Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello stranger (or friend of mine who is now viewing my profile and
will bring it up casually next time we hang out)!
I'm Margot. The stardust part is cause I really like Bowie. Him in
Labyrinth is still one of my favorite things on the planet.
Things I also like: Eddie Izzard, Harry Potter, The Beatles...hang
on a tick, do I like things from England? Yes. Yes I do.
I am rewriting my profile so I'll try to be concise and accurate. I
like routine. I LOVE dannon coffee yogurt. I enjoy a good costume
party, but don't generally wear makeup. I've been sky diving and
bungee jumping twice, but am still quite scared of roller coasters.
And scuba diving.
I can say elephant in a bunch of languages, I collect coins and
fortune cookie fortunes, I'm terrible at decorating, I'm a
feminist, and I love a good deli (must have Dr. Brown's Black
Cherry and a huge pastrami on rye). I'm not overly emotional and
don't really go for romance, but I've cried three times watching
scrubs. I did krav maga for three years and am now trying hip hop.
Not related activities at all, I know.
I'm an ESTJ and this matters. Why? Because according to my mbti, my
personality matches that of McGonagall and Darth Vader. So
That wasn't concise at all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for as an outreach worker for a community clinic here in SD.
I am very passionate about public health and am sort of a public
health nerd. Especially, sexual health promotion. Also
vaccinations. Also prisoners rights and reentry issues. Also also
education. It basically all comes down to health.
I sometimes make elaborate snapchat art. No joke. Art.
I would label myself as queer. If you have questions about what
that means, totally fine. But if you had an immediate negative
reaction, please don't message me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Flossing. Oral hygiene is a must.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I don't suffer fools and I am very upfront.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Happy Potter (books)
Movies: City of God, Labyrinth, Anchorman, really though, there are
too many movies. I adore movies. oh *** Wes Anderson Movies for
sure! Oh yeah, Hot Rod. Cool Beans. Get on my level with this,
please. Also, Away We Go
Shows: 30 Rock, Community, Parks and Rec, Modern Family, So You
Think You Can Dance (I'm embarrassed about this one), Orange is the
New Black, Empire
Music: Beatles, Bowie, and then way too much more to list
Food: Sushi every day and night (not not really cause ain't no one
got time for that). I really will eat anything. I'm not picky at
all. But I don't love oysters and clams.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
food, sleep, sex, beach, friends, and cliches
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the life, the universe and everything...42
Also: what happens when Pinocchio says, "my nose will grow now"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate feet. Never touch my feet, don't make me touch your feet,
and everything will be copacetic
Also, I greatly prefer to pee with the door to the bathroom open.
It's way better that way!
How to put this? I like routine and structure. I can totally be
spontaneous, but with some warning, ya know? I could consider this
private because for so long, I tried to just be cool with things
and then one day, I was like, eff that. I'm gonna do me and you do
you. If something doesn't sound fun (impromptu trip to Vegas!), I'm
just gonna not.
I'm an old soul. I go to bed early most of the time...I am a
morning person (DUN DUN DUN!!!!). Gasp! I know. So rare. Please
don't make fun of me for being sleepy at night.
Oh yeah. And if you send me a stupid message (sexist, terrible,
overall funny in a bad way), I might just screen cap it and post it
on my facebook. Don't worry, I block out your name.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1. I hardly drink. It is unwise to ask me to drinks (but I totally
still have tons fun! All I'm saying is to be a bit more creative
with the ask if you choose to ask)
2. Please don't be as boring as white bread. I know that is pretty
meaningless, but I don't know -- just don't.
3. I'm very driven by my social passions (read: I'm glad if you're
pro-choice, but it would be great if that was an issue of
importance to you as well. To be clear, I am fiercely
4. I'm very idealistic and I try to maintain some positivity.
Please don't try to crush that. I get it, the world sucks. I get
it, my work makes very little actual impact. Don't tell me those
things because I will disagree.
5. I don't like guns. Don't tell me they are the great equalizer. I
don't want to go learn to shoot a gun with you. I don't care how
sexy they make a woman look. No guns.
6. If you like rape jokes, we won't get along.
7. I'm a very sexual person and I'm open about my sexuality. Sex is
something I'm interested in from a very academic perspective. Be
respectful and mature, please.
8. If you say things like, "I'm pretty easy going" or "I'm pretty
laid back," then you confuse me. What does that even mean!? not
everyone can be easy going. (Same goes for, "I'm chill"). Like, I'd
like to see what happens when you lose your phone. Still laid
9. If you spell girl with a "u" or write in text speak when sending
a message, I likely won't respond.
10. If you are MRA (men's rights activist) in any way, you best
11. All due respect, please, no military
12. If you call yourself pro-choice, but then you say things like,
but I don't think women should use abortion as contraception,
you're not pro-choice (read: pro-choice means that you think it
should ALWAYS be a woman's choice, no matter how morally wrong YOU
think it is)
13. If you copy and paste your messages...just don't. It's always
14. Be on time. If you're always late to stuff, it means you don't
respect my time or me. If you give me a time, I'll be there. If
you're chronically late, please don't bother. It would actually
really bug me.
15. If this list sounded like a diatribe, we won't get along. It's
really not. Just found that I've whittled down my deal breakers
over time and these are they.
For the interested parties that are Poly:
1. I'm looking for a primary, but also love meeting couples and
other poly people that are just into dating.
2. If you are in a couple and the woman/female is NOT explicitly
bisexual or queer, do not contact me. It is borderline homophobic
to ask your female partner to have sex with women because you're
into it and you're poly. Female sexuality is no more fluid or
flexible than that of a male. Just be mature and date people
separately. (this is a good example of a diatribe)
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