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35 F Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 34–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Seeking a sexy, genuine, sporty and spontaneous man to make memories with. Be playful and engaged in banter. Evoke a smile when least expected. Love companionship and adventures with the right person; perhaps it's you? Let's not have awkward moments, hooking up isn't my thing. Note: I will not respond to someone without pictures of your face without shades.. I almost guarantee you wouldn't be as inclined to reach out either.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Loving those I choose to share it with.
Working in healthcare.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Incorporating avocado into nearly everything I cook.
Fixing things.
My friends like my creativity with interior design.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Fast paced walking.


Getting away with saying what everyone everyone else is thinking. I tend to make those around me comfy.

I sneeze.....a lot.

My Papa Bear may have told me a time seventeen that I'm full of piss & vinegar (in an endearing sense). ,)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Current books: 100 years of Solitude, Brain on Fire, Food First and starting Spark.

I LOVE Movies: London River and most films with Sotigui Kouyaté, Treeless Mountain, Oranges & Sunshine, Moonrise Kingdom, Shawshank Redemption, Bridges of Madison County, Separation, Ghost Busters, ET, Dances with Wolves, The Big Lebowski, American History X, Trishna, Amore, Bella, Parent Trap, The Little Things, The Intouchables, Robert Crumb, The Other Brother, Grey Gardens, Lore, The Butler (cried the entire movie), Sarah's Key and so forth.

Music: Jonathan Wilson, Gerald Johnson, Bob Dylan, Mad Child, Deer Tick, Bach, March Fourth, Greenskeepers, Biggie, Mad Child, Ed Sharpe, Rolling Stones, The National, Ramsey Lewis, Avett Brothers, Adele, Alicia Keys, Van Morrison, Sade, Amor Fati, Alpha Blondy, Otis Redding, Bonnie Raitt, Pretty Lights, Kate Gaffney.

Restaurants: Boat Street Cafe, Cafe Besalu, Westward, Lark, Ocho, Serious Pie (clam pizza), The Palace Kitchen, Salame, Noble Fir, Kisaku, Rain, Serefina, Zig Zag, Wild Ginger, Paseo, Kings (I love Skee Ball), Walrus & Carpenter, Staple & Fancy, La Carta De Oaxaca, Tanaksan, Ridgeback (best breakfasts), Local 360, Ravish, or in your kitchen!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Health
Rivers/waves hitting the shore
Holding hands / forehead kisses
+1 (Loving and Being Loved)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Why humans haven't left the soul patch in the 90's..

Falling into the grips of crossfit. I know, I know.. ,)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Local music, indulging in a nice bottle of wine, checking out a new restaurant or perhaps packing to head out of town for the weekend.

Or-listening to tunes, laundry, cleaning (cathartic) and recharging for the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like my wine with ice.

Being read to is sweet and sexy.

I absolutely HATE peanut butter. The smell, having to wash the knife twice because of its grip, the way peoples fingertips get imprinted on the bread, how it squeezes out from the sides with the jelly, the smell and lastly, seeing residual peanut butter in the jelly jar.. Ewww

I have my very own internal firework show from time-to-time.
You should message me if
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You respect and value that I'm not comfortable having active profiles should our relationship become physical. While you may not be interested in dating another, the message sent contradicts such in my world.

I have faults, I too have been hurt. While this has brought beauty, it has also introduced struggles. My heart is tender, yet as strong as a lioness. I am like Creme Brûlée. You've got to break through the delicious hard crispy top shell to get to the creamy, buttery & completely exquisite center. (This doesn't mean I lack trust and am icy like my wine fella's).

You are capable of living a balanced life, genuine, have a little edge, thoughtful, hilarious, loyal, aware, appreciates the little things, active, engaged and has a laid back personality (but can talk shit) who likes Sassy and Sweet. Being comfortable with affection is important to me. I find myself smiling when (he) reaches back for my hand or pulls me in for a kiss. I am looking to meet someone who is open to a long-term relationship.

Side note: I am not interested in open relationships, being the in-between girl from your "break", poly, and people who are cheating on their significant other. Lastly, lying about your age isn't attractive.

"The biggest coward is a man who
awakens a woman's love with no intention of loving her."

~ Bob Marley