn't enough time in the day for me to list everything. I learned how to read on Shakespear, Edgar Allen Poe, HP Lovecraft and White Wolf clan books. My favorite reads are usually in the young adult fiction section, including the Pendragon series, the Seeker series, The Invisible Road by Elizabeth Knox, His Dark Materials and many, many others.

In my more mature readings, I enjoy Susan Krinard's "To Tame a Wolf", going back to my love of Horror/Romance. My guilty pleasure is Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty trilogy.

I love comic books, as my childhood hero comes from one. I've been losing a lot of weight in hopes of going into the Cry For Dawn lookalike competition one day and doing her justice. My most recent find was Echo. As for the whole Marvel VS DC debate, my favorites include The Green Arrow, The Green Lantern, The Flash and Aquaman. Yes, Aquaman, so sue me.

Also, I am a girl who knows why Super Girl became Power Girl instead of Super Woman. Rawr! ^_~
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have a feeling I'm looking into this a little too deeply as every time I think of something I find three reasons why I could, in fact, survive without it or it's substitutes. Although... Now that it isn't 4 AM while I'm writing this, let's try again.

The Unknown - Because how can I exercise my mind and keep myself sane without the pursuit of knowledge?

Achievable Goals - I physically start to hurt if I don't have something to achieve. It could be something small, like to put a smile on someone's face, or something huge and ambitious, like to open a business in another company.

Understanding - I am still learning myself and who I am. I'm more than willing to talk about my past, and what I'm still struggling with if you ask, but the one thing I hate most is pity. If you ask, I need understanding and the willingness to either drop it or offer critical insight, but don't get your own emotions involved. I have enough trouble keeping my own straight.

Efficiency - I cannot stress enough how much I adore efficiency. It keeps the world turning! If we lost efficiency then we would dissolve into lazy anarchy; and no one wants a couch potato uprising. We'll never get the controller back!

Work - I don't need recognition, awards or pretty titles (although they are all welcome), what I need is something I, myself, can be proud of and feel accomplished in. I've been told my whole life I'm worthless, but my job, and those I choose to keep around me, make me feel like those years were worth staying silent through. My favorite feeling is doing something, and hearing later that it absolutely made someone's day, either because they were struggling with it and now its finished, or because it was something a little extra that makes it that much better. No one needs to know it was me, so long as I had the ability to do it.

Adventure - This goes hand in hand with the unknown, and leapfrogs into my being an adrenaline junkie. I need something new, something exciting, and to push the envelope. Just saying "Yeah, I did that, and?" is a major ego boost! Not to mention while I'm doing said adventuring the excitement is amazing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about anything and everything. My mind hops between topics like sea monkies in a microwave (Don't ask). It will start with the weather, and some how end up with me trying to figure out how to instal memory cards into myself to become a cyborg.

On another note, I spend a lot of time soul searching, and trying to figure out the strange world around me. Let's face it, its weird. Good! But weird.

How Omegle rules apply here, too.


I'm not horny. I'm not entertained by "ASL". I do not have Naked pictures to share. I am fond of both consonants and vowels, therefore will not be partaking in the war against either and more importantly I will NOT be your mommy.

That said, how is your night?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working; if not at a legitimate job then on a pet project, a volunteer project, or a commission.

If, by Friday, you're referring to those rare occasions where I run out of things to do, am not on a time clock, and the world has told me to take a day off (Blasphemer!) I am either sitting on one of my various gaming consoles, reading, cleaning house to cheesy horror movies, experimenting with cooking, or the fun combination of "All of the Above" which got me quite the reputation in my old WoW guild as the only person who could pull major DPS and make a three course meal at the same time.

When the itch starts again, however, I go exploring. There are days I just have to take off. I may meet new people. I may find hole in the wall cafes. Hell, maybe one day I'll tell people where that wormhole was, but no matter what, when I get these moods, no one finds me until I'm good and ready for them to. Hopefully, you can accept this.


Lately I've found some wonderful places where I have been practicing my soldering, learning to weld, making laser cut pictures or other such wonderful adventures. You're hard pressed not to catch me at one of the two labs in my spare time. I think I stopped going home to sleep for a while when I was working on my robot, Ynnips.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to give people the "ooh shiny!" Treatment, in which they are my focal point for a week or two, then I stable myself and slip into my normal attitude once more, and many find it off-putting.
You should message me if
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You'd like to, plain and simple. If I choose not to associate with you, I'll be the first to speak up. Please use real words, and punctuate enough to understand the breaks in topic.

WARNING: I will be an irksome, horrible little troll to those who do not follow standard communication etiquette. Use your words, your capitalization and above all else be coherent. I get too much joy out of being mean to people who do not follow this. Remember; if you forget to spell out your words, you're going to have a bad time.

I swear to you, for those of you I choose not to talk to, that I do not mean to come across as cold. You're on here for a reason and I don't want to waste your time. If I tell you I'm indifferent or not interested, I'm not being picky or mean or whatnot, I just don't want you pursuing something which will not fulfill your needs. Everyone deserves to find love. "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return."