Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Everyday is a day filled with opportunity to change and grow. I am
a work in progress and I live to be greater than I was the day
If I could explain the woman I am looking for she'd be my best
friend, confidant, and my lover. She would encourage me and I would
do the same for her. I want to have something so special I would
never look elsewhere...I know that seems a bit fantasy like...I am
a bit of a dreamer
I am looking forward to the future and all of its trials and
tribulations...if I meet someone to share that journey I would be
I identify as a Pagan/Heathen/Witch (whatever label that applies) I
enjoy and mingle with all cunning folk, however not so much that it
dominates every aspect of my life or socializing.
I have a great libido and I enjoy a partner that does as well. I
find it very difficult to date a "prude"...although I am not very
affectionate in public. I enjoy kink and passionate vanilla
depending on the level of passion. Please keep this in mind if we
communicate. (kink is a nice way to put things, if you are on
Fetlife I am as well) I am sex positive and hope to talk with
people that are as well. It should be part of adult communication
between two consenting adults expressing romantic interest. Please
don't shame me for being open.
Also I am a fan of public transit and do not drive...no license, no
car, no driving. Walking, trains, cabs, planes, buses, I get where
I need to be. :)
If we start communicating and you happen to have children...Please
do not send me pictures of your kids. I am not interested in your
kids if we aren't a committed couple yet and honestly why? Why?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am currently unemployed after being laid off of my job of 10
years and I am working on a business plan to start my own retail
store...it is what I want more than anything. In the mean time I am
looking for work (Rome wasn't built in a day) and enjoying being
alive. (Btw unemployed doesn't equate to loser. Being laid off
wasn't exactly my choice) I am actually and actively seeking
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh...but not in a "on stage" way. Versatility...I
adapt to things pretty well socially as well as in the workplace.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My appearance...I have been told I can be "intimidating" however I
am a big guy who is quiet at first. I am actually a very kind and
loving individual when given the opportunity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
As of late I am a bit into A Game of Thrones on TV as well as the
series of books. I enjoy Neil Gaiman comics and novels too.
I enjoy reading and avidly do so...generally fiction, however I
also read books identifying with the pagan world. I am deep into a
book by Robin Artisson called "Letters from the Devil's Forest" and
I love it.
I have been identified as a "cool" geek by some...then again that
sounds egotistical. Honestly I like comics and will occasionally
read one or two. I have "role-played" in both the table top and
kinky way. I know that "Magic: The Gathering" is a card game and I
prefer Cards Against Humanity more. I suppose what identifies me
mostly in the "geek" way is I have many friends that are geeks and
I enjoy their company.
I love movies...comedy, action, drama, and of course I enjoy some
Horror films, but not Gore films. I love Pixar animation too which
is one of those quirky things about me...ah guilty pleasures. My
favorite new movie is Guardians of the Galaxy...it was a great mix
of comedy and Sci-Fi. If you have not seen it and would like to you
should hit me up ;)
I try to eat healthy foods but mess up and eat 5 Guys or something
similar occasionally. Unfortunately I have sugar issues and need to
make better decisions instead of guzzling soda and eating sweets.
It's an evil that I would be better off without. However...I don't
want someone to be my food sitter and please don't think I am going
to judge you for your food habits.
I enjoy occasional bouts of TV like Supernatural, Dexter, True
Blood, BSG, Boardwalk Empire, Game of Thrones and Vikings. I
generally watch these on closed captioning while riding a
resistance bike or lifting my dumbbells so I don't feel like I am
just sitting around doing nothing. I also enjoy listening to a few
podcasts...Dan Savage is probably one of my favorites. Being sex
positive and promoting communication to couples is kind of awesome,
so he kinda rules. :)
Music...I love music. I am currently addicted to the band
Eluveitie, they are amazing live and on their albums...I listen to
a mixture of Hip hop, Metal, Synthpop, Industrial, Psychobilly...I
could just name every genre here but hopefully you get it. I enjoy
a variety of everything. I am very picky about the concerts I
attend and will go a few times a year depending on the artist and
I also love Buddy Wakefield and quite a few other spoken word
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Employment and seeking
why people get along or why they do not...what motivates
people...why most people treat sex (anything or everything to do
with sex) like it is dirty and or offensive...the great thing about
thinking is that I do it quite a bit and I think about so many
things that a small list would never encompass the hurricanes of
thought going on constantly.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends, playing Cards Against Humanity, catching a
movie, or sometimes staying home and reading...yet I generally try
to force myself into a social situation or I'd never meet anyone
and be forced to just sleeping and living a mundane existence
without pleasure or vibrancy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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...is as tough as I may seem or appear, I get sad seeing ASPCA
commercials while Sarah McLachlan is singing. In fact...I love
Sarah McLachlan and get made fun of quite often for it. Meh.
You should message me if
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I am a motivated and driven individual and hope to find someone who
Then again if I find someone that I enjoy, sharing my free time is
very easily done :) Please leave me be if you have a list of
perfection for a partner...lists are for goals or groceries not
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