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25 San Diego, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:13pm
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello stranger (or friend of mine who is now viewing my profile and will bring it up casually next time we hang out)!

I'm Margot. The stardust part is cause I really like Bowie. Him in Labyrinth is still one of my favorite things on the planet.

Things I also like: Eddie Izzard, Harry Potter, The Beatles...hang on a tick, do I like things from England? Yes. Yes I do.

I am rewriting my profile so I'll try to be concise and accurate. I like routine. I LOVE dannon coffee yogurt. I enjoy a good costume party, but don't generally wear makeup. I've been sky diving and bungee jumping twice, but am still quite scared of roller coasters. And scuba diving.

I can say elephant in a bunch of languages, I collect coins and fortune cookie fortunes, I'm terrible at decorating, I'm a feminist, and I love a good deli (must have Dr. Brown's Black Cherry and a huge pastrami on rye). I'm not overly emotional and don't really go for romance, but I've cried three times watching scrubs. I did krav maga for three years and am now trying hip hop. Not related activities at all, I know.

I'm an ESTJ and this matters. Why? Because according to my mbti, my personality matches that of McGonagall and Darth Vader. So cool.

That wasn't concise at all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for as an outreach worker for a community clinic here in SD. I am very passionate about public health and am sort of a public health nerd. Especially, sexual health promotion. Also vaccinations. Also prisoners rights and reentry issues. Also also education. It basically all comes down to health.

I sometimes make elaborate snapchat art. No joke. Art.

I would label myself as queer. If you have questions about what that means, totally fine. But if you had an immediate negative reaction, please don't message me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Flossing. Oral hygiene is a must.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I don't suffer fools and I am very upfront.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Happy Potter (books)
Movies: City of God, Labyrinth, Anchorman, really though, there are too many movies. I adore movies. oh *** Wes Anderson Movies for sure! Oh yeah, Hot Rod. Cool Beans. Get on my level with this, please. Also, Away We Go
Shows: 30 Rock, Community, Parks and Rec, Modern Family, So You Think You Can Dance (I'm embarrassed about this one), Orange is the New Black, Empire
Music: Beatles, Bowie, and then way too much more to list
Food: Sushi every day and night (not not really cause ain't no one got time for that). I really will eat anything. I'm not picky at all. But I don't love oysters and clams.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
food, sleep, sex, beach, friends, and cliches
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the life, the universe and everything...42

Also: what happens when Pinocchio says, "my nose will grow now"
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate feet. Never touch my feet, don't make me touch your feet, and everything will be copacetic

Also, I greatly prefer to pee with the door to the bathroom open. It's way better that way!

How to put this? I like routine and structure. I can totally be spontaneous, but with some warning, ya know? I could consider this private because for so long, I tried to just be cool with things and then one day, I was like, eff that. I'm gonna do me and you do you. If something doesn't sound fun (impromptu trip to Vegas!), I'm just gonna not.

I'm an old soul. I go to bed early most of the time...I am a morning person (DUN DUN DUN!!!!). Gasp! I know. So rare. Please don't make fun of me for being sleepy at night.

Oh yeah. And if you send me a stupid message (sexist, terrible, overall funny in a bad way), I might just screen cap it and post it on my facebook. Don't worry, I block out your name.
You should message me if
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1. I hardly drink. It is unwise to ask me to drinks (but I totally still have tons fun! All I'm saying is to be a bit more creative with the ask if you choose to ask)
2. Please don't be as boring as white bread. I know that is pretty meaningless, but I don't know -- just don't.
3. I'm very driven by my social passions (read: I'm glad if you're pro-choice, but it would be great if that was an issue of importance to you as well. To be clear, I am fiercely pro-choice)
4. I'm very idealistic and I try to maintain some positivity. Please don't try to crush that. I get it, the world sucks. I get it, my work makes very little actual impact. Don't tell me those things because I will disagree.
5. I don't like guns. Don't tell me they are the great equalizer. I don't want to go learn to shoot a gun with you. I don't care how sexy they make a woman look. No guns.
6. If you like rape jokes, we won't get along.
7. I'm a very sexual person and I'm open about my sexuality. Sex is something I'm interested in from a very academic perspective. Be respectful and mature, please.
8. If you say things like, "I'm pretty easy going" or "I'm pretty laid back," then you confuse me. What does that even mean!? not everyone can be easy going. (Same goes for, "I'm chill"). Like, I'd like to see what happens when you lose your phone. Still laid back?
9. If you spell girl with a "u" or write in text speak when sending a message, I likely won't respond.
10. If you are MRA (men's rights activist) in any way, you best search elsewhere.
11. All due respect, please, no military
12. If you call yourself pro-choice, but then you say things like, but I don't think women should use abortion as contraception, you're not pro-choice (read: pro-choice means that you think it should ALWAYS be a woman's choice, no matter how morally wrong YOU think it is)
13. If you copy and paste your messages...just don't. It's always really obvious.
14. Be on time. If you're always late to stuff, it means you don't respect my time or me. If you give me a time, I'll be there. If you're chronically late, please don't bother. It would actually really bug me.
15. If this list sounded like a diatribe, we won't get along. It's really not. Just found that I've whittled down my deal breakers over time and these are they.

For the interested parties that are Poly:
1. I'm looking for a primary, but also love meeting couples and other poly people that are just into dating.
2. If you are in a couple and the woman/female is NOT explicitly bisexual or queer, do not contact me. It is borderline homophobic to ask your female partner to have sex with women because you're into it and you're poly. Female sexuality is no more fluid or flexible than that of a male. Just be mature and date people separately. (this is a good example of a diatribe)