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ManComesAround

31 / M / straight / Single

Richmond, Virginia

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Sign_Language (Poorly)

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I am no, ifs, and or buts.

My Self-Summary

I just moved from DC to Richmond and started a new job that, for a change, doesn't involve feeding from the corporate teat. I lawyer. I try and help people. Failing that, I try at least to entertain myself.

When I'm not doing that, I play music, perhaps at a bar near you, I write, take pictures, or go outside with my dog.

I grew up out west, and that's how I identify. I find your southern customs strange, your popped collars inexplicable. Though through my new job I now find myself saying sir and ma'am with alarming regularity. If I ever find myself looking longingly through a storefront window at madras shorts or a seer sucker suit, however, please bring me a stool and some rope. Immediately.

What I’m doing with my life

Sticking it to the man.

Trying to become a better person, neighbor, writer, musician, and even lawyer.

I’m really good at

Making people laugh when they're drinking a beverage.

The first things people usually notice about me

If I knew that, I would be a lot smarter than I am. But I am not a lot smarter than I am.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(a) Five: All the Pretty Horses, Lucky Jim, High Fidelity, The Shipping News, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy. Honorable Mention: Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NYMH.

(b) Five: Harold and Maude, Naked, Airplane, Apocalypse Now, Say Anything.

(c) The National, The Afghan Whigs, The Twilight Singers, Otis Redding, Solomon Burke, Tyrone Davis, Bob Dylan, Bruce Springsteen, Death Cab For Cutie, The Postal Service, The Red House Painters, Low, Ryan Adams, Morphine, Radiohead, Nirvana, Minor Threat, Paul Kelly, Richard Shindell, Pinback.

(d) Thai, Indian, Middle-Eastern, brunch, baked goods. Choosing between Massaman, Panang, Red, and Green is like choosing which of your children you love the most.

(e) (television) The Wire, Deadwood, Arrested Development, both The Offices, Flight of the Conchords.

The six things I could never do without

Dog, guitar, curry, whiskey, and... you know what, I can live with four things.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My new job, my friends in other cities.

On a typical Friday night I am

Well since I moved it involves bourbon and Netflix. YEEEAAAAOOOWWWW!!!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Deny everything.

You should message me if

Smart, funny, nice people make you want to take your clothes off.