If you live on or near the Peninsula; and you love and enjoy kids and possibly have 1-2 of your own; and you are brutally honest and trustworthy; and financially secure and happy in your work; and you are serious about dating a confident; and you want someone to laugh, dance, travel, cook, work out with, try new things and laugh considerably more and then again some more; then I just might be your match.
For me, I prefer to meet in person sooner rather than later as unrealistic expectations/images form with long, drawn out email or voice exchanges. Prefer coffee or a glass of red to keep things simple on date 1.
Ultimately, I am searching for that one person who's out there and who knows I'm here...to magically connect and see where things go. It takes time to find the right person (I refuse to "settle") and we often don't get it right until much later in the dating spree. But for now, I'm quite content with meeting fun guys for companionship and to crack each other up.