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  • Ages 28–38
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My details

Last online
Jun 27
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, professionally, I'm an architect and love what I do. When not designing buildings, I tend to enjoy more relaxed, low-key activities that lean more towards dorky than cool. I'm not super athletic, but do enjoy long walks, the occasional hike, and--once in a blue moon--to ski. I'm not a huge sports fan, but love going to baseball and hockey games. I also love going to plays and musicals, and have been known to spend hours wandering art museums and galleries. I prefer scotch and whiskey to beer, but usually drink wine. I hate being late, so tend to be crazy early to everything. Yet, other people being late never bothers me. I'm pretty good at going with the flow and am comfortable doing just about anything as long as it's in good company--and I'm not jumping from an airplane. I'm a sucker for a good road trip and really dislike flying. My favorite part of the week is a lazy Sunday morning followed by a delicious brunch. I'm not exactly shy, but can be quiet--though I prefer the word reserved. Which isn't to say that, when the mood strikes, I can't be talkative or silly. I love being silly. My friends and family mean the world to me and there isn't much I wouldn't do for them at the drop of a hat.

But none of that's really who I am.

I've been told I'm genuine and generous. I consider myself pretty patient and caring. It's virtually impossible for me to get angry, though certain things irritate the bejeezus out of me.

I guess, all told, I'm just a run-of-the-mill guy who's looking for someone to share the mundane, everyday moments in life along with the spectacular ones.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Designing buildings, mostly. People watching. Enjoying long walks in and out of town. Trying to live a little healthier...

Enjoying it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Architecture? I'd hope so anyway... Not a great answer.

I'd like to say art, or even writing, but in all honesty I'm probably not. I guess it comes down to who you're comparing me to...

I'm extremely patient and a decent teacher/mentor.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really have no idea, and--obviously--never really asked. Possibly that I'm quiet or reserved. Possibly that I have an expressive face... that likes an audience.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm not that great at favorites... Mostly because they change with my mood. That said, I'll give it my best shot.

I tend to read noir-ish crime, spy, thriller (preferably all rolled into one) novels: think Robert Ludlum, Frederick Forsyth, or even Alan Furst. I also enjoy sci-fi and fantasy fiction, typically of the darker, grittier, dare I say noir-ish, variety. And, yes, I've read the Song of Fire and Ice... The first three books anyway... And the Wheel of Time... The first seven or eight books anyway... Love lighter reads like the Dresden Files and the Laindry Files (huh...) and most history books as well.

I've been on a non-fiction bent lately... Reading mostly historical biographies and the like...

This is an easy one. With the exception of gore and horror flicks, I love all movies. Describing the range of movies that I enjoy is down right silly because of it, but I'll throw a couple out there just to give you an idea. A handful of my favorite movies of all time--for varying reasons: Bladerunner, Total Recall, Sabrina, Roman Holiday, Singing in the Rain, Spaceballs, A Fish Called Wanda, Hot Fuzz, Super Troopers, Better Off Dead, Leon, City of Lost Children, Shawshank Redemption, Princess Bride, The Usual Suspects, My Fair Lady.

So, I don't really watch TV, but I do have a handful of shows I enjoy watching. Or, at least that's what my Netflix 'recently watched' page tells me. A random selection, in no particular order: Psych, Archer, House of Cards, Burn Notice... Most anything BBC...

Long story short, anything rock or folk from the 60's to present. Add a lot of soundtracks--which is what I typically listen to while working, some good techno and electronica usually finds its way into my play lists, and--yes--even some classical. Basically, I'm all over the place.

Yes please!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
* I'm skipping the obvious necessities (sleep, water, food, love, etc.)

1) Family and friends (yes, that's one "thing")
2) Something to read when I'm enjoying peace and quiet
3) Movies (any and all)
4) Restful rainy days
5) Some kind of creative outlet (pen and paper would do)
6) Sadly, my smartphone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately, what I need to do to get though the next day at the office.

What I'd like to be thinking about? The book I last read, how beautiful the changing leaves are in the fall breeze, What to cook up for breakfast.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My answer to this is no different from anyone else...

If it's a good week, I'm having dinner--or just hanging out--with friends. Usually nothing supper fancy or extravagant. But I've been known to just hang out at home with a book or movie.