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49 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 7:32pm
White, Other
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Originally from California. So, I am a slow poke compared to the adrenalin fueled caffeinated New Yorkers. It is a good thing I think.

In my youth, I explored the visual arts as a printmaker, oil painter and photographer. Traveled to many countries in Asia and Latin America with my camera and published articles on cultural adventures.

Professionally, I find tremendous meaning and satisfaction in therapeutic work with clients who explore aspects of themselves to heal wounds which stand in the way of them experiencing a fuller life.

Interested in solutions to humanity and earth's problems.

Curious about how can we change how and what we do, think and feel ?

Very curious about spiritual, moral and philosophical perspectives and wisdom.
What I’m doing with my life
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Earlier this year my partners and I presented workshops about authentic connection, vulnerability and intimate expression in a playful and warm arena. What wonderment and joyous exuberance the participants express afterwards. Seems there is a longing for meaningful connection in our city. Such a satisfying joy.

Have been involved with The Core Energetics Institute for over 15 years.

Consistently developing skills in private practice with clients in one to one sessions.

Want to create more positive change internally and externally.

Pursuing another degree in Psychology.

Endeavoring to experience artistic culture via film, photography, live music, performance, painting, sculpture.

Spending time with friends. Enjoying parties, jaunts to the beach and occasional road trips.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Giving. A willingness to help. Being creative. Challenging my stuck places. Working hard and being committed. Honestly looking and taking responsibility for my darkness. Learning to give more.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A warmth and I ask questions.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Been into theoretical psychoanalytical textbooks for a good long while. My current fav is "Character Styles" by Stehen M. Johnson. God he is brilliant !

Dying to get my hands on "Fury on Earth" apparently the seminal biography on Wilhelm Reich.

Enjoy reading Common Dreams progressive news.

For film, I love Everything from quality mainstream to the unknown independent foreign and oddly artistic and far out. Dug Gaspar Noe's "Enter the Void". Just saw "The Master" by Andersen, whew, odd, dark, subtle and powerful.

With food, I love pretty much everything savory, sour, spicey from Spirulina Quinoa at Jivakmukti Cafe to blue cheese, bacon, carmelized onions, medium rare hamburgers. Just made a spectacular Japanese Udon soup. Wow.

Music; I love the gamut. Indie-Alternative rock such as David Gray, Bon Iver, Ray LaMontagne, Grizzly Bear, Iron & Wine. Dig jazz, folk-rock, classical, salsa, flamenco, also will tap my foot to the pop at the local deli. It all has something to offer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Authentic connection, Love, Giving, Personal Growth, Risk, Pleasure.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What and why we humans do what we do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends, at a party, dancing, or quiet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Often, I am tough on myself, demanding so much more of myself than I give credit to.
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You are authentic, whip smart, open-minded, warm, giving, tender and considerate, culture lover, playful, humble, kind, progressive, compassionate and tall.

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