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  • Ages 27-40
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Last online
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5' 11" (1.80m)
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Post grad
English, Swahili
My self-summary
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I was born in the South, but five states later, I have no discernable accent. I was a happy kid with two older brothers and the indisputable favorite – though my mom will deny it publicly. I was analytically creative so I defaulted to the more practical path of engineering where I enjoyed circling answers that tumbled out of long messy equations.

After college, I did what any self-respecting money hungry undergrad does when he has no clue what to do next- management consulting. Got to work 80 plus hours, pretended like I knew a lot about ‘best practices’ in industries I had never even heard of and lived at the concierge lounge at your local Marriott. Once I was able to palm my platinum status, there seemed no need to continue onward, so I opted to live in the African bush for two years pondering life and trying to make my existence mean something in a more noble context.

Earned my celestial stripes – went back to school so I could have student debt and now I am gainfully employed in a job I love. With the professional life in check, it seems the personal life could use a little help.
What I’m doing with my life
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Yep, I'm one of "those" people who actually loves what they do... I get to be challenged with life-saving problems in exotic and remote locations...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
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The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Varied tastes concerning books...

I tried to expand my musical tastes beyond what's spoonfed on radio and at clubs... but that usually requires dedicated time which only happens sparodically...

I am currently being schooled by a foodie friend – year’s end I hope to have earned the moniker of “foodie” as well… make no mistake though, I like eating food much more than preparing it. So romanticized images of me cooking a candlelight dinner should be squashed quickly.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Microsoft Excel
Wrinkle free shirts
Something I am sure I have yet to discover
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Pocket lint… and World Peace. From the mundane to the grandiose. I think about how I fit into this big space and how I might make some small contribution to it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
trying to stay awake- cumulative sleep deprivation usually catches up with me
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can entertain myself for hours popping bubble wrap
You should message me if
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If you are keen to strike up a conversation with a grounded, normal guy...