Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm looking for you ... and you only. If ... you are inspired and
inspiring; vivacious and witty, with a great open hearted laugh.
Happiness, positivity, playfulness .. they all swim around you ...
you can't help it. Sharks don't swim around you though -- at least
let's hope not, because you're not chum.
I'm forever hot on the trail of my next adventure; whether
frolicking on the beaches of Aruba, or the next zip code, seeking
adventure in our own backyard. Or hey, how about a cocktail on my
patio as I grill, spending time to uncover who you really are. If
you love trying food in all it's forms let's entice our culinary
senses, and pair up with a Zin so fat it tastes like food, and some
I embrace my masculinity, and adore your femininity. Yes. I plan
dates ... Just know that generally if you've garnered a spot on my
radar, you won't hear "I dunno, so what do you wanna do?"
Ideally you're not too emotionally attached to a social experiment
gone awry that has left many men confused and aimless, and women
disappointed, frustrated, and wondering how the hell we got here.
You may long for a man who is respectful, a classical gentleman,
yet incredibly playful and incorrigible and knows how to balance
the two. Either that or you think this is the biggest steaming pile
of tripe on the net. Haha. In which case, I wish you GodSpeed oh
soldier of Cupid.
Also, I dance salsa regularly and am also taking lessons. So if you
love to dance, or would like to learn the latin dances (salsa,
bachata, merengue, cha cha) then we absolutely will have more fun
than is legal ;-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reinvention, experimentation, adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Penetrating eye contact, whipping up something delectable to eat,
engaging conversation, finding serenity in the woods, witty banter,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Don't really worry about doing the cooking around here unless you
have some mad skills. Yes, you can help, and yes, I would love to
cook with you as well, and yes, you can even take over and I will
always learn from you if you posses such mad skills, or frankly
just show up with a new tidbit; just realize that this could be
both a rather competitive endeavor in the kitchen, and one of the
most incredibly playful moments we might share early on in an
encounter. (smile) Are you game? ( I hate cleaning
up btw, so any help is of course immensely appreciated!).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Adventure, my children, a spectacular woman, culinary pleasures,
friends and family, laughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my kids or out with friends, or I could be dancing ... like
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One time, in band camp ............................
You should message me if
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If you had any of the following reactions:
► OMG ManVibe yes, you are hot, here's my number
► ManVibe, yes you're hot, and I'm pretty sure we'll hit it off so
let's chat. Do you think we could meet this week or next?
► ManVibe yes, you're hot, and you're obviously totally cool, so
different from every other guy on OKC, and I totally want to get
together I'm just crazy busy. Can we chat later this week?
► ManVibe, yes you're hot, and I totally would take you up on that
grilling and wine thing. Anyway, I just met this guy on PoF, and
we've been dating, and well...you know what that site is like, and
he seems kinda lame so I'll probably be hitting you up soon
► ManVibe, yes you're hot, but frankly, I'm not at all digging your
verbose language style, nor amused by your cumbersome attempts at
coy and sarcastic humor, and besides, I've missed my meds for two
days straight now and I'm late for one of my group therapy sessions
..... P.S. I've opened up a new profile under the screen name
CrayCray - I think you'll like it and it represents the new me!
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