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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

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6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Sales / Marketing
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Everyday is a day filled with opportunity to change and grow. I am a work in progress and I live to be greater than I was the day before.

If I could explain the woman I am looking for she'd be my best friend, confidant, and my lover. A lady who will not bite my head off for the slightest mishap and will be kind to those around her. She would encourage me in my life and I would do the same for her. I want to share something special with someone that appreciates me for the person I am...I am a bit of a dreamer
I am looking forward to the future and all of its trials and tribulations...if I meet someone to share that journey I would be thrilled. :)

I identify as a Pagan/Heathen/Witch (whatever label that applies) I enjoy and mingle with all cunning folk, however not so much that it dominates every aspect of my life or socializing.

I am generally a gentleman however I have a healthy libido and I enjoy a partner that does as well. I find it very difficult to date a "prude"...although I tend to not be very affectionate in public. I enjoy kink and passionate vanilla depending on the level of passion. Please keep this in mind if we communicate. (kink is a nice way to put things, if you are on Fetlife I am as well) I am sex positive and hope to talk with people that are as well. It should be part of adult communication and not considered taboo and crass. Please don't shame me for being open.

Also I am a fan of public transit and do not license, no car, no driving. Walking, trains, cabs, planes, buses, I get where I need to be. :)

If we start communicating and you happen to have children...Please do not send me pictures of your kids. I am not interested in your kids if we aren't a committed couple yet and honestly why? Why?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I live...I do things that are necessary. I enjoy life to the best of my means. I am exciting some days and mediocre others. Life isn't always an amusement ride, but I love the moments when it is.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh...but not in a "on stage" way. Versatility...I adapt to things pretty well socially as well as in the workplace.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My appearance...I have been told I can be "intimidating" however I am a big guy who is quiet at first. I am actually a very kind and loving individual when given the opportunity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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As of late I am a bit into A Game of Thrones on TV as well as the series of books. I enjoy Neil Gaiman comics and novels too.
I enjoy reading and avidly do so...generally fiction, however I also read books identifying with the pagan world. I am deep into a book by Robin Artisson called "Letters from the Devil's Forest" and I love it.

I have been identified as a "cool" geek by some...then again that sounds egotistical. Honestly I like comics and will occasionally read one or two. I have "role-played" in both the table top and kinky way. I know that "Magic: The Gathering" is a card game and I prefer Cards Against Humanity more. I suppose what identifies me mostly in the "geek" way is I have many friends that are geeks and I enjoy their company.

I love movies...comedy, action, drama, and of course I enjoy some Horror films, but not Gore films. I love Pixar animation too which is one of those quirky things about me...ah guilty pleasures. My favorite new movie is Guardians of the was a great mix of comedy and Sci-Fi. If you have not seen it and would like to you should hit me up ;)

I try to eat healthy foods but mess up and eat 5 Guys or something similar occasionally. Unfortunately I have sugar issues and need to make better decisions instead of guzzling soda and eating sweets. It's an evil that I would be better off without. However...I don't want someone to be my food sitter and please don't think I am going to judge you for your food habits.

I enjoy occasional bouts of TV like Supernatural, Dexter, True Blood, BSG, Boardwalk Empire, Game of Thrones and Vikings. I generally watch these on closed captioning while lifting my dumbbells so I don't feel like I am just sitting around doing nothing. I also enjoy listening to a few podcasts...Dan Savage is probably one of my favorites. Being sex positive and promoting communication to couples is kind of awesome, so he kinda rules. :)

Music...I love music. I am currently addicted to the band Eluveitie, they are amazing live and on their albums...I listen to a mixture of Hip hop, Metal, Synthpop, Industrial, Psychobilly...I could just name every genre here but hopefully you get it. I enjoy a variety of everything. I am very picky about the concerts I attend and will go a few times a year depending on the artist and the location.

I also love Buddy Wakefield and quite a few other spoken word artists.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Self respect
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Exercise...Women...finances...kink...Books...movies... why people get along or why they do not...what motivates people...why most people treat sex (anything or everything to do with sex) like it is dirty and or offensive...the great thing about thinking is that I do it quite a bit and I think about so many things that a small list would never encompass the hurricanes of thought going on constantly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends, playing Cards Against Humanity, catching a movie, or sometimes staying home and reading...yet I generally try to force myself into a social situation or I'd never meet anyone and be forced to just sleeping and living a mundane existence without pleasure or vibrancy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! as tough as I may seem or appear, I get sad seeing ASPCA commercials while Sarah McLachlan is singing. In fact...I love Sarah McLachlan and get made fun of quite often for it. Meh.
You should message me if
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I am a motivated and driven individual and hope to find someone who respects that.
Then again if I find someone that I enjoy, sharing my free time is very easily done :) Please leave me be if you have a list of perfection for a partner...lists are for goals or groceries not human relationships